I think It's my fault.

Date: 04-07-2010 6:38 pm (14 years ago) | Author: chris.i.chukwu
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- at 4-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago)
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I had a problem with my girl last 3 months and i decided to go out on one sunday to a fun park without her for a relaxation and reflection. I met a girl on that day who was heart broken by a man she trusted so much and she was cryin a heavy heart. After hearin her story, i try to comfort her and through out two weeks i was callin her on a regular to know how she was doin, we went out together for about to 5 times to romatic places so that i can make her forget her sorrow and we end up having french kisses in two occasions and i never told her my own side of the story. My girl came back apologizing for mistakes and we resolved our indifferences and i didn't call her (the other girl) for about 3 days and my no was not on so she came to look for of in the house and was suprise when my girl opened the door. It caused a lot misunderstanding and now am losin both. The question is.. Who am i suppose to go and beg for for forgiveness. Cos am still in love with my girl and the other girl has fallen in love with me.   

Posted: at 4-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Hope you realize in what kind of mess you got in,by yourself, because you didn't use the right head!
If your girl would forgive you, who will warrant her that at your next fight you'll not do the same?

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 4-07-2010 07:17 PM (14 years ago)
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guy this is indeed a tragedy---you are in a big mess right now.
Hmmm I think you've made yourself a bigger fool by not letting the
other girl know about your on side of the story before the mess up.
Try and plead with the other girl and make her see reasons with you
in order for her not to think all men are thesame.Then later tell your
girlfriend how it all happened.I am sure they will both understand and
things will go back to normal with time.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:20 PM (14 years ago)
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U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all


It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing?
You're not serious!
If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Huh?
Come ooooooooooooon!

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 4-07-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago)
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I think your real girlfriend will understand if u explain to her . After all she did not see you in bed with the new girl

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 4-07-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago)
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He has done something wrong by falling her while
in the midst of comforting her!
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 4-07-2010 07:34 PM (14 years ago)
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phyuking relationship....i pray none of them forgive you.

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all


It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing?
You're not serious!
If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Huh?
Come ooooooooooooon!


Why not see it this way
He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir
when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe
might be attempting suicide but for the early
intervention of this dude...he just saved a life
his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart

@ Poster, i admirer U  Grin
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 4-07-2010 07:39 PM (14 years ago)
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He did well but i think he owes his girl an explanation . i believe she will understand and forgive her

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 4-07-2010 07:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  4-07-2010 07:34 PM
phyuking relationship....i pray none of them forgive you.

hehe---pls do show some iota of mercy.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all


It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing?
You're not serious!
If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Huh?
Come ooooooooooooon!


Why not see it this way
He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir
when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe
might be attempting suicide but for the early
intervention of this dude...he just saved a life
his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart

@ Poster, i admirer U  Grin


I'm not surprised you admire him!
But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone!
I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them!
Come on!

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- oghes at 4-07-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago)
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put them in a stage fight the winner gets the man.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:48 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:43 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all


It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing?
You're not serious!
If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Huh?
Come ooooooooooooon!


Why not see it this way
He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir
when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe
might be attempting suicide but for the early
intervention of this dude...he just saved a life
his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart

@ Poster, i admirer U  Grin


I'm not surprised you admire him!
But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone!
I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them!
Come on!


Sometimes the flesh aint strong enuf to fight
such temptations, he's a gentle man, he obliged her
and saved her. Who knows, the gf should be understanding

Again, its not his fault that he helped sm1 and it lead
to somethin else, shit happens
If the gf wants him back, she should be understanding
why being greedy...wanting to monopolise the guy

For wetin na  Sad
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oghes on  4-07-2010 07:48 PM
put them in a stage fight the winner gets the man.



Correct girl...U sabi jor
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:43 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on  4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong
God loves a cheerful giver
U helped a needy when she needed sm1
most. distribute the love becos if God loves
just one person, others wont be living

Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving
to all


It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing?
You're not serious!
If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Huh?
Come ooooooooooooon!


Why not see it this way
He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir
when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe
might be attempting suicide but for the early
intervention of this dude...he just saved a life
his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart

@ Poster, i admirer U  Grin


I'm not surprised you admire him!
But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone!
I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them!
Come on!


Sometimes the flesh aint strong enuf to fight
such temptations, he's a gentle man, he obliged her
and saved her. Who knows, the gf should be understanding

Again, its not his fault that he helped sm1 and it lead
to somethin else, shit happens
If the gf wants him back, she should be understanding
why being greedy...wanting to monopolise the guy

For wetin na  Sad


Thanks God you admitted that it's a s**t!

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 4-07-2010 07:58 PM (14 years ago)
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poster i admire ur big heart.... u re just like moi

anyways... it's a matter of talking things over...

since u love ur gurl then try and mend fences with her first.
and then maybe u should take ur gurl (that's after u ve both sorted things out) to see the other and try to explain things to her...
if ur gurl is matured enough then i guess she can play a part here and may even become friends with the other gurl.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on  4-07-2010 07:58 PM
poster i admire ur big heart.... u re just like moi

anyways... it's a matter of talking things over...

since u love ur gurl then try and mend fences with her first.
and then maybe u should take ur gurl (that's after u ve both sorted things out) to see the other and try to explain things to her...
if ur gurl is matured enough then i guess she can play a part here and may even become friends with the other gurl.


Word Up brother
U is the man 
Wink
Posted: at 4-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 4-07-2010 08:11 PM (14 years ago)
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bros i dey follow u and Kennee 4 back oooo........

na una be chairmen........  Grin
Posted: at 4-07-2010 08:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 4-07-2010 08:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oghes on  4-07-2010 07:48 PM
put them in a stage fight the winner gets the man.


Survival for the FITTEST
Posted: at 4-07-2010 08:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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