Is It Bad?

For a lady 2 accept a proposal from a guy friend 2 take her out shopping?

I dunno i find it kinda hard accepting things from guys 2 even talk of dem taking me out & stuff....because they can be very funny and perhaps because of d way i have been brought up.

Sometimes i see it as being a golddigger/cheat something along dat line cause d guy is giving u all these things but u ain't really giving anyfin in return?wat can u give 2 a guy in return other than s*x?that he can be equally appreciated?

We'll my question still stands should a lady spend a guys money just because he's willing 2 give

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

no

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

And you think all the money in the world is worth a woman's body?.............

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

@Diplo he's just ur friend and willing 2 take u out shopping?

@DP umm never said dat o i said except 4 intimacy o...but can u?

Abeg u guys no dey pretend o.

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:19 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Ladies Matter

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

It's not bad?...so can u take a lady friend out shopping without expecting anyin in return or feeling like a slow-poke?

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

No actually because it involves 2 people man & woman...man the spender women the shopper ....so have u taken a gurl out shopping b4?gf?friend?

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Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

if is a boyfriend,..then is ok...

Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

that's the thing...u might come later reminding me of all the money u spent on ME..WTF?. ...watched it happen to some chick..so i never say no...but sometimes,...when they buy it without my consent,..is better cuz is like a present..i always buy presents ofr people too...

Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Goat pikin resemble goat.

If he gives U gifts and takes U shopping, give him gifts and take him shopping or just say thank U and mean it if he is just doing it cos he feels like it and not to get something in return. He's either appreciating U or something about U he cherishes by spending on U or he's lobbying U to give him something.

It really depends somewhat on the kind of relationship U have with him. More often when a guy splurges on U and U are not in a relationship with him that warrants that as a result of how close U tow are, he is lobbying U for sex; especially if U feel u don't deserve it or have not done anything deserving of it.

What choices U make are up to u. to receive and repay or to say turn down the gifts politely yet firmly.

Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero