She dosnt know how to cook !! (Page 8)

When I got married, I thought I could cook.  My husband told me that I cannot cook and that he does not enjoy my cooking.  He did not leave it at that, he took me shopping, bought the things he likes to eat, spent time and taught me how to cook different dishes on different days.  The ones I did not like, I told him I did not like certain dishes he cooked, and I learnt from there. 

When I cook the dishes that he taught me that I do not like, I cook it for him because I know he likes it.  I then cook something else that I like to eat.  I use that time to cook the food the way I used to cook that I liked so that I can eat it myself as well.

My children developed my husband's taste bud because we cooked mainly what he likes.  He is a good cook.  I then tried okro soup on my own, westernized the okro soup, and the children loved it including my husband.

Marriage is a oneness system.  Help and build each other up.

PALS, JUST WANNA HEAR UR DIFFERENT OPINION ON THIS:AS A GUY, U GOT MARRIED AND DISCOVERED THAT UR SPOUSE CANT COOK TO UR TASTE, WHAT WILL U DO? KEEP QUIET AND BE EATING OUT OR U GONNA CONFRONT HER AND LET HER KNOW......LADIES,IF UR HUBBY TELLS U DAT UR DISHES ARE NOT DELICIOUS, HOW WILL U REACT?WILL U SEE IT AS AN EMBARRASSMENT?

Correction - like a giv a ?? but ? Okay!

Am not a forceful person though. I can be a very successful manipulator if I choose too. I hardly employ my intellect to have my way in this world to a fault. But, with kids - my own kids, haba - I will manipulate them for what I think is best.

Speak for yourself.

while u no ask the familly first weda dem train am b4 paying her bride price.u dey talk like say u buy fake tv set.then after go give them make them repair.

My dear, a child should not be let to do everything he chooses. If God wanted him to do everything he wanted, he wouldn't have given him a father.

He can be a chef, but that is like when he is like 40+. Only then can I encourage it. As a young man, I think he has a lot of creativity that can be expressed in other ways.

Am not a forceful person though. I can be a very successful manipulator if I choose too. I employ my intellect to have my way in this world to a fault. But, with kids - my own kids, haba - I will manipulate them for what I think is best.

Forgive my humanity.

^Haha, I love that! Right..if he is hungry..he can cook whatever he has a taste for.