Fighting Fair in Marriage

Date: 24-11-2010 4:17 pm (14 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- at 24-11-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago)
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What type of fighter are you? Do you save up old grievances, and sandbag your partner when fighting? Or, do you walk away, refusing to engage at all? Do you have to always "win" when arguing with your spouse?
 Money is one of the top reasons couples argue, closely followed by in-laws, sex and friends.  If your arguments always escalate into full blown wars, or one of you always ends up giving in, it's time for a change. How? 

How do we fight fair in marriage?

Lets hear ur views


Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- bittersweet at 24-11-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Fair?
I think so!
But tough for sure,and always win!

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 24-11-2010 04:27 PM
Fair?
I think so!
But tough for sure,and always win!


 Cool

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 24-11-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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 Wink Cool

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- desiresluv20 at 24-11-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago)
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There's one quote I love so much and I believe it should be applied in marriage by both partners. It says: Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs. Marriage requires patience and admittance. I always believe that love talks as preached by late Bimbo odukoya. I think every right thinking man needs that also. Money doesn't make a happy home

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: desiresluv20 on 24-11-2010 04:33 PM
There's one quote I love so much and I believe it should be applied in marriage by both partners. It says: Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs. Marriage requires patience and admittance. I always believe that love talks as preached by late Bimbo odukoya. I think every right thinking man needs that also. Money doesn't make a happy home


i like dis quote too. Cool
yeah money doesnt make a happy home

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 24-11-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago)
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For the married!
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 24-11-2010 04:41 PM
For the married!

den gerraout

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- irule at 24-11-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Fight in a marriage?, God let me not be a beater of wife, i have sworn never to touch my wife

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: irule on 24-11-2010 04:52 PM
Fight in a marriage?, God let me not be a beater of wife, i have sworn never to touch my wife

amen

Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 24-11-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Am not married yet...So i comment my reserve
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 05:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 24-11-2010 04:56 PM
Am not married yet...So i comment my reserve

put ursef in a marid womans shoes
or lets asume u marid.. wat would u do in such cases

Posted: at 24-11-2010 05:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- qunodinga at 24-11-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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woaw! this a big one!
Peep don't need to be in marriage before knowing vital marital rules.

I should ask myself first, who i'm i fighting with..?
It makes no sense fighting with my hubby, remember
we are ONE. 1 + 1 =1
Posted: at 24-11-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago)
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good

Posted: at 24-11-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 4kasibe247 at 24-11-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 24-11-2010 05:31 PM
good
share ur perspective on ds subject Huh?
Posted: at 24-11-2010 05:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- do4sure at 24-11-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago)
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SILENCE IS A STATEMENT ON ITS OWN,A SOUND AT A DIFFERENT PITCH ON A DIFFERENT NOTE. IT IS A MAGIC WAND.
Posted: at 24-11-2010 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xena15 at 24-11-2010 06:01 PM (14 years ago)
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I'm commmming

Posted: at 24-11-2010 06:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 24-11-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago)
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silence is good most times but not always u have to know exactly when to talk when my man tells me heaven and earth i dont say a word its after sometime he will personally beg me to talkthen i am sure he will listen especiallyshoutin while expressin urself it doesnt make sense cos he shout u shout nobody hears everybody is talkin when d other isup u r down and when he is down then u r on his level
Posted: at 24-11-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 24-11-2010 07:13 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmm dis is interesting!

Well, am not married yet and i still hav to learn a lot  Smiley
Am d type who talk too much wen we fight, like jumpin from one topic to an oda
and u can imagine how it makes my bf go crazy  Grin BUT i will not start a fight without gud
reasons.... I knw dat sometimes i shud just b quiet or go outside and cool down...Am tryin sha  Cool Grin
Posted: at 24-11-2010 07:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 24-11-2010 07:17 PM (14 years ago)
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hope u wont fight me?
Posted: at 24-11-2010 07:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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