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Quote from: Renewed on 21-10-2010 01:24 PM Why is it that when a guy makes a marriage proposal to a lady (especially a Nigerian lady), her usual response is: "Please give me some time to think about it" even when she knows she's eventually going to say "YES"? What astonishes me more is that when the guy asks her out for shopping, she does not request for time to think about anything; When he decides to spoil her silly with gifts or take her out to the Cinema to watch love films and eat popcorn and ice-cream, she doesn't request for any time to think about anything! But when it comes to the big question, she needs all the time in the entire Cosmos to give you an answer. And she would eventually say "YES". Most astonishing is when the lady tells you she would have to pray about it too (even when you know she's not the praying type)...And for most of the time, this "prayer period" is spent announcing your marriage proposal to her numerous girlfriends. Also, am yet to hear of a Lady who said to a guy: "After much prayers, God revealed to me that I should not marry you"...Baseline, she would eventually say "YES I WOULD MARRY YOU". So ladies, why the stress in giving an answer? Why the delay tactics? i'm esp not a nigerian lady so i don't know...it's a mind game, i guess....lol
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Quote from: kethey on 21-10-2010 09:55 PM The truth is dat, its not easy 4 a lady 2 say yes on d spot b-cause she has to make sure she is making d right decision, compare btw ur good and ur bad side because u can never b perfect, see if u ave wat it takes to be a good husband.all dis must be considered by a lady before giving u an answer.Its a once in a life time decision and she must be sure she wants 2 spend the rest of her days with u. Well, Kethey, theoretically you are right on this one...but practically, most ladies already know the answer they would give the guy...I feel they just dont want to appear cheap and desperate...If you talk about understudying a man to know if he's going to be a good husband, I believe every wise lady would have done dat from the day the relationship started and not waiting until after he has made a marriage proposal... I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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Quote from: sweetrae on 21-10-2010 10:13 PM Quote from: Renewed on 21-10-2010 01:24 PM Why is it that when a guy makes a marriage proposal to a lady (especially a Nigerian lady), her usual response is: "Please give me some time to think about it" even when she knows she's eventually going to say "YES"? What astonishes me more is that when the guy asks her out for shopping, she does not request for time to think about anything; When he decides to spoil her silly with gifts or take her out to the Cinema to watch love films and eat popcorn and ice-cream, she doesn't request for any time to think about anything! But when it comes to the big question, she needs all the time in the entire Cosmos to give you an answer. And she would eventually say "YES". Most astonishing is when the lady tells you she would have to pray about it too (even when you know she's not the praying type)...And for most of the time, this "prayer period" is spent announcing your marriage proposal to her numerous girlfriends. Also, am yet to hear of a Lady who said to a guy: "After much prayers, God revealed to me that I should not marry you"...Baseline, she would eventually say "YES I WOULD MARRY YOU". So ladies, why the stress in giving an answer? Why the delay tactics? i'm esp not a nigerian lady so i don't know...it's a mind game, i guess....lol Thanks for your opinion, Sweetrae. I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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Quote from: play_cool on 21-10-2010 06:33 PM yes marriage is not what u will jst wakeup one day nd decide. u needed time to think about it. but that was than, now most of them propose to men. Bros, na true u talk... I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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But come to think of it, psychologically speaking, when a lady replies: "I WOULD THINK ABOUT IT" to a marriage proposal, its actually an indication that she would say "YES" 'cos if the lady was never interested in the guy in the first place, she wouldn't have given it a second thought... ReplyI Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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Well, i agree must have thought of something b-4 the relationship, but still have 2 b sure u want to go into marriage with dis guy. Reply
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Quote from: kethey on 21-10-2010 10:43 PM Well, i agree must have thought of something b-4 the relationship, but still have 2 b sure u want to go into marriage with dis guy. And how long is that suppose to take? I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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A few years! Reply![]() Live and let live!
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Even when they have been hoping for you to voice it out, they will still ask for time. Its they way jare Reply
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make i pass as wetin u dey talk no concern me........... Reply
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Well it should take like three day,so the guy would no wat 2 do, whether the answer is positive or negative. Reply
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dt is naija 4 u, anyway it depends on bro Reply
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passing to think about it maybe i show reply your post or not.... Reply
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Quote from: kethey on 22-10-2010 11:22 AM Well it should take like three day,so the guy would no wat 2 do, whether the answer is positive or negative. Hmmm... I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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Quote from: bittersweet on 22-10-2010 07:46 AM A few years! ![]() You try...make I dey wait abi? I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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Quote from: Renewed on 22-10-2010 06:22 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 22-10-2010 07:46 AM A few years! ![]() You try...make I dey wait abi? Eh! Could you stand that time? ![]() Live and let live!
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priceless ti de,ki lon shele? Reply
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Read and comment, na watin dey sele b dat. Reply
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Quote from: bittersweet on 22-10-2010 06:24 PM Quote from: Renewed on 22-10-2010 06:22 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 22-10-2010 07:46 AM A few years! ![]() You try...make I dey wait abi? Eh! Could you stand that time? ![]() Na punishment? By the way that your gun for picture dey face me...abeg nor go do accidental discharge o... ![]() I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
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