![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 16-07-2010 05:34 PM (14 years ago)  (f) @Diplo he's just ur friend and willing 2 take u out shopping?
@DP umm never said dat o i said except 4 intimacy o...but can u?
Abeg u guys no dey pretend o.
not when i have a man, if its a birthday gift then find anything else will be a "no thank you"...if my man approves of the shopping sure why not 
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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WILL UR MAN EVER APPROVE OF THE SHOPPING?... | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sexy_error") sexy_error at 16-07-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) (f) For a lady 2 accept a proposal from a guy friend 2 take her out shopping?
I dunno i find it kinda hard accepting things from guys 2 even talk of dem taking me out & stuff....because they can be very funny and perhaps because of d way i have been brought up.
Sometimes i see it as being a golddigger/cheat something along dat line cause d guy is giving u all these things but u ain't really giving anyfin in return?wat can u give 2 a guy in return other than s*x?that he can be equally appreciated?
We'll my question still stands should a lady spend a guys money just because he's willing 2 give
mmmmm | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 16-07-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies Matter
No actually because it involves 2 people man & woman...man the spender women the shopper  ....so have u taken a gurl out shopping b4?gf?friend? Haa!! To Nigerian Girls, it's their right na So l don't think there's any Guy over here dat has not Done it b4
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 16-07-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago) (f) WILL UR MAN EVER APPROVE OF THE SHOPPING?...
maybe hey BBP whats up babe?
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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im ol earzzzzzzzzzzz................ | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mat-James") mat-James at 16-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) (m) @Blackberrypearl, baby gurl read d post again, u see som gurls always demandin & neva appreciatin or givin in return, av 2 switch off ma set dis aafternoon, cos of such issues. I appreciate and do help the opposite behaviour if their is honesty in it. | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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@PI...............if my man offers to take me shopping, I dont see nothing wrong in it..........but the problem would be when we (ladies) see it as the guys duty to cater for our needs.......... If you are talking about dating one and accepting gift from another, I would say a capital NO..........like my mum would say, there are strings attached to those gifts, so get ready to pay.........am not ready to pay....besides, am always content with what I got, depending on what my hand can provide rather than what a guy can give me (my guy or not)...............shey I don answer ur question now???........I wan begin go oo, wey sophie, come carry me with that ur picanto abeg......lol.....goodnite all!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@Blackberrypearl,
baby gurl read d post again,
u see som gurls always demandin & neva appreciatin or givin in return,
av 2 switch off ma set dis aafternoon, cos of such issues.
I appreciate and do help the opposite behaviour if their is honesty in it.
dats good..........but it should be voluntary, dont let no one make it mandatory........... 
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-07-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago) (m) Goat pikin resemble goat.
If he gives U gifts and takes U shopping, give him gifts and take him shopping or just say thank U and mean it if he is just doing it cos he feels like it and not to get something in return. He's either appreciating U or something about U he cherishes by spending on U or he's lobbying U to give him something.
It really depends somewhat on the kind of relationship U have with him. More often when a guy splurges on U and U are not in a relationship with him that warrants that as a result of how close U tow are, he is lobbying U for sex; especially if U feel u don't deserve it or have not done anything deserving of it.
What choices U make are up to u. to receive and repay or to say turn down the gifts politely yet firmly.
sometimes u never knw why he is asking....he can use to fact that girls like shopping to lure u to him..which is absolutely wrong... If it doesnt feel right or merited then it probably isn't. Girls wey dey chop awuf know say na awuf dem dey chop. Wetin dem no dey think na say dem go need pay up sometime and usualy no be when dem expect guy man go request. All's fair in luv and war. | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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WILL UR MAN EVER APPROVE OF THE SHOPPING?...
maybe hey BBP whats up babe? LOL...SOUNDS NOT LIKE A PLAN TO ME... | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 16-07-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago) (f) @ post...i feel kinda bad when a guy is spending a lot of money on me when we arent any any kind of relationship. wat is it comes to a point to where he says i been doing such and such for u, spending all this money on u and when he ask for something in return, u dont agree. it kinda make u feel a sense of guilt
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@Blackberrypearl,
baby gurl read d post again,
u see som gurls always demandin & neva appreciatin or givin in return,
av 2 switch off ma set dis aafternoon, cos of such issues.
I appreciate and do help the opposite behaviour if their is honesty in it.
I GUESS U READ WRONG...DEMANDING IS DIFFERENT FROM U OFFERING...WE DIDN'T ASK U TO OFFER...U DECIDED TO OFFER URSELF... | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 16-07-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) (f) WILL UR MAN EVER APPROVE OF THE SHOPPING?...
maybe hey BBP whats up babe? LOL...SOUNDS NOT LIKE A PLAN TO ME... na he won't agree for such... besides i won't go anyways
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Goat pikin resemble goat.
If he gives U gifts and takes U shopping, give him gifts and take him shopping or just say thank U and mean it if he is just doing it cos he feels like it and not to get something in return. He's either appreciating U or something about U he cherishes by spending on U or he's lobbying U to give him something.
It really depends somewhat on the kind of relationship U have with him. More often when a guy splurges on U and U are not in a relationship with him that warrants that as a result of how close U tow are, he is lobbying U for sex; especially if U feel u don't deserve it or have not done anything deserving of it.
What choices U make are up to u. to receive and repay or to say turn down the gifts politely yet firmly.
sometimes u never knw why he is asking....he can use to fact that girls like shopping to lure u to him..which is absolutely wrong... If it doesnt feel right or merited then it probably isn't. Girls wey dey chop awuf know say na awuf dem dey chop. Wetin dem no dey think na say dem go need pay up sometime and usualy no be when dem expect guy man go request. All's fair in luv and war. NOT ALL GIRLS THAT WOULD ACCEPT A GUYS OFFER FOR SHOPPING KNWS WHAT'S ON THEIR MIND...BUT THE THING IS MOST GUYS ALWAYS WANTS SOMETHING IN RETURN...BUT HOW THE HELL WOULD A GIRL SUSPECT THAT U ASKING HER TO SPEND A LIL MONEY ON HER WOULD TURN INTO SOMETHING SO DRASTIC?.... | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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WILL UR MAN EVER APPROVE OF THE SHOPPING?...
maybe hey BBP whats up babe? LOL...SOUNDS NOT LIKE A PLAN TO ME... na he won't agree for such... besides i won't go anyways THANKS HUN...THE SMART THINKERS WOULDN'T ACCEPT...BUT ALL THEM GUYS ALWAY ASK THE WRONG GROUP WHO WOULD ALWAYS SAY YES...BUT THEN DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING...CUZ U SPENDING MONEY DOESN'T MEAN SHIT TO US..U GOT THE MONEY THAT'S Y UR SPENDING..... AM GUD GIRL SUP WITH U?..... | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Ladies Matter
No actually because it involves 2 people man & woman...man the spender women the shopper ....so have u taken a gurl out shopping b4?gf?friend? Haa!! To Nigerian Girls, it's their right na So l don't think there's any Guy over here dat has not Done it b4
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "eagleseyez") eagleseyez at 16-07-2010 05:55 PM (14 years ago) (m) Ladies y are y'all actin like u dont spend a guys money
a lil truth would do... haba! make una stop the forming
As a guy taking a girl out on a shopping spree could be romantic
but personaly not my style, i rather give her da money to buy
wth reasons, I can only take my wife out wth reasons | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@ post...i feel kinda bad when a guy is spending a lot of money on me when we arent any any kind of relationship.
wat is it comes to a point to where he says i been doing such and such for u, spending all this money on u and when he ask for something in return, u dont agree. it kinda make u feel a sense of guilt
Hmmm true but u guys r friends na he just wants 2 take u out shopping na crime? 
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 16-07-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) (f) Ladies y are y'all actin like u dont spend a guys money
a lil truth would do... haba! make una stop the forming
As a guy taking a girl out on a shopping spree could be romantic
but personaly not my style, i rather give her da money to buy
wth reasons, I can only take my wife out wth reasons oya, take me out then
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 16-07-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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