'Just a Relationship' (Page 2)

b4 u start giving ur bf the kind of respect u talking abt u hv to be sure the relationship is heading to marriage most guys hv u as a gf and never hope to marry u so y will u too hv to be with him with one leg and half mind but if the relationship is heading i mean u both sure of marriage then u give him dat respect as a husband he wold be for instance he may ask u to start going to His church u will do dat cos u know he church is also urs bt a gf u go ask am 4 watin na and most guys after doing all this for them they leave u to marry another so y u go kill urself 4 bf when he nt ur husband

Posted: at 13-12-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmmm!
That "ONLY" sucks!
If one hears his/her bf/gf saying that, they should get out of that so called relationship ASAP!

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Posted: at 13-12-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I understand wat u mean... but dont u tink we shud treat everybody wit d same respect?
I mean, if am dating a guy (not sure yet if it leads to marriage) why cant i treat him wit d same respect u go
treat ur husband? U neva knw dat person go b ur future hubby?
i dont understand why u can not go to d same church wen u 'just' bf/gf? Or all those oda tins... i just dont get it

Posted: at 13-12-2010 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

That's a player for you!

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Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

NT SEX...
just live dat to me.. in every rltnshp i will want to start i make up my mind on what i want

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Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Alrite, am not talking abt players or ashawo
am talkin abt relationships where u limit d tins u can/can't do
for d oda person..... And I wonder WHY dat is.....??

Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Because former introduction has not be made. The reason for the relationship have not been made known.

Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Wen ppl dey see u every day for street, dem no get mind?

So wen u tell ur parents/friends/... ur relationship is official? From then
u can do whatever it takes? tht wat u mean?

Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:18 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u know most guys will even tell u wat dey want is just friendship even sm girl can date a guy and when it comes to marriage the guy is nt their choice so the difference is there when u talk of husband he owns u i mean u are both one there is no going back its a life time stuff u can fight and kill for ur husband but a gf or bf if u fight finish he may leave u for another girl maybe from his village i may tolerate som satin things 4rom my husband but i wont take it if he is my bf especially when am nt sure of the relationship  

Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That's possible, but it's very weird, I mean, it makes u wondering if after marriage he'll not continue to behave the same!

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Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero