![-]( "portiphar") portiphar at 11-11-2010 12:40 AM (13 years ago)  (m) before it is olobe loni oko but now olowo loni oko........... before guys look for lady with cooking skills but nowadays it all about money.. if a lady get money but no cooking skills guys will go for her.. that is why there are many eateries and buka around 
you don talk am finish my sister, wetin concern me with cooking when she get the money....but for total acceptance, all her money and properties must be changed into my name for safe-keeping....TEHEHEHEHE!!! | Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omatu") omatu at 11-11-2010 04:04 AM (13 years ago) (f) I will go to my mom's house for help.I mean anyone can learn how to cook,tht's if you really want to.
your mothers cooking is not the issue. He is not going to like your mothers cooking. There is a certain way that the man wants his food, just learn from him. It is different from the way your mother cooks in the first place.  And how do you know he's not going to like my mothers cooking?.Well,I dont need to learn from anyman how to cook.I can cook myself.I was just going along with the poster. your mother very likely taught you how to cook and that is where you learned how to cook? If he does not like what you have already learned assuming your mother trained you, it is not advisable for you to return back to your mother to learn how to cook because he still will not be happy. Learn from him how he wants you to cook for him, and you will have peace in your home. Well,a man will reject your food if your food has no taste.Cos if you are a very good cook,he will neva eva say no or reject it.But lucky me,cooking is sumthing i'm very good at(Cos i have been cooking since i was 8yrs).Infact ,sumtimes i make up things myself.And leave people begging for more.My boyfriend is a good cook,but the first day i cooked for him,he was pleased and even till today he loves my cooking.My kitchen is my own personal business,and all i need a man to do is just sit and enjoy. There are many different cultures, diverse ethnic groups. They all cook differently. You can be the best cook in the world, if it does not match your spouse taste buds, you are still not a good cook to him/her. Well,I'm marrying a man who's from my country and also from my state..So I'm fine,absolutely fine. Let the shoe fit whom it wants to fit. Everybody is different. There are many that are not concerned about marrying from the same country, the same state, etc. All they want is the right partner regardless of where they come from. We are all one body of Christ Jesus. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omatu") omatu at 11-11-2010 04:06 AM (13 years ago) (f) simple. she goes back to her mum for two months of intensive training!
didn't you court her for you to have know wat she's good at and not...... i bet you won't dear send her back......... My husband courted me, ate my food, never complained. He took me out a lot to eat though so I can see what he likes to eat. I was the type that was curious and I would comment that I wish I knew how to cook what we ate at the restaurant. He never said anything. After he married me, he then started to teach how to cook the way he likes it. I would recommend that you learn from your mother inlaw instead of your own mother. Your mother inlaw knows exactly what your husband likes. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:06 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 11-11-2010 04:20 AM (13 years ago) (f) I will go to my mom's house for help.I mean anyone can learn how to cook,tht's if you really want to.
your mothers cooking is not the issue. He is not going to like your mothers cooking. There is a certain way that the man wants his food, just learn from him. It is different from the way your mother cooks in the first place. And how do you know he's not going to like my mothers cooking?.Well,I dont need to learn from anyman how to cook.I can cook myself.I was just going along with the poster. your mother very likely taught you how to cook and that is where you learned how to cook? If he does not like what you have already learned assuming your mother trained you, it is not advisable for you to return back to your mother to learn how to cook because he still will not be happy. Learn from him how he wants you to cook for him, and you will have peace in your home. Well,a man will reject your food if your food has no taste.Cos if you are a very good cook,he will neva eva say no or reject it.But lucky me,cooking is sumthing i'm very good at(Cos i have been cooking since i was 8yrs).Infact ,sumtimes i make up things myself.And leave people begging for more.My boyfriend is a good cook,but the first day i cooked for him,he was pleased and even till today he loves my cooking.My kitchen is my own personal business,and all i need a man to do is just sit and enjoy. There are many different cultures, diverse ethnic groups. They all cook differently. You can be the best cook in the world, if it does not match your spouse taste buds, you are still not a good cook to him/her. Well,I'm marrying a man who's from my country and also from my state..So I'm fine,absolutely fine. Let the shoe fit whom it wants to fit. Everybody is different. There are many that are not concerned about marrying from the same country, the same state, etc. All they want is the right partner regardless of where they come from. We are all one body of Christ Jesus. Madam,seems you are getting me wrong.Its a free world.Marry who ever you feel is right for you,its not my business.The man I love ,is from my state.Tht's my business,you dont expect me to go marry a chinese man and leave him.I only mentioned my state ,just to let you know that i dont need to learn anything from him,simple!. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:20 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omatu") omatu at 11-11-2010 07:56 AM (13 years ago) (f) I will go to my mom's house for help.I mean anyone can learn how to cook,tht's if you really want to.
your mothers cooking is not the issue. He is not going to like your mothers cooking. There is a certain way that the man wants his food, just learn from him. It is different from the way your mother cooks in the first place. And how do you know he's not going to like my mothers cooking?.Well,I dont need to learn from anyman how to cook.I can cook myself.I was just going along with the poster. your mother very likely taught you how to cook and that is where you learned how to cook? If he does not like what you have already learned assuming your mother trained you, it is not advisable for you to return back to your mother to learn how to cook because he still will not be happy. Learn from him how he wants you to cook for him, and you will have peace in your home. Well,a man will reject your food if your food has no taste.Cos if you are a very good cook,he will neva eva say no or reject it.But lucky me,cooking is sumthing i'm very good at(Cos i have been cooking since i was 8yrs).Infact ,sumtimes i make up things myself.And leave people begging for more.My boyfriend is a good cook,but the first day i cooked for him,he was pleased and even till today he loves my cooking.My kitchen is my own personal business,and all i need a man to do is just sit and enjoy. There are many different cultures, diverse ethnic groups. They all cook differently. You can be the best cook in the world, if it does not match your spouse taste buds, you are still not a good cook to him/her. Well,I'm marrying a man who's from my country and also from my state..So I'm fine,absolutely fine. Let the shoe fit whom it wants to fit. Everybody is different. There are many that are not concerned about marrying from the same country, the same state, etc. All they want is the right partner regardless of where they come from. We are all one body of Christ Jesus. Madam,seems you are getting me wrong.Its a free world.Marry who ever you feel is right for you,its not my business.The man I love ,is from my state.Tht's my business,you dont expect me to go marry a chinese man and leave him.I only mentioned my state ,just to let you know that i dont need to learn anything from him,simple!. peace. thanks for the clarifications. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 07:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 11-11-2010 08:51 AM (13 years ago) (f) Reading. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 08:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I SEE | Posted: at 11-11-2010 08:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 11-11-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) (f) hmmmmmmmmm | Posted: at 11-11-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "djis9ice") djis9ice at 11-11-2010 11:39 AM (13 years ago) (m) I will send her out poco a poco. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 11:39 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Henro_g") Henro_g at 11-11-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago) (m) Send her to a cooking sch | Posted: at 11-11-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "daclint") daclint at 11-11-2010 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) i will teach her how to do it cuz im an expert in cooking | Posted: at 11-11-2010 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Send her to a cooking sch
don't you know that before wjile dating....b4 u married her 
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 11-11-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago) (m) I will go to my mom's house for help.I mean anyone can learn how to cook,tht's if you really want to.
your mothers cooking is not the issue. He is not going to like your mothers cooking. There is a certain way that the man wants his food, just learn from him. It is different from the way your mother cooks in the first place. And how do you know he's not going to like my mothers cooking?.Well,I dont need to learn from anyman how to cook.I can cook myself.I was just going along with the poster. your mother very likely taught you how to cook and that is where you learned how to cook? If he does not like what you have already learned assuming your mother trained you, it is not advisable for you to return back to your mother to learn how to cook because he still will not be happy. Learn from him how he wants you to cook for him, and you will have peace in your home. Yu're Very Right
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 11-11-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 11-11-2010 11:59 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Ngeri and Bittersweet, We all have read and followed varied opinions here. These write-ups are not craps but the reality of. The difference is clear. We love our Naija roots! Our babes, we must always come for you. German adage says "liebe geht durch den magen" - "loves passes through the stomach". There is no professionalism or career that abhors one (ladies in particular) to learn how to cook, and very well. Not just for the man, but for their kids. When this quality fails or becomes something of less important, then I wonder how the husband could be all confident that he's no more a bachelor. Food is ingredient to life. I like the statement of our home breeds. Ladies learn from mother from childhood, men too, but not often. If you cannot cook and cannot learn from your hubby or boy friend, if he can and wish to teach, and you do not care to find a teacher, then I wonder what 'I' will be doing with such a lady? Even I am a chef, I must do it to earn a living (money) for the home security and deserve my wife, while I do same cooking atimes. German Chancellor (Leader/Prime Minister) Mrs. Angela Merkel still find time to cook for her husband, so I wonder what the hell is all about being a career woman, bla bla bla. Thank you our responsible home-breed ladies. More grease to your elbows in this topic. | Posted: at 11-11-2010 11:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kenyawest") kenyawest at 12-11-2010 02:34 AM (13 years ago) (f) I will go to my mom's house for help.I mean anyone can learn how to cook,tht's if you really want to.
your mothers cooking is not the issue. He is not going to like your mothers cooking. There is a certain way that the man wants his food, just learn from him. It is different from the way your mother cooks in the first place. And how do you know he's not going to like my mothers cooking?.Well,I dont need to learn from anyman how to cook.I can cook myself.I was just going along with the poster. your mother very likely taught you how to cook and that is where you learned how to cook? If he does not like what you have already learned assuming your mother trained you, it is not advisable for you to return back to your mother to learn how to cook because he still will not be happy. Learn from him how he wants you to cook for him, and you will have peace in your home. Yu're Very Right She is a very bright woman. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:34 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kenyawest") kenyawest at 12-11-2010 02:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) @Ngeri and Bittersweet,
We all have read and followed varied opinions here. These write-ups are not craps but the reality of.
The difference is clear. We love our Naija roots! Our babes, we must always come for you.
German adage says "liebe geht durch den magen" - "loves passes through the stomach".
There is no professionalism or career that abhors one (ladies in particular) to learn how to cook, and very well. Not just for the man, but for their kids. When this quality fails or becomes something of less important, then I wonder how the husband could be all confident that he's no more a bachelor.
Food is ingredient to life. I like the statement of our home breeds. Ladies learn from mother from childhood, men too, but not often. If you cannot cook and cannot learn from your hubby or boy friend, if he can and wish to teach, and you do not care to find a teacher, then I wonder what 'I' will be doing with such a lady?
Even I am a chef, I must do it to earn a living (money) for the home security and deserve my wife, while I do same cooking atimes.
German Chancellor (Leader/Prime Minister) Mrs. Angela Merkel still find time to cook for her husband, so I wonder what the hell is all about being a career woman, bla bla bla.
Thank you our responsible home-breed ladies. More grease to your elbows in this topic.
You are 100% correct. Women that want a happy home will understand what you are talking about. Pray for the destruction of the Jezebel spirits. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 02:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Eriele") Eriele at 12-11-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) (f) Firstly, it is matter of understanding and helping each other. Am cooking good, the only prob am not african, so i don't know about afro food... but i know ma future hussy will always help me & i'll be learning from african women how to cook national food   Secondly, not every woman must be perfect cook. | Posted: at 12-11-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@Ngeri and Bittersweet,
We all have read and followed varied opinions here. These write-ups are not craps but the reality of.
The difference is clear. We love our Naija roots! Our babes, we must always come for you.
German adage says "liebe geht durch den magen" - "loves passes through the stomach".
There is no professionalism or career that abhors one (ladies in particular) to learn how to cook, and very well. Not just for the man, but for their kids. When this quality fails or becomes something of less important, then I wonder how the husband could be all confident that he's no more a bachelor.
Food is ingredient to life. I like the statement of our home breeds. Ladies learn from mother from childhood, men too, but not often. If you cannot cook and cannot learn from your hubby or boy friend, if he can and wish to teach, and you do not care to find a teacher, then I wonder what 'I' will be doing with such a lady?
Even I am a chef, I must do it to earn a living (money) for the home security and deserve my wife, while I do same cooking atimes.
German Chancellor (Leader/Prime Minister) Mrs. Angela Merkel still find time to cook for her husband, so I wonder what the hell is all about being a career woman, bla bla bla.
Thank you our responsible home-breed ladies. More grease to your elbows in this topic.
When did you see that I wrote that I can't cook,or even that I am not doing bcz of the career stuff? 
You couldn't focus right when u read the comments or what?
The question asked by the poster was how would I feel if my guy wouldn't like my food,and bcz when I do something
I put a lot of love and passion in it,and I know that I've tried my best,and u don't appreciate it,then how on earth would I
not show u the oven and invite u to do whatever u want?!
Plz,revize your comments before posting them! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-11-2010 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@Ngeri and Bittersweet,
We all have read and followed varied opinions here. These write-ups are not craps but the reality of.
The difference is clear. We love our Naija roots! Our babes, we must always come for you.
German adage says "liebe geht durch den magen" - "loves passes through the stomach".
There is no professionalism or career that abhors one (ladies in particular) to learn how to cook, and very well. Not just for the man, but for their kids. When this quality fails or becomes something of less important, then I wonder how the husband could be all confident that he's no more a bachelor.
Food is ingredient to life. I like the statement of our home breeds. Ladies learn from mother from childhood, men too, but not often. If you cannot cook and cannot learn from your hubby or boy friend, if he can and wish to teach, and you do not care to find a teacher, then I wonder what 'I' will be doing with such a lady?
Even I am a chef, I must do it to earn a living (money) for the home security and deserve my wife, while I do same cooking atimes.
German Chancellor (Leader/Prime Minister) Mrs. Angela Merkel still find time to cook for her husband, so I wonder what the hell is all about being a career woman, bla bla bla.
Thank you our responsible home-breed ladies. More grease to your elbows in this topic.
When did you see that I wrote that I can't cook,or even that I am not doing bcz of the career stuff?
You couldn't focus right when u read the comments or what?
The question asked by the poster was how would I feel if my guy wouldn't like my food,and bcz when I do something
I put a lot of love and passion in it,and I know that I've tried my best,and u don't appreciate it,then how on earth would I
not show u the oven and invite u to do whatever u want?!
Plz,REVIEW your comments before posting them!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-11-2010 04:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "igbonnanna") igbonnanna at 12-11-2010 07:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) @Ngeri and Bittersweet,
We all have read and followed varied opinions here. These write-ups are not craps but the reality of.
The difference is clear. We love our Naija roots! Our babes, we must always come for you.
German adage says "liebe geht durch den magen" - "loves passes through the stomach".
There is no professionalism or career that abhors one (ladies in particular) to learn how to cook, and very well. Not just for the man, but for their kids. When this quality fails or becomes something of less important, then I wonder how the husband could be all confident that he's no more a bachelor.
Food is ingredient to life. I like the statement of our home breeds. Ladies learn from mother from childhood, men too, but not often. If you cannot cook and cannot learn from your hubby or boy friend, if he can and wish to teach, and you do not care to find a teacher, then I wonder what 'I' will be doing with such a lady?
Even I am a chef, I must do it to earn a living (money) for the home security and deserve my wife, while I do same cooking atimes.
German Chancellor (Leader/Prime Minister) Mrs. Angela Merkel still find time to cook for her husband, so I wonder what the hell is all about being a career woman, bla bla bla.
Thank you our responsible home-breed ladies. More grease to your elbows in this topic.
When did you see that I wrote that I can't cook,or even that I am not doing bcz of the career stuff?
You couldn't focus right when u read the comments or what?
The question asked by the poster was how would I feel if my guy wouldn't like my food,and bcz when I do something
I put a lot of love and passion in it,and I know that I've tried my best,and u don't appreciate it,then how on earth would I
not show u the oven and invite u to do whatever u want?!
Plz,REVIEW your comments before posting them! Dear Bittersweet, Thanks very much for your response and expression of ur feelings towards my opinion. Thank you especially for reminding me to review my piece before posting them. There u are completely right because I rushed the writing and never proof-read it at all. That is nice of you. However, I do not know if it's fair to refer a person u think you're advising that s/he knew nothing about the issue which you'd responded as well. My problem with your statement does not portray that you do not know how to cook, nor there is less passion for the act, but for showing your hubby the oven in the same home two of you are living, may mean to me, that you cannot tolerate objective criticism. If he says, he does not like the taste of your food or a particular food, all these things are signs of love for u to improve. No one is perfect. Would you be happy if he keeps quiet and gently go to his other unseen person to feed himself, if you show him oven on several occasions? I think it would have been better to try to find out where the problem lies. You may have tried your best, but your best may not be enough at all times. To drive him to the kitchen does not for me show sign of respect and obedience (or biblical "submissive woman") or of a virtuous woman which many crave for. He may also be same 'submissive' to you in other ways. To show me the kitchen oven, O God? ?? I do not mean to slight or insult you whatsoever, so please do not misconstrue me , rather I wish to portray my opinion. The issue for me is not the passion and energy put it, but "Guys, how would feel if your babe does not know how to cook?" My candid opinion is 'Learn, Teach, Learn, Teach, Learn Teach', but all with LOVE and JOY in doing that. And the learner should be more clever to do it better later. "Liebe geht durch den magen" - "Love passes through the stomach". Thank you and bye now. from Chris | Posted: at 12-11-2010 07:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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