@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey... cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! No,actually it's not my case here! But I've been seeing cases around me,and those women were really unhappy
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert!  Wetin be all this? why not reply with world rather than smileys! I go VEX for you O? Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? ya, they are little things but i dnt play around wit my food girl  of course i wouldnt want him running to tell his mama everything but if we had a guideline of wat should be kept between us then he would understand and take my feelings into consideration. he's a man and he should know where to draw the boundaries Well,that's the problem with those guys!The term of "boundaries " doesn't exist when it's about his mommy
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! No,actually it's not my case here! But I've been seeing cases around me,and those women were really unhappy I know! Just felt like pulling your legs a bit before leaving tonight! So how have you been all along? Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! No,actually it's not my case here! But I've been seeing cases around me,and those women were really unhappy I know! Just felt like pulling your legs a bit before leaving tonight! So how have you been all along? Aha!I understood Well,fighting with this thing called life and everything which involves it!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Beauti4 at 28-06-2010 08:22 PM (14 years ago) (f) its better to have mommy's boy than to hve some1 who pretend to b ya good friend until he/she hve stolen your blongins. Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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erikaakpan at 28-06-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) (f) nice talkin to u hun! gotta go to work! takia!
Flirtation: Attention without intention. Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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nice talkin to u hun! gotta go to work! takia!
Likewise! Have a good shift!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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its better to have mommy's boy than to hve some1 who pretend to b ya good friend until he/she hve stolen your blongins.
I dey feel you baby girl! Carry Go!! Nothing do you!!! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. It seems that some ppl have taken it otherwise! Like I was arguing the love of a guy for his mom or something! It's not about that at all! If a guy doesn't love his mother, then what a girl should expect from such a man? Pheew!Complicated!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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its better to have mommy's boy than to hve some1 who pretend to b ya good friend until he/she hve stolen your blongins.
That's another matter, my dear
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! No,actually it's not my case here! But I've been seeing cases around me,and those women were really unhappy I know! Just felt like pulling your legs a bit before leaving tonight! So how have you been all along? Aha!I understood Well,fighting with this thing called life and everything which involves it! At last I can say Good Night without a guilty conscience of offense against a friend! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Whoever that finds herself in a relationship with mommy's boy should come to Bittersweet cos she knows best...
 Is it a lie?___I have been thinking how you managed to cope with that Mommy's boy of yours? I guess you are an expert! No,actually it's not my case here! But I've been seeing cases around me,and those women were really unhappy I know! Just felt like pulling your legs a bit before leaving tonight! So how have you been all along? Aha!I understood Well,fighting with this thing called life and everything which involves it! At last I can say Good Night without a guilty conscience of offense against a friend! :)Good night to you too!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. It seems that some ppl have taken it otherwise! Like I was arguing the love of a guy for his mom or something! It's not about that at all! If a guy doesn't love his mother, then what a girl should expect from such a man? Pheew!Complicated! Hahaha----you will never stop amusing me without knowing you are this funny Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@ bittersweet.. Dont u think u loose a lot of things in life when u just take it this or that.... Sometimes i rily like it when my bf wants it black and i want it white, tht i can make it grey...
cuz i always luv d feelin of giving more then taking
Could you live a life when you would have to give up all the time? Even when you know that you shouldn't? I agree that to give and make ppl happy it's a great feeling, but not by force @ bittersweet, flymama gave a good example of wat compromising should be like...its not by force. its jus to make the both of u satisfied you can't be satisfied by giving up at who you are all the time its not all the time.. another example...my hubby loves to eat his peppasoup really spicy and i dnt kno how to cook it like he likes it...i dnt like my food spicy, so i have to make it spicy enough to where i can tolerate to eat it...another, he like fufu wit okra and egusi mixed together, and i dnt like okra in my fufu...so i have cook mine separate....he likes his stew wit fish that have bones and i dnt like fish with bones, so i have to substitute it wit some other meat i like. people feel that compromise takes away from who they are as an individual, or is a sign of weakness or makes them appear to be the passive partner in a relationship. Compromise is nothing like that at all unless u make the wrong compromises! My dear,these are little things, which I don't even call them compromises! But would you like your guy to run to his mom all the time,without taking in consideration your desires/feelings, if his mom told him another thing? That makes him IMMATURE___I guess it would be better for him to have gotten married to his MOMMY Thanks God that a guy understood exactly what it's all about! Kudos to you! So you mean no guy understood what you meant? Sorry for the laughs at the start of the post----I found it stinkingly funny! Cos both couples will journey into a WORLD called MUGU WORLD. It seems that some ppl have taken it otherwise! Like I was arguing the love of a guy for his mom or something! It's not about that at all! If a guy doesn't love his mother, then what a girl should expect from such a man? Pheew!Complicated! Hahaha----you will never stop amusing me without knowing you are this funny Am I funny? True, I didn't knew it
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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its better to have mommy's boy than to hve some1 who pretend to b ya good friend until he/she hve stolen your blongins.
That's another matter, my dear Yes its another matter for TOMORROW? Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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its better to have mommy's boy than to hve some1 who pretend to b ya good friend until he/she hve stolen your blongins.
That's another matter, my dear Yes its another matter for TOMORROW? Pheew!I don't even go there!
Live and let live! Posted: at 28-06-2010 08:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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