A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?
The Child will always remind him of dis Sad Situation
D Choice is his anyway
Kennee, but, if the man let go of the love wey him get for that boy, him no go dey thesame, everybody go suffer, im daugters go suffer and im mental go suffer.
He must be very careful of showing hatred towards that boy, cause if im hate that boy then im d hate himself because him don already love that boy like a son.
Im must be very careful not to hate that boy. Very very careful. That boy na Ikemefuna and his guardian must never hurt him cause he calls him father. The universe no d sleep.
If the man na gentle and soft person and religous person, the wise thing would be to forgive his wife, deny the father of his son, and keep the family together for the sake of his daughters and his adopted son.
If the man no be gentle and religious person, if im na typical African man wey no d take nonsense, he should let the boy go, disown his wife, and keep his daughters.
The question now becomes to marry or not to marry? And if im marry a new wife, should he bring the wife into thesame house with his daugters? She no go kill them? Hmn!.
This one hard.
Posted: at 28-08-2010 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming |
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