sophiebaby at 23-11-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Too often I talk to women who stayed in unfulfilling relationships or have a history of dating jerky men. When I ask questions and get their story, here's what it is usually about: the man was interested so they went along. They thought that he was all they could have, they didn't want to hurt his feelings, they just wanted a man in their life… What they have in common is their lack of self reflection. Months and sometimes years went by without paying any honest attention to their own needs and desires. And to what they bring to the table as a partner. Have you ever asked yourself this question: What are my rules for dating and relationships? What are my boundaries, what must I do, and what must I have? And what will I simply not tolerate in myself or in others? Lets Go There!!!
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Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-11-2010 11:50 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
oyindabty at 23-11-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) (f)
where
Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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Ohhhoo! I have too many rules and boundaries to write them here!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply sobeit at 23-11-2010 12:15 PM (14 years ago) (m)
i >>>>>>..
Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply blessedme at 23-11-2010 12:20 PM (14 years ago) (f)
i tolerate alot but i ve ma boundaries
cant just finish mentioning them
Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply sophiebaby at 23-11-2010 12:23 PM (14 years ago) (f)
a few will do
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-11-2010 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply qunodinga at 23-11-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Rule>>>>>>>>>>1
Dont kiss too long below!
Rule>>>>>>>>>>2
Dont....brb
Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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Rule .........3
Do not be too quite in a relationship
Rule.........4
Do not give it to him everyday or whenever he feels like....that thing belong to you and you alone so its your right to turn him down
Rule.........5
Do not pour all ur love and affection on him......60% is enough for him otherwise you go hear wennn
Rule.......6
Coming soon.......
Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply sophiebaby at 23-11-2010 02:21 PM (14 years ago) (f)
i laugh
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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i laugh
Huh??
Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply Adikpe at 23-11-2010 04:54 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Nice post.
But my rules...........hmmmmm I will rather
keep them with myself.
Rule .........3 Do not be too quite in a relationship Rule.........4 Do not give it to him everyday or whenever he feels like....that thing belong to you and you alone so its your right to turn him down Rule.........5 Do not pour all ur love and affection on him......60% is enough for him otherwise you go hear wennn Rule.......6 Coming soon.......
60%? Chai, na so una dey do us?
Posted: at 23-11-2010 04:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply sophiebaby at 23-11-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) (f)
spil it out
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply Adikpe at 23-11-2010 05:05 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Okay, may be tomorrow.
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply Treasure2 at 23-11-2010 05:06 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Okies
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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Nice post.
But my rules...........hmmmmm I will rather
keep them with myself.
Rule .........3 Do not be too quite in a relationship Rule.........4 Do not give it to him everyday or whenever he feels like....that thing belong to you and you alone so its your right to turn him down Rule.........5 Do not pour all ur love and affection on him......60% is enough for him otherwise you go hear wennn Rule.......6 Coming soon.......
60%? Chai, na so una dey do us?
Did you say the 60% is too much??...Okay i will make it 45%
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply macgreat at 23-11-2010 05:07 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Okies
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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Okay, may be tomorrow.
Why not today?
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply macgreat at 23-11-2010 05:09 PM (14 years ago) (m)
.. .. ..
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply Treasure2 at 23-11-2010 05:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Macgreat, i dey notice u oooo
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply sophiebaby at 23-11-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) (f)
ok 2morow na
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 23-11-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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