Maybe cos they don't really know d meaning of love.Not all though, some men are very reserved and don't say it all d time.As for me,i prefer using "like" cos i knw i dnt truely love any1. [/quoe] They no wat they sayin they just like other n sayin they think that will get them wat they want da panties quicker,, but ur also rite Posted: at 17-06-2011 02:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Not all Nigerian men do say i love u loosely, maybe u have been unfortunate to meet such men like that.
Thanks I no theyr all not like that but a lot of them really do n it is a big turnoff- n, , they thinkits sexy-not 2 brag but they do ALL THE TIME THANKS 4YO COMMENT Posted: at 17-06-2011 02:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ANYWAY I'VE BEEN OUT OF NIGERIA FOR YRS, BUT HERE IN US, MY LADY FRIENDS SAY THAT WORD TO ME TOO.
UNDERSTAN, BUT THE FACT IS WE NEED OR WE WANT A LIL MORE FIST B 4 THAT NONSENSE. Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I do understand where you are coming from with this question as I have witnessed it quite abundantly. Speaking as a American born Nigerian woman, I believe it is their way of showing that they are seriously interested and culturally things are done differently, where the statement I like you and I love you are utilized interchangeably.
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part. Posted: at 14-08-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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giftmurphy at 15-08-2011 07:29 PM (12 years ago) (f) ride on! Posted: at 15-08-2011 07:29 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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I do understand where you are coming from with this question as I have witnessed it quite abundantly. Speaking as a American born Nigerian woman, I believe it is their way of showing that they are seriously interested and culturally things are done differently, where the statement I like you and I love you are utilized interchangeably.
O OK UNDERSTOOD THANX Posted: at 23-08-2011 01:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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giftmurphy at 23-08-2011 12:46 PM (12 years ago) (f) k Posted: at 23-08-2011 12:46 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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iykewifey at 23-08-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago) (f) Thank God I am not the only 1 dat thinks dey do. I am not a 9ja babe but love dere culture. I got 1060 friends on fb and 1/4of dem a 9ja guys and my inbox is full of their love resumes. No b small ting oooooo.
IF NAIJA GUY LOVE U TRULY, HE USUALLY SHOW IT BY ACTION,,BUT IF HE DNT,,,,HE LOSELY SAY I LOVE U JUST 2 MAKE U HAPPY.!! Posted: at 23-08-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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giftmurphy at 23-08-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) (f) hmmn Posted: at 23-08-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Thank God I am not the only 1 dat thinks dey do. I am not a 9ja babe but love dere culture. I got 1060 friends on fb and 1/4of dem a 9ja guys and my inbox is full of their love resumes. No b small ting oooooo.
IF NAIJA GUY LOVE U TRULY, HE USUALLY SHOW IT BY ACTION,,BUT IF HE DNT,,,,HE LOSELY SAY I LOVE U JUST 2 MAKE U HAPPY.!! U NO WIFEY I DO BELIEVE THAT I REALLY LIKE THE FACT THAT THEY LOVE U, THEY REALLY ARE NOT AFRAID TO SHOW IT, WERE AS LOT OF DIFFERENT CULTURES ALWAYS TRY 2 HAV THAT MANLY MANTALITY IN SHOWING THERE AFFECTION. Posted: at 23-08-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I do understand where you are coming from with this question as I have witnessed it quite abundantly. Speaking as a American born Nigerian woman, I believe it is their way of showing that they are seriously interested and culturally things are done differently, where the statement I like you and I love you are utilized interchangeably.
OK UNDERSTANABLE, I C WER U COMIN FROM THANX Posted: at 23-08-2011 09:21 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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iykewifey at 24-08-2011 09:49 PM (12 years ago) (f) Thank God I am not the only 1 dat thinks dey do. I am not a 9ja babe but love dere culture. I got 1060 friends on fb and 1/4of dem a 9ja guys and my inbox is full of their love resumes. No b small ting oooooo.
IF NAIJA GUY LOVE U TRULY, HE USUALLY SHOW IT BY ACTION,,BUT IF HE DNT,,,,HE LOSELY SAY I LOVE U JUST 2 MAKE U HAPPY.!! U NO WIFEY I DO BELIEVE THAT I REALLY LIKE THE FACT THAT THEY LOVE U, THEY REALLY ARE NOT AFRAID TO SHOW IT, WERE AS LOT OF DIFFERENT CULTURES ALWAYS TRY 2 HAV THAT MANLY MANTALITY IN SHOWING THERE AFFECTION. INTERESTING Posted: at 24-08-2011 09:49 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Yeah he loves me! Am like his adopted sis WAT U R NOT SERIOUS SO WAT U DOIN ABOUT IT Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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WHY DO NIGERIAN MEN USE THE WORDS I LOVE YOU SO LOOSELY
I AM A BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN AMERICAN (which we all are beautiful) WOMAN I WANT TO KNOW WHY NIGERIAN MEN ARE SO FREELY TO TELL WOMEN I( LOVE YOU) IN AMERICA MEN KEEP THOSE WORDS CLOSE TO THEMSELVES AMERICAN MEN DOESN'T SAY IT TO QUICKLY, SO I WANT TO KNOW IF ANYONE CAN TELL WHY THEY (NIGERIANS) SAY THAT LIKE THAT.
OH IM DATING A BEAUTIFUL NIGERIAN MAN
THANKS FOR THE ANSWERS.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
YOU ALL ARE TOO FUNNY!
KEEP IT MOVIN!
ma dear girl, next time any Nigerian man tells u dat, remind him dat u only want tight love dt u no longer accept loose love anymore. i think dt will solve d problem.THANX WILL DO LMAO IN THE MEAN TIME Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 24-08-2011 10:22 PM (12 years ago) (m) Let me loosely tell her I love me
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:22 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Simple; when used they believe its the quickest way to the girl's heart. However most Nigerian men avoid the statement unless it's a case of lust, genuine affection or the girl has the potential of being used (asset-wise)
WELL IM SAYIN FROM MY EXPERIANCE WIT NIGERIAN MEN, I DONT NO THEM N THEY WILL TELL ME THEY LOVE ME, SO I SAY THAT B COS LOVE AT FIRSR SITE OR LOVE AT FIRST LIE, I NO OTHER CULTERS DO SAME BUT I WAS TALKIN ABOUT NIGERIANS!! Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:26 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Y LOOSELY I DEMAND TIGHT LOVE NOW!!! Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:29 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 24-08-2011 10:30 PM (12 years ago) (m) Simple; when used they believe its the quickest way to the girl's heart. However most Nigerian men avoid the statement unless it's a case of lust, genuine affection or the girl has the potential of being used (asset-wise)
WELL IM SAYIN FROM MY EXPERIANCE WIT NIGERIAN MEN, I DONT NO THEM N THEY WILL TELL ME THEY LOVE ME, SO I SAY THAT B COS LOVE AT FIRSR SITE OR LOVE AT FIRST LIE, I NO OTHER CULTERS DO SAME BUT I WAS TALKIN ABOUT NIGERIANS!! Hmmmmmmmm really ?? so how many of them have told u that ??
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:30 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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dirtykid at 24-08-2011 10:31 PM (12 years ago) (m) Y LOOSELY I DEMAND TIGHT LOVE NOW!!! Eeeh !! Tight one ke, the tight Rove good sha, but i her say the tight Rove travel go Libya.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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Simple; when used they believe its the quickest way to the girl's heart. However most Nigerian men avoid the statement unless it's a case of lust, genuine affection or the girl has the potential of being used (asset-wise)
WELL IM SAYIN FROM MY EXPERIANCE WIT NIGERIAN MEN, I DONT NO THEM N THEY WILL TELL ME THEY LOVE ME, SO I SAY THAT B COS LOVE AT FIRSR SITE OR LOVE AT FIRST LIE, I NO OTHER CULTERS DO SAME BUT I WAS TALKIN ABOUT NIGERIANS!! Hmmmmmmmm really ?? so how many of them have told u that ?? I HAV ONLY BEEN WIT 1 BUT THEY TELL ME THAT A LOT NOT DOWNING ANYONE BUT I GET EMAILS, WIN OUT N PUBLIC JUST ABOUT ANY WERE THEY R NOT THE ONLY ONES OF COURSE Posted: at 24-08-2011 10:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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