RAPED.................. (Page 4)

Date: 11-11-2010 9:57 am (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- juleshotluv at 11-11-2010 06:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: juleshotluv on 11-11-2010 04:23 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 12:14 PM
IF U KEEP QUIET, THE IDIOT WILL CONTINUE, BUT IF U SPEAK, HE WILL BE KEPT BEHIND BARS ALL HIS LIFE.


Again my dear, Not the so called who think they are above the law(like Nigerian big men in power).


Not in the case my dear.


I know what am saying...years back; there was this Nigerian ambassador who was abusing his step daughter. it was later discovered but nothing could be done because he was a man of power.
Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- juleshotluv at 11-11-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on 11-11-2010 10:33 AM
they need to find strength in their pains and know that life doesnt end there. they will need a good friend to listen not one that will keep telling them things will get better they really just need to be heard. for each woman its different but in all they need a friend. (i counsel different crime victims)


Quote from: patienceudosen on 11-11-2010 11:36 AM
victims of rape cases undergo psychological trauma. They need to be handled with care
They are bound to relate incidents to previous events (recall) most times, it is good to make them understand they were raped.
They should face the truth by letting them know they are not left along or to be excluded from worlds activities because of being raped.

OUTINGS, COUNSELLINGS, LOVE may help them heal faster.



Well said ladies!
Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 11-11-2010 06:11 PM (13 years ago)
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they need to be shown love..some1 to comfort dem ,listen to dem, they need support from all around including the church so they can get over the tragic event that has happened to dem.
they need to know that it was not their fault to begin with, so they can start there healing process, it may take awhile for some, while some put it behind dem in a flash, while others  carry the scar for life, the important thing is that some1 must be there for them to lean on Cool

Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 11-11-2010 06:48 PM (13 years ago)
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ANYWAY HER SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE

Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 11-11-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 11-11-2010 06:48 PM
ANYWAY HER SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE


Huh?


Posted: at 11-11-2010 06:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 12-11-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on 11-11-2010 06:00 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 11-11-2010 09:57 AM
With cases of rape seemingly on the increase, how can a rape victim get over the ugly incident?

Please your input can help heal a grieving soul...............Thanks!


A victim of trauma is someone who has been wounded physically or emotionally by some sudden or substantial shock that created severe and lasting damage to the psychological development of that individual. Surviving the trauma of abuse can throw people into a state of psychological damage that prohibits them from functioning properly in relationships with others as Omorewa made mentioned about her friend.  the best way for a victim of rape to get over the ugly incident is by knowing that they are God's trophy of grace. What do I mean by that; I mean, God will use their ashes for beauty. If you are seeking recovery from abuse, you must not allow other people's opinions of you, as evidenced by the way you have been mistreated in the past, to determine your worth. Remember, people who feel worthless always try to find something wrong with you so they can feel a little better about themselves. Keep in mind that this is their problem, not yours. Accept God's opinion of you and not others. Whatever you believe about yourself on the inside is what you will manifest on the outside therefore, Dont let others talk you down because of where you are coming from but be strengthened in your inner mind by the presence of God himself. Encourage people to let go of their past, but never to run from it. the only way to gain victory over the pain of your past is to let God walk you back through that doorway of pain and into victory. God can make miracles out of mistakes,vengeance is the lord's and He will repay. Also, forgiveness frees you to live your life again. Find it in your heart to forgive your abuser, I know its hard but it has to be done. it is not possible to have emotional health while harboring bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness. Harboring unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping your enemy will die! Unforgiveness poisons anyone who holds it, causing him to become bitter. And it is impossible to be bitter and get better at the same time. In a nutshell, Let go and let God.

Wow!...............that is all I can say!

Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 12-11-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Rape is a manifestation of weakness and any victim should consider the rapist as "weak" but make sure to seek legal redress where it is possible to identify rapist. Then move on with life. Why should someone stigmatize victims as not to marry them but will gladly marry someone who has been sleeping countless number of times?
Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 12-11-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 11-11-2010 11:19 AM
do people still rape dis days?
Huh?

Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 12-11-2010 12:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 12:09 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 11-11-2010 11:05 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 10:56 AM
They should demand for justice to be done.

Most rape victims dont speak out............so how can they demand for justice?


RAPE IS ON THE INCREASE BC THE VITIMS DON'T SPEAK OUT, THEY SHOULD SPEAK OUT SO THAT WHOEVER WILL BE DEALT WITH.

I think the reason they don't speak is because they don't get the help and support they need when they do.

Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 12-11-2010 12:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 12:14 PM
IF U KEEP QUIET, THE IDIOT WILL CONTINUE, BUT IF U SPEAK, HE WILL BE KEPT BEHIND BARS ALL HIS LIFE.

And what happens when the 'IDIOT' has the money to pull all the strings.

the victim end up taking the fall

Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 12-11-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: juleshotluv on 11-11-2010 06:58 PM
Quote from: 50scent on 11-11-2010 06:48 PM
ANYWAY HER SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE


Huh?




 Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 12-11-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 12-11-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 12:14 PM
IF U KEEP QUIET, THE IDIOT WILL CONTINUE, BUT IF U SPEAK, HE WILL BE KEPT BEHIND BARS ALL HIS LIFE.

And what happens when the 'IDIOT' has the money to pull all the strings.

the victim end up taking the fall


The justice may be delay but can never be deny.
Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 12-11-2010 12:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: macgreat on 12-11-2010 12:13 PM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 12:09 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 11-11-2010 11:05 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-11-2010 10:56 AM
They should demand for justice to be done.

Most rape victims dont speak out............so how can they demand for justice?


RAPE IS ON THE INCREASE BC THE VITIMS DON'T SPEAK OUT, THEY SHOULD SPEAK OUT SO THAT WHOEVER WILL BE DEALT WITH.

I think the reason they don't speak is because they don't get the help and support they need when they do.

I agree MG...............when the lady realise that those who managed to speak out never get justice, they are discouraged and therefore keep things to themselves.............

Posted: at 12-11-2010 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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