HE WAS TOLD; HE IS NOT HIS SON AFTER 8 YEARS (Page 5)

Date: 27-08-2010 1:01 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Ogbodo Jude
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- mazi at 30-08-2010 03:30 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 27-08-2010 01:39 PM
let him recover first

hmmm....dis is very serious!
poor man, are u sure he gonna recover fully again?
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:30 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiln at 30-08-2010 03:44 PM (10 years ago)
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DIS IS SERIOUS.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 03:44 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- stanisdore at 30-08-2010 04:08 PM (10 years ago)
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the ma should run away 4 them
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- do4sure at 30-08-2010 04:30 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 27-08-2010 03:10 PM
Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?
shit...over my dead body will i condone a bastard under my roof..i will divorce de woman and de three kids will go with her...lemme start a new life THE BOY IS NOT A BASTARD,THE FATHER HAS SHOWN UP.I WILL GET A DNA TEST ON THE GIRLS AND IF THEY WERE PROVED TO BE MINE I WILL MAKE SURE I SEPARATED THEM FROM THERE BCOS SHE WAS NOT A GOOD ROLE MODEL FOR MY DAUGHTERS.AS FOR MARRIAGE IT IS OVER BCOS CAN NEVER TRUST HER AGAIN.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:30 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- femnik at 30-08-2010 04:33 PM (10 years ago)
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any way i will advice he allows the boy go with the father, forgive his wife and move on with life. God will give him his own Son. its never late.
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- do4sure at 30-08-2010 04:56 PM (10 years ago)
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IT IS EASIER SAID THAN DONE.TRUST THAT WAS VERY VITAL RELATIONSHIP HAVE COME TO QUESTIONING IN THIS ISSUE. A TRUST BETRAYED IS ALWAYS DIFFICULT TO RE-ESTABLISH AGAIN.YOUR WIFE CHEATED YOU A DAY TO YOUR MARRIAGE AND STILL CONTINUED TILL 7YRS AFTER THE SAME MARRIAGE AND YOU ADVICE THE MAN IF HE SURVIVED THE SHOCK TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER SHOCK.PLS LET US NOT MAKE OURSELVES GOD.
Posted: at 30-08-2010 04:56 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wunzie at 30-08-2010 05:47 PM (10 years ago)
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Wonders shall never end!! A Promiscuous woman is not worthy of a honourable man. I think the man should.....don't even know what to advise.  This is some serious shit.

Posted: at 30-08-2010 05:47 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Esexy5 at 30-08-2010 06:46 PM (10 years ago)
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That boy having been calling him daddy for 7 good years of his life..... He has always have a family..... father, mother and two sisters.

This is my Advice

fight for the comstudy of the child. DNA/COMFESSION nonsense, if not for anything but for the sake of the child.

As for the woman, she has lost the trust of her husband its now left for her to win her husband's love back. its really a shame of her  to indugin in such dirty game even when she was already plaining for her marriage.

Really there are so many cases of such out there,and one tends to ask if tere still remains Godly and Virture Women any more.  I pray for those of us newly married, engaged, single please let be careful the kind of game we play cos there is no screts under the Sky...

GoodLuck
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- Treasure2 at 31-08-2010 10:19 AM (10 years ago)
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Gbam
Posted: at 31-08-2010 10:19 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- princedafe at 1-09-2010 12:37 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Esexy5 on 30-08-2010 06:46 PM
That boy having been calling him daddy for 7 good years of his life..... He has always have a family..... father, mother and two sisters.

This is my Advice

fight for the comstudy of the child. DNA/COMFESSION nonsense, if not for anything but for the sake of the child.

As for the woman, she has lost the trust of her husband its now left for her to win her husband's love back. its really a shame of her  to indugin in such dirty game even when she was already plaining for her marriage.

Really there are so many cases of such out there,and one tends to ask if tere still remains Godly and Virture Women any more.  I pray for those of us newly married, engaged, single please let be careful the kind of game we play cos there is no screts under the Sky...

GoodLuck



this why some womem are just PLAIN wickend and SENSELESS, The guy should fight for custody, and everyday the  boy real father will be knocking at the doOR SAYING   i want my son. the  boy will grow become somebody and the real dad will stand by him and smile.


NAWA, e be like say u are the kind of ladies that do such things to men.
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- princedafe at 1-09-2010 12:38 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 31-08-2010 10:19 AM
Gbam

his why some womem are just PLAIN wickend and SENSELESS, The guy should fight for custody, and everyday the  boy real father will be knocking at the doOR SAYING   i want my son. the  boy will grow become somebody and the real dad will stand by him and smiling like a xmas goat.


NAWA, e be like say u are the kind of ladies that do such things to men.
Posted: at 1-09-2010 12:38 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Estheraremu at 1-09-2010 12:48 PM (10 years ago)
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 there is not too ways about that the Husband should release the boy
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- anonymous2 at 1-09-2010 01:47 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 27-08-2010 03:10 PM
Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?
shit...over my dead body will i condone a bastard under my roof..i will divorce de woman and de three kids will go with her...lemme start a new life
my guy no kill urself.......e dey happen...sho gbo?

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- OGAES at 1-09-2010 07:25 PM (10 years ago)
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what woman can do, hi man release the boy to the real father and have peace of mind or can you afford to hold on to what that dose not belong to u. after all the tranning the boy will always go back to the father and for your for the sake of your two children be considerate in dealing with your wife.
Posted: at 1-09-2010 07:25 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- moneyinbrakemi at 1-09-2010 08:22 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on 27-08-2010 01:01 PM
A friend of mine yesterday told me that his uncle who has been married for 8 years now has been unable to speak in his hospital bed for the past 3 days now. The problem started when his wife's ex boy boyfriend showed up and claimed that their first son who is now 7 years old belong to him. The man took it for a joke until the wife out of tears confirmed that the boy actually belong to the guy, that she got pregnant for the guy some days before their wedding but could not tell him out of shame and fear. DNA test has also been conducted and further confirmed that the boy really belong to the wife's ex boyfriend. The woman had 2 girls for the husband after the the boy. The question is, should the man let the wife and kid go,let only the the kid go or fight to keep the kid whom he know is actually not his son?

What a pity...The poor just have to forge on with life cos
life is full of faces
Posted: at 1-09-2010 08:22 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- ifychinee at 2-09-2010 05:16 PM (10 years ago)
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the boyfriend knew she was getting married and still impregnanted her and allowed the dad to nurse the child for 7yrs .ds is the most critical time in a childs life.well according to ibo custom the wife was legally married.the child now belongs to ur uncle.after all if he adopted it will he come after 7yrs to claim him.ur uncle shld fight the case
Posted: at 2-09-2010 05:16 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- bxj4s at 4-09-2010 09:36 PM (10 years ago)
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wetin dey worry una sef dey talk say make imchase d boi away and forgiv im wiffy. make dem reach an agreement and kip both the wif and d kid
Posted: at 4-09-2010 09:36 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- shawlare at 30-01-2011 09:08 PM (10 years ago)
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There  is nothing he could do to keep the boy because it is evidential that he is not the father and the father lays claim to his child.but as regards the woman,a sinner won't go unpunished.send her packing and permit her to see her kids seldomly.
Posted: at 30-01-2011 09:08 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- truthisbitter at 7-02-2011 06:22 AM (10 years ago)
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SEE AS THE LADIES IN THE FORUM  DEY CLAMOUR SAY MAKE THEM FORGIVE THE WIFE..............I WAN ASK.... IF THE SITUATION IS THE OTHER WAY ROUND......WHAT WILL HAPPEN?Huh?Huh?......DONT SAY.... BECAUSE I KNOW IN THIS FORUM ALONE ALL THE LADIES WILL SAY DIVORCE THE MAN.....NOW IT INVOLVES ONE OF THEIRS AND THEY ARE ASKING FOR THE MAN TO FORGIVE...............WELL AS FOR ME......IF I CANNOT CONVINCE THE REAL FATHER TO LEAVE THE BOY...............I WILL FIGHT TO KEEP HIM IF MY WIFE SUPPORTS ME BUT IF NOT I WILL GIVE HIM TO HIS REAL DAD.....WHY BECAUSE I AM VERY SURE THAT THE EX WAS BLACKMAILING THE WIFE WITH THE SECRET AND SHE WAS TOO AFRAID TO TELL THE HUSBAND BECAUSE SHE DONT WANT TO HAVE A BROKEN HOME.............SHE PROBABLY COULDN'T MEET THE EX`S DEMAND THAT WAS WHY HE SHOWED UP IN THE HOUSE...........BUT I KNOW 90% TRUST HAS BEEN DESTROYED IN THE MARRIAGE............IF IT MUST THEN SUCCEED REMAINS ON THE WOMAN.
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- Loveday759 at 10-02-2011 04:27 PM (10 years ago)
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This type of woman na devil, she can kill, men avoid her, it means a night before her marriage she was still dating the boy even phyuk the last phyuk with the boy, how are we sure is he has quite the relationship by now, oga let her go with the son because you are the intruder, woman snatcher, live her for the boyfriend.
Posted: at 10-02-2011 04:27 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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