Mumu....

She's a friend of mine since i was 10 years old. I mean just a mere friends. I love her as a friend and i think she also does. we departed when i was 18years to pursue further education in different areas. Now, i'm 24years old, She's back and we are both working in different firms but in same state. our house is 1 mile away from each other. She always spend 4hrs of her weekends hrs in my house. We play like brother and sister, Sitting on my legs, climbing and backing on each other etc. But Now, I can see in her face, she want me into sex. I tried to ignore many of her signs and tempts but all she could suddenly call me is mumu.

I asked her why she sudden change my name to mumu, she said i don't understand simple signs... Simple signs! what signs? I asked. Never bother, she answered. Then i warned her not to call me that name again since she don't want me to know the reason behind it.

But sometimes the name still slip out of her tongue....

What can i do?

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:19 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Not Really Mum, I have in mind that if such thing happen between me and her we could loose our respect for each other. I love her as a friend and i wish not to loose her now.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Good!.......then dont let her words make you go insane............apparently, she is the mumu in this case, that should console you!

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Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

A determined guy will get away in the end. The longer U keep her at bay the more disinterested she will find U. Meanwyl U should stop indulging her comfort levels with U cos she won't stop flirting and Ur rep myt go thru mud before she gets over U.

Be a man and take charge. Don't give her what she want's just cos she want's it. Give her only what U want to give.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Why is she a mumu, faithaina?

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I'm scared she might call me that name in midst of friends and that might lead to what i think i might regret at end.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

So be firm and warn her sternly in a very calm and mature tone. Don't say it with a friendly smile. Look her in the eye when U tell her to refrain from mocking U.

U say she's Ur friend. Talk to her. If Ur communication has grown into a bodily one over the years, chances are she will listen to U.

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

poster!! The question is do u love the girl in question enof to date her?
if yes then stop pretending and tell her ow u feel about her cos from
look of things she loves u and want u to say sumfin

if not then simply avoid her and tell her to look else where
coz any good r/ship has never existed btw the cat and d mouse
or the rat n d fish

A girl cannot possibly spend hours in ya house and with all d plays
jumping and d likes, and u expect chemistry not to function

Common act fast b4 it too late

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

U be faith?

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

how

Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming