HE WAS TOLD; HE IS NOT HIS SON AFTER 8 YEARS (Page 3)

Date: 27-08-2010 1:01 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Ogbodo Jude
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- Alex11 at 27-08-2010 06:29 PM (13 years ago)
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WHAT A BLOW?Huh??
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- NaijaGal_USA at 27-08-2010 06:43 PM (13 years ago)
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wow! That's sad... He falls in love with the kid who he thinks is his son but all this while it was just a lie...
Posted: at 27-08-2010 06:43 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Treasure2 at 27-08-2010 06:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: tantabanana on 27-08-2010 06:15 PM
As it stands, the wife has already created a very big doubt with regard to the real paternity of the two daughters. He should also conduct DNA test on all of them have peace of mind. For the boy, he should be given to his real father while the wife should be divorced immediately.

GBAM.
Posted: at 27-08-2010 06:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- tantabanana at 27-08-2010 06:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Treasure, how na?
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- tyabo at 27-08-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 27-08-2010 03:10 PM
Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?
shit...over my dead body will i condone a bastard under my roof..i will divorce de woman and de three kids will go with her...lemme start a new life
Esonu dz ur decision na helele..bcoz of 1 biatch misfortune i go come write-off my own blood..man dat shit ain't gonna happen ma children r goin no where...bt as 4 d biatch amma get her ass whooped out of ma house...bt 4 d children dat 1 na NO GO AREA..mbaa biko nu..
Posted: at 27-08-2010 07:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- icecold4eva at 27-08-2010 07:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 27-08-2010 03:10 PM

hmmmmmm i guess u don't understand de post....yes i might have impregnated a gurl before i met her but was it some days before our wedding? each one of us has a past but for u to get pregnant for another man when u have seen someone whom will marry u and u still kept quiet, wedded de man, gave birth to a BASTARD AND HANGED IT ON DE MANS HEAD AS DE FATHER OF THE BABY, mehn its too bad..if it is me, i can never forgive such a woman
It's not what you say that makes you tough or intelligent.You've only made yourself sound mad illeterate with your responses...why the hate,even chauvinists don't dislike women dis much.
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- macgreat at 27-08-2010 07:43 PM (13 years ago)
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It happens a lot...

Infact... it started in 1975, it's been confirmed that most couples first child and the husband are not biologically related, and the worst part the wife always know.

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- I_montee at 27-08-2010 09:03 PM (13 years ago)
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FIRST, I WILL RUN A DNA TEST ON THE REMAINING 2 GIRLS. I WILL KEEP THE ONES THAT ARE MINE AND RETURN THE ONES THAT ISNT MINE.AND DEFINATLY DIVORCE FROM THAT SO CALLED WIFE OF A WOMAN.
Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:03 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 09:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?

The Child will always remind him of dis Sad Situation

D Choice is his anyway

Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 09:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 27-08-2010 07:43 PM
It happens a lot...

Infact... it started in 1975, it's been confirmed that most couples first child and the husband are not biologically related, and the worst part the wife always know.

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- mat-James at 27-08-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: I_montee on 27-08-2010 09:03 PM
FIRST, I WILL RUN A DNA TEST ON THE REMAINING 2 GIRLS. I WILL KEEP THE ONES THAT ARE MINE AND RETURN THE ONES THAT ISNT MINE.AND DEFINATLY DIVORCE FROM THAT SO CALLED WIFE OF A WOMAN.
true talk, and 4 woman to stayed without tellin her husband dis secret,
until the ex-boyfriend himself come to ask 4 wat belongs to him;
the integrity of dat woman is questionable,
even if she will still remain in dat man's house
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- ksurrina at 27-08-2010 09:13 PM (13 years ago)
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There is no Sins without consequences no matter how long it takes to come to light.   King David sins were committed in secret but God place it into the light. I pray that our good Lord will give this man strength to come out of his depression that he had fallen into. Now all they need to do is change the little boy's name and give him his right father's name. So it happen that two of them were having sex with the same woman aka segxwal Sins. The first one proposed marriage she took. All the devil give is shame and disgrace and we humans will never learn.

Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 27-08-2010 09:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 27-08-2010 07:43 PM
It happens a lot...

Infact... it started in 1975, it's been confirmed that most couples first child and the husband are not biologically related, and the worst part the wife always know.

lol It started long before 1975. My father's sister is not his father's and she was born long before 1975. The children know after the death of my grandfather. So you see deception started from the Garden of Eden. So if you want to put a beginning then you have to go right there.  Grin

Posted: at 27-08-2010 09:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- preetydiva at 27-08-2010 09:22 PM (13 years ago)
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 In times like this FORGIVENESS is the only solution.... despite the fact that he now knows that the boy is not his child he should also realize that the ex- boyfriend of the wife is only  coming to claiming the child now after 7 years just to ruin their marriage and cause trouble. The little boy should also be put into consideration in this matter since the only father he has come to know is the mother's husband ...so b4 rash and angry decision are taken they should all consider the " little boy" before they completely injure this child pyscologically . Forgive just as God has forgiven us all.
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 10:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: preetydiva on 27-08-2010 09:22 PM
In times like this FORGIVENESS is the only solution.... despite the fact that he now knows that the boy is not his child he should also realize that the ex- boyfriend of the wife is only  coming to claiming the child now after 7 years just to ruin their marriage and cause trouble. The little boy should also be put into consideration in this matter since the only father he has come to know is the mother's husband ...so b4 rash and angry decision are taken they should all consider the " little boy" before they completely injure this child pyscologically . Forgive just as God has forgiven us all.

Funny how yu Women just expect forgiveness for such Wicked act  Undecided

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- mydicksweet at 27-08-2010 10:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Prittydiva u have said it all.such is life. will all make mistake's no one is perfect.i'm not trying to say what she did was right(the woman)she didnt tell the man(her husband)all this while it is bcz of the fact that she's scared and dont want to hurt the man.she knew deep down in her heart that someday the truth will be out.put urself in her shoe's plz.we are human's. she kept on with her ex maybe bcz she wasn't sure if her husband will marry her and that maybe she has been heart broken b4 in the past my pals plz there's alot to this story than we know.dont jump into conclustion just by listening to just one side of a story and like i said earlier there's alot to this whole story than we know.women this days keep two men or more just incase one didnt workout the other will.i guess that's the game she played.i think the best thing that her husband need to do is to give back the child to his real father since the real father is insisting to have his child back.divorceing the woman dont make any sence.as a man with God's fearing let him 4give and 4get the damage has already been done he cant turn back the hands of time.but anyway i'm still on my beer i wish him goodluck
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- Kennee at 27-08-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Abeg abeg abeg what kinda rubbish Scared is she??? Hissssss

Wicked-hearted/Deceptive human Beings should not be excused

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- cyndi3 at 28-08-2010 05:12 AM (13 years ago)
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This is the kind of news that makes most men to commit murder!
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- desiresluv20 at 28-08-2010 11:14 AM (13 years ago)
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Abeg my friends, this is a hard situation here.

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- agabs at 28-08-2010 12:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 27-08-2010 09:08 PM
Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?

The Child will always remind him of dis Sad Situation

D Choice is his anyway
Kennee, but, if the man let go of the love wey him get for that boy, him no go dey thesame, everybody go suffer, im daugters go suffer and im mental go suffer.

He must be very careful of showing hatred towards that boy, cause if im hate that boy then im d hate himself because him don already love that boy like a son.

Im must be very careful not to hate that boy. Very very careful. That boy na Ikemefuna and his guardian must never hurt him cause he calls him father. The universe no d sleep.

If the man na gentle and soft person and religous person, the wise thing would be to forgive his wife, deny the father of his son, and keep the family together for the sake of his daughters and his adopted son.

If the man no be gentle and religious person, if im na typical African man wey no d take nonsense, he should let the boy go, disown his wife, and keep his daughters.

The question now becomes to marry or not to marry? And if im marry a new wife, should he bring the wife into thesame house with his daugters? She no go kill them? Hmn!.

This one hard.
Posted: at 28-08-2010 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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