What type of fighter are you? Do you save up old grievances, and sandbag your partner when fighting? Or, do you walk away, refusing to engage at all? Do you have to always "win" when arguing with your spouse? Money is one of the top reasons couples argue, closely followed by in-laws, sex and friends. If your arguments always escalate into full blown wars, or one of you always ends up giving in, it's time for a change. How?
How do we fight fair in marriage?
Lets hear ur views
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
bittersweet at 24-11-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Fair? I think so! But tough for sure,and always win!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
desiresluv20 at 24-11-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) (m)
There's one quote I love so much and I believe it should be applied in marriage by both partners. It says: Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs. Marriage requires patience and admittance. I always believe that love talks as preached by late Bimbo odukoya. I think every right thinking man needs that also. Money doesn't make a happy home
When you smile at me, i can't help but feel loved.
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 24-11-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: desiresluv20 on 24-11-2010 04:33 PM
There's one quote I love so much and I believe it should be applied in marriage by both partners. It says: Speed isn't always an advantage. The snails were on board with the cheetahs. Marriage requires patience and admittance. I always believe that love talks as preached by late Bimbo odukoya. I think every right thinking man needs that also. Money doesn't make a happy home
i like dis quote too. yeah money doesnt make a happy home
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 24-11-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
truenaija2 at 24-11-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) (f)
silence is good most times but not always u have to know exactly when to talk when my man tells me heaven and earth i dont say a word its after sometime he will personally beg me to talkthen i am sure he will listen especiallyshoutin while expressin urself it doesnt make sense cos he shout u shout nobody hears everybody is talkin when d other isup u r down and when he is down then u r on his level
Posted: at 24-11-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 24-11-2010 07:13 PM (14 years ago) (f)
hmmm dis is interesting!
Well, am not married yet and i still hav to learn a lot Am d type who talk too much wen we fight, like jumpin from one topic to an oda and u can imagine how it makes my bf go crazy BUT i will not start a fight without gud reasons.... I knw dat sometimes i shud just b quiet or go outside and cool down...Am tryin sha
Posted: at 24-11-2010 07:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero