SHE WILL NEVER SHOW ANY RESPECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Page 3)

Date: 21-12-2010 10:54 am (14 years ago) | Author: Tu young
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- juleshotluv at 21-12-2010 12:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 21-12-2010 12:01 PM
respct has nothing to do with where u grow up

Right!

Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 21-12-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago)
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@topic.wow!
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 21-12-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided


But what kind of respect do they '' In Laws'' required again, she already greeted them and also handshakes, right ?? do they required her to greet them with Leg shake ? 

What actually do people want ? the kind of ladies that pretend to be too holy by observing all those rules and regulations but inside them, they're really not that good ? they should let the new couples do their thing and not cancelling their happiness. greetings in a local way, what differences does it bring ?

Have you all forgotten that even in Europe/ America, they don't even regard Mr president that much, everyone is equal. if Obasanjo like, let him come for example in Uk without paying for Bus or train ticket, if they caught him, he will pay for the fined. 

Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- babydol at 21-12-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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lt doesn't matter where you grow up "respect is discipline"... some naija brought children doesn't respect too, despite the culture they grew up with. Poster, she's just a wayward spolt brat, maybe she grew up in a social home (we call them govt. property over here )..... l'm a sinlge mother, had a teenage daughter (18yrs), she's born here in the UK, she respect herself and elderly people.  
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 21-12-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided


But what kind of respect do they '' In Laws'' required again, she already greeted them and also handshakes, right ?? do they required her to greet them with Leg shake ? 

What actually do people want ? the kind of ladies that pretend to be too holy by observing all those rules and regulations but inside them, they're really not that good ? they should let the new couples do their thing and not cancelling their happiness. greetings in a local way, what differences does it bring ?

Have you all forgotten that even in Europe/ America, they don't even regard Mr president that much, everyone is equal. if Obasanjo like, let him come for example in Uk without paying for Bus or train ticket, if they caught him, he will pay for the fined. 
Are you trying to say if you are the girl you will do more than that.....DirtyKid this is Nigeria not UK or US
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Priceless-jewel at 21-12-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago)
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dats wat he is trying to say
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 12:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: babydol on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
lt doesn't matter where you grow up "respect is discipline"... some naija brought children doesn't respect too, despite the culture they grew up with. Poster, she's just a wayward spolt brat, maybe she grew up in a social home (we call them govt. property over here )..... l'm a sinlge mother, had a teenage daughter (18yrs), she's born here in the UK, she respect herself and elderly people.  
I think i get your point mum
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:36 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Priceless-jewel on 21-12-2010 12:34 PM
dats wat he is trying to say
and some1 like him will never take that for any reason
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 21-12-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:41 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Nobody is ready to control her but just a dirtykid....if you are the Girl will you do the same?Huh???
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 21-12-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:51 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:41 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Nobody is ready to control her but just a dirtykid....if you are the Girl will you do the same?Huh???
no,i wont.i mean i wont walk away.
Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 21-12-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:32 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 21-12-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided


But what kind of respect do they '' In Laws'' required again, she already greeted them and also handshakes, right ?? do they required her to greet them with Leg shake ? 

What actually do people want ? the kind of ladies that pretend to be too holy by observing all those rules and regulations but inside them, they're really not that good ? they should let the new couples do their thing and not cancelling their happiness. greetings in a local way, what differences does it bring ?

Have you all forgotten that even in Europe/ America, they don't even regard Mr president that much, everyone is equal. if Obasanjo like, let him come for example in Uk without paying for Bus or train ticket, if they caught him, he will pay for the fined. 
Are you trying to say if you are the girl you will do more than that.....DirtyKid this is Nigeria not UK or US


I guess those elders or so called In Laws might be little harsh to her because they want to show that what you just said now, This is Nigeria !! and so what about that ? Do you know how many miles that lady traveled down to that place to honor the marriage rites ?? is that not enough respect to them ? don't you know many girls will want to have their wedding abroad where they were born, so that her own friends and family will attend, not some In laws that required some special local/traditional respect from their new wife. is something they will have to teach her slowly, the person in charge for this, should be the husband not some in laws .

Posted: at 21-12-2010 12:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:54 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:51 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:41 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Nobody is ready to control her but just a dirtykid....if you are the Girl will you do the same?Huh???
no,i wont.i mean i wont walk away.
but you will not show respect
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:20 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 21-12-2010 12:57 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:32 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 21-12-2010 12:26 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided


But what kind of respect do they '' In Laws'' required again, she already greeted them and also handshakes, right ?? do they required her to greet them with Leg shake ? 

What actually do people want ? the kind of ladies that pretend to be too holy by observing all those rules and regulations but inside them, they're really not that good ? they should let the new couples do their thing and not cancelling their happiness. greetings in a local way, what differences does it bring ?

Have you all forgotten that even in Europe/ America, they don't even regard Mr president that much, everyone is equal. if Obasanjo like, let him come for example in Uk without paying for Bus or train ticket, if they caught him, he will pay for the fined. 
Are you trying to say if you are the girl you will do more than that.....DirtyKid this is Nigeria not UK or US


I guess those elders or so called In Laws might be little harsh to her because they want to show that what you just said now, This is Nigeria !! and so what about that ? Do you know how many miles that lady traveled down to that place to honor the marriage rites ?? is that not enough respect to them ? don't you know many girls will want to have their wedding abroad where they were born, so that her own friends and family will attend, not some In laws that required some special local/traditional respect from their new wife. is something they will have to teach her slowly, the person in charge for this, should be the husband not some in laws .
Nobody really care but show that day respect......that is the problem she's having
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blazingdiamond at 21-12-2010 01:28 PM (14 years ago)
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the girl was just being rude. living abroad for a long time is no excuse to be rude. the boy got lucky that the wedding did not hold otherwise it wud have been hell Angry
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 21-12-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 01:20 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:54 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:51 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:41 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Nobody is ready to control her but just a dirtykid....if you are the Girl will you do the same?Huh???
no,i wont.i mean i wont walk away.
but you will not show respect
i will.and also learn new things from them
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:42 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blazingdiamond on 21-12-2010 01:28 PM
the girl was just being rude. living abroad for a long time is no excuse to be rude. the boy got lucky that the wedding did not hold otherwise it wud have been hell Angry
Blazing comment.....nice...so do you mean that should the end of the relationship
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 2YOUNG at 21-12-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 01:42 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 01:20 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:54 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:51 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:41 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 12:28 PM
Quote from: onyin on 21-12-2010 12:12 PM
@topic.wow!
what is wow in that Onyin
with her walking away from everything.hmmm but maybe she's scared of being controlled by the inlaws.so she left thinking the guy will stand by her.
Nobody is ready to control her but just a dirtykid....if you are the Girl will you do the same?Huh???
no,i wont.i mean i wont walk away.
but you will not show respect
i will.and also learn new things from them
and make some changes?Huh???
Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 21-12-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided

Dat's Not Nice of Her

She must be Pompous, cos even a White Woman will try and Abide by the Culture of her Spouse

She may be Seeing them as too Low class for her... If it was Obama, would she not even Crawl on the Floor if they ask her to??  Angry

Posted: at 21-12-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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