typicalman84 at 10-10-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago)
(m)
Scenario 1.
Girl: I think we should handle this situation my way Man: Well, your suggestion is good but I know it is not the right way to handle this situation, I have a solution. Girl: No, i want it to be handled my way. I am confident things will turn out fine Man: Baby, i appreciate your contribution to this matter BUT I have had this experience before and I know the solution to it. Girl: No, I disagree with you. I do not trust your solution. Man: Watch me fix it. Girl: I can't stand you, you always want to have things done your way.
Scenario 2:
Girl: I think we should handle this situation my way Man: Yes baby, we are going to handle it your way Girl: Are you sure baby? Man: Yes, I'm absolutely positive. Girl: Aww baby, I love you so much. Man: I love you too. Whatever you decide goes Hun. Girl: That's why I love you so much.
I've noticed that most educated women can't stand a very educated man who loves to stand his ground on family decisions. Most would prefer a husband who says YES to everything they say though the woman's decision might end up causing a huge mess in both of their lives. My question is why majority of educated women can't stand an educated man who stands behind his decision?
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
Posted: at 10-10-2010 06:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I believe there's no educated woman who would want an illitrate for a husband as you said but as much as a woman would also not want an illitrate,she will also like to have a say in the affairs of her home not being married to a dictator, a husband who believe that everything should be done in his own way. Also, a woman should know when to draw the line,learn to respect your husband because no man want to see his wife as being disrespectful,always wanting to take over,be the boss or always auguing with him for every decision.For a woman no matter how right your opinion might be when you see your husband is not ready to buy your idea let it go at that time and look for a proper time to present your opinion but if he still feels that it should be done his way,then you follow suit not trying to take the lead.
Posted: at 10-10-2010 06:39 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
divineproject at 11-10-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago) (f)
I appreciate a man who listens to me, no matter how dumb my opinion might be...........Listen to me, let me air my opinion.....but it is NOT compulsory you go my way.........personally I wont be comfortable if my guy goes my way most of the time.........Becos I expect to be challenged by what he has got upstairs..... I like to play the catch-up......dont let me lead abeg
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 11-10-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Missthing at 12-10-2010 01:37 PM (13 years ago) (f)
My input should be about 40%-50%. I don't mind getting a NO but you better make sure its not all the time. This here is my ego talking--- i do not argue over things i know nothing about, money for example, when it comes to calculating interest rates, financial stuff like that, not my business. But i'm telling u i wanna paint the guest room blue, hubby dear u better get ur arse to home depot and buy that paint.
Posted: at 12-10-2010 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
its good to share views but not good when it is being insisted by the ladies. allow the man to insist and do his will and when it fails next time he will appreciate our views becuase its not all that comes out positively especially when tthey argue.
Posted: at 12-10-2010 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming