I dont really know if i will call this love or effects of poverty. Every morning, my neighbour will wake up to wash their pot and clean the house while the wife is still sleeping.
Every weekend he will gather all the cloth they used for week and wash including the wife's rapper.
The youngman will be the one to go out to fetch water and atimes u see him cooking. I don dey observe this thing for long and i am planning to ask d man WHY?
HOW MANY GUYS HERE CAN DO ALL THIS FOR LOVE? how many ladies here will allow their hubby do it?
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
I don't see anything wrong in that! I know guys who are doing that without any problem! And are not poor or jobless guys,but even from the army or police department! Tough guys, but who really love and respect their wives, and are not ashamed to help them! They have all my respect!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 6-07-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) (f)
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
i will not force him to do those things but if i find out he derives joy in doing them , i will not stop him . All i want is his happiness
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessedme on 6-07-2010 01:24 PM
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
Let's not exaggerating! Do you know anything about me or my life, for making that absurd comments?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
u BE PROPER African, oyinbo people and their wahala.
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: waco on 6-07-2010 01:28 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 6-07-2010 01:24 PM
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
u BE PROPER African, oyinbo people and their wahala.
It's no wahala,Waco! It's evolution and mutual respect!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
WACO tht ur story makes me laff. tht guy reminds me of those lazy ass jobless guys who depends on their wives for survival or accepts their wives as head of the house.
for me, whn it comes to house chores even as a bachelor, count me out. the only thing i do is to clean my house cos i hate dirty environment. i dnt even cook even though i knw hw to cook. so why on earth will i do all these things for my wife? unless she's seriously ill.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: waco on 6-07-2010 01:35 PM
evolution in what sense? that ur hubby will be doing ur house chores? when u r ok?
u dare not mention to it to an Igbo man no matter d level of education.
No,my friend! You got me wrong! Not when I'm ok!When I'm able to do it,I prefer to do it by myself! I'm referring at him helping when I can't handle it!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
u BE PROPER African, oyinbo people and their wahala.
It's no wahala,Waco! It's evolution and mutual respect!
not for the folding of hands and sleeping while its day, remember nobody is a bread winner in such case
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 6-07-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-07-2010 01:12 PM
I don't see anything wrong in that! I know guys who are doing that without any problem! And are not poor or jobless guys,but even from the army or police department! Tough guys, but who really love and respect their wives, and are not ashamed to help them! They have all my respect!
well truely i dnt knw anything abt u so also u. But some comment on our post realy makes who we are A husband is ment to be respected and love by d wife and not to go around doin what d wife is suppose to do
Fine if he goes out of his way to help d wife so be it but not to turn it to a daily basis thing or a homework that must be done by him
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wallas on 6-07-2010 01:40 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-07-2010 01:32 PM
Quote from: waco on 6-07-2010 01:28 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 6-07-2010 01:24 PM
A good & loving hubby should help d wife wif somfins but not to that extend of the wife sleepin and d hubby doin all d house chores Gosh!!! That is rubbish madness
@bittersweet u should ve even turn ur hubby to a house boy or toy boy
u BE PROPER African, oyinbo people and their wahala.
It's no wahala,Waco! It's evolution and mutual respect!
not for the folding of hands and sleeping while its day, remember nobody is a bread winner in such case
I'm not that type at all! Everything I can do by myself, will be done by me alone! How could I stay folded arms while watching him working?That's not me! Only in those cases when I can't handle things, from a reason or another!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Wahala don burst na him be that na WACO! One thing I know is that there is nothing wrong in a man rendering some helping hands to the wife especially in her domestic works.BUT this situation you talked about is far different from help:I think the man is either a woman wrapper or HE is under a spell.How can a normal man behave thus and the wife will be happy stretching her ugly ass sleeping in the bed just like that; as if all is well?
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-07-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessedme on 6-07-2010 01:47 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-07-2010 01:12 PM
I don't see anything wrong in that! I know guys who are doing that without any problem! And are not poor or jobless guys,but even from the army or police department! Tough guys, but who really love and respect their wives, and are not ashamed to help them! They have all my respect!
well truely i dnt knw anything abt u so also u. But some comment on our post realy makes who we are A husband is ment to be respected and love by d wife and not to go around doin what d wife is suppose to do
Fine if he goes out of his way to help d wife so be it but not to turn it to a daily basis thing or a homework that must be done by him
If you get sick, or if sometimes you can't do absolutely everything from various reasons (bcs u really can't, not bcz u don't want to! ),then he's not suppose to help u or what?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet i feel u now. i thought u were saying he will do it when u r ok.
cos me no fit do am except she no well. I remember during my University days, my babe had an accident and had a serious dislocation. i was d one washing her pants althru
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 6-07-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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