do people still rape dis days?
Na you dey ask this question or na ur shadow?.............havent you been reading it all over the place? nobi my shadow u dey see Good answer Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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So now you know Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Sure but guess what?am not scared i will just watch my ass very well who knows if u r upto to something Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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uhmmmm Very funny Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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do people still rape dis days?
Na you dey ask this question or na ur shadow?.............havent you been reading it all over the place? nobi my shadow u dey see Actually I wasnt expecting that question from you.........so give me something else!...........I dey wait
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I see Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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dorro at 11-11-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) its not easy to to clam them down but they need counsel, pure love and care Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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mallorca at 11-11-2010 12:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) God will see them true
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY Posted: at 11-11-2010 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Amen!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 11-11-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ojez at 11-11-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) (m) rape is a bad occurence. Posted: at 11-11-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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omorewa at 11-11-2010 02:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) i know a girl that was raped at the age of 13 now she is in her 20s.. luckily she is engage with one child.. but she has kept that secret from every one including her mum and partner up till now.. well only couple of people knows.. me and a friend of hers because she took me like her big sister.. after the rape incidence she hated men but i told her the reality of life that it could happen to any body.. and she promised me will start dating men but only the OLDER SINGLE MEN.... her partner is 36years old.. she is getting married next year!
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! Posted: at 11-11-2010 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Ask P-square
When you smile at me, i can't help but feel loved. Posted: at 11-11-2010 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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mykelly at 11-11-2010 03:59 PM (13 years ago) (m) here are my advise,either by buying PADLOCK to lock the thing,or wearing about 6-7 pants while going to an unsafe area Posted: at 11-11-2010 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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They should demand for justice to be done.
Where? In Nigeria? Nah, Not if the person is above the law(Say some people say) Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I guess the more reason they dont speak out its bcs they are scared of their future as in if they do speck out it is going to be very difficult for them to find a hubby remember no one is ready to marry a rape victim
that is so not the reason..at least with my own understanding. Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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IF U KEEP QUIET, THE IDIOT WILL CONTINUE, BUT IF U SPEAK, HE WILL BE KEPT BEHIND BARS ALL HIS LIFE.
Again my dear, Not the so called who think they are above the law(like Nigerian big men in power). Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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here are my advise,either by buying PADLOCK to lock the thing,or wearing about 6-7 pants while going to an unsafe area
we are talking abt when the damage has been done.............how can the person get over this and live a normal life again?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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here are my advise,either by buying PADLOCK to lock the thing,or wearing about 6-7 pants while going to an unsafe area
Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Treasure2 at 11-11-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) IF U KEEP QUIET, THE IDIOT WILL CONTINUE, BUT IF U SPEAK, HE WILL BE KEPT BEHIND BARS ALL HIS LIFE.
Again my dear, Not the so called who think they are above the law(like Nigerian big men in power). Not in the case my dear. Posted: at 11-11-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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With cases of rape seemingly on the increase, how can a rape victim get over the ugly incident?
Please your input can help heal a grieving soul...............Thanks!
A victim of trauma is someone who has been wounded physically or emotionally by some sudden or substantial shock that created severe and lasting damage to the psychological development of that individual. Surviving the trauma of abuse can throw people into a state of psychological damage that prohibits them from functioning properly in relationships with others as Omorewa made mentioned about her friend. the best way for a victim of rape to get over the ugly incident is by knowing that they are God's trophy of grace. What do I mean by that; I mean, God will use their ashes for beauty. If you are seeking recovery from abuse, you must not allow other people's opinions of you, as evidenced by the way you have been mistreated in the past, to determine your worth. Remember, people who feel worthless always try to find something wrong with you so they can feel a little better about themselves. Keep in mind that this is their problem, not yours. Accept God's opinion of you and not others. Whatever you believe about yourself on the inside is what you will manifest on the outside therefore, Dont let others talk you down because of where you are coming from but be strengthened in your inner mind by the presence of God himself. Encourage people to let go of their past, but never to run from it. the only way to gain victory over the pain of your past is to let God walk you back through that doorway of pain and into victory. God can make miracles out of mistakes,vengeance is the lord's and He will repay. Also, forgiveness frees you to live your life again. Find it in your heart to forgive your abuser, I know its hard but it has to be done. it is not possible to have emotional health while harboring bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness. Harboring unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping your enemy will die! Unforgiveness poisons anyone who holds it, causing him to become bitter. And it is impossible to be bitter and get better at the same time. In a nutshell, Let go and let God. Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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