SHE WILL NEVER SHOW ANY RESPECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Page 5)

Date: 21-12-2010 10:54 am (14 years ago) | Author: Tu young
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- Treasure2 at 21-12-2010 06:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 21-12-2010 06:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 21-12-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 21-12-2010 06:30 PM
Grin Grin Grin
u always dey lol or shine ur teeth like there is no tomorrow  Grin
Posted: at 21-12-2010 06:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyiis at 1-01-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Respect i s very essential in any relationship be it spause , parents or inlaws ...............and as long as that is lacking the relationship is on a stormy sea . If she really love and respect her guy why not his parents ? In African culture you are married into a family and not just to your man only and winning the hearts of your husbands family gives you the best insurance in marriage

Posted: at 1-01-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- annycool2009 at 1-01-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago)
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This babe needs serious flogging,the guy shuld take her back to her mama for more lesson.RUBBISH
Posted: at 1-01-2011 05:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyiis at 3-01-2011 02:57 PM (14 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 3-01-2011 02:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 03:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  1-01-2011 02:35 PM
Respect i s very essential in any relationship be it spause , parents or inlaws ...............and as long as that is lacking the relationship is on a stormy sea . If she really love and respect her guy why not his parents ? In African culture you are married into a family and not just to your man only and winning the hearts of your husbands family gives you the best insurance in marriage
true talk.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 3-01-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago)
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reading
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 3-01-2011 03:21 PM (14 years ago)
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when u talk of respect it depends on d culture she grew up someone being used to adifferent culture maybe she doesnt even know d culture of dis poepleso well, what is respect in ur culture canb disrespect in another culture or even wrong i went with aboyfriendto seehis unclei am notigbo so i dont know d igbo culture d garden was passed to know so i assumed i am suppose to take mine and pass it as i was a bout to take mine the uncle just screamed at me, i was angry and really didnt have d appetite to eat the garden egg but my boyfriend pleaded with his eyes n i took it something i dont know or not used to cannot b counted as disrespect its difficult to adapt to someone elses culture immediately  Respect is a cultural thing!!!!
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:21 PM
when u talk of respect it depends on d culture she grew up someone being used to adifferent culture maybe she doesnt even know d culture of dis poepleso well, what is respect in ur culture canb disrespect in another culture or even wrong i went with aboyfriendto seehis unclei am notigbo so i dont know d igbo culture d garden was passed to know so i assumed i am suppose to take mine and pass it as i was a bout to take mine the uncle just screamed at me, i was angry and really didnt have d appetite to eat the garden egg but my boyfriend pleaded with his eyes n i took it something i dont know or not used to cannot b counted as disrespect its difficult to adapt to someone elses culture immediately  Respect is a cultural thing!!!!
not really,respect is not a cultural thing.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 3-01-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:21 PM
when u talk of respect it depends on d culture she grew up someone being used to adifferent culture maybe she doesnt even know d culture of dis poepleso well, what is respect in ur culture canb disrespect in another culture or even wrong i went with aboyfriendto seehis unclei am notigbo so i dont know d igbo culture d garden was passed to know so i assumed i am suppose to take mine and pass it as i was a bout to take mine the uncle just screamed at me, i was angry and really didnt have d appetite to eat the garden egg but my boyfriend pleaded with his eyes n i took it something i dont know or not used to cannot b counted as disrespect its difficult to adapt to someone elses culture immediately  Respect is a cultural thing!!!!

You are very right , in your own case u were ready to make the necessary adjustments to fit in but in a case where the person involved is not ready to bend down an d learn...............that is where the problem comes in

Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 3-01-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  3-01-2011 03:31 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:21 PM
when u talk of respect it depends on d culture she grew up someone being used to adifferent culture maybe she doesnt even know d culture of dis poepleso well, what is respect in ur culture canb disrespect in another culture or even wrong i went with aboyfriendto seehis unclei am notigbo so i dont know d igbo culture d garden was passed to know so i assumed i am suppose to take mine and pass it as i was a bout to take mine the uncle just screamed at me, i was angry and really didnt have d appetite to eat the garden egg but my boyfriend pleaded with his eyes n i took it something i dont know or not used to cannot b counted as disrespect its difficult to adapt to someone elses culture immediately  Respect is a cultural thing!!!!
not really,respect is not a cultural thing.

It is Onyin my in-laws children dont call me aunt i was angry about until i checked d dictionary meaning of aunty and uncle i found out they were right in Nigeria we call almost everybody aunty and uncle its d wrong use of English but its d Nigerian way of life(CULTURE)
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-01-2011 03:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:42 PM
Quote from: onyin on  3-01-2011 03:31 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  3-01-2011 03:21 PM
when u talk of respect it depends on d culture she grew up someone being used to adifferent culture maybe she doesnt even know d culture of dis poepleso well, what is respect in ur culture canb disrespect in another culture or even wrong i went with aboyfriendto seehis unclei am notigbo so i dont know d igbo culture d garden was passed to know so i assumed i am suppose to take mine and pass it as i was a bout to take mine the uncle just screamed at me, i was angry and really didnt have d appetite to eat the garden egg but my boyfriend pleaded with his eyes n i took it something i dont know or not used to cannot b counted as disrespect its difficult to adapt to someone elses culture immediately  Respect is a cultural thing!!!!
not really,respect is not a cultural thing.

It is Onyin my in-laws children dont call me aunt i was angry about until i checked d dictionary meaning of aunty and uncle i found out they were right in Nigeria we call almost everybody aunty and uncle its d wrong use of English but its d Nigerian way of life(CULTURE)
tht's  culture.Ghanians dont call everyone anty and uncle like we do,but still not calling sumone anty or uncle does not mean you dont respect them.culture is different from respect.respect is an individual thing.if a person is not respectful and mannerless not even culture can make that person to be respectful.i can call you anty but still disrespect you.
Posted: at 3-01-2011 03:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- DiannaB at 4-01-2011 02:21 AM (14 years ago)
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I'M A JAMAICAN AND WE'RE NOT INTO PRACTICES AND BELIEFS BUT IF I WERE GETTING MARRIED TO AN AFRICAN MAN I WOULD MAKE THE EFFORT TO LEARN THEIR CULTURES AND CUSTOMS, BUT THAT GIRL WAS TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL
Posted: at 4-01-2011 02:21 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 4-01-2011 04:15 AM (14 years ago)
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its a lesson to he guy but not the gurl, as for the gurl, she will learn how to respect by fire by force
Posted: at 4-01-2011 04:15 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-01-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 6-01-2011 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 6-01-2011 12:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided

d parents of d guy honestly saved him 4rm a calamity he tot was going to be marriage.
if d girl refused to show respect to d parents of d would be husband, i wonder how much respect she has for him.
he should be thanking his stars. a marriage witout mutual respect? count Mazi out.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 12:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 6-01-2011 12:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  6-01-2011 12:53 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided

d parents of d guy honestly saved him 4rm a calamity he tot was going to be marriage.
if d girl refused to show respect to d parents of d would be husband, i wonder how much respect she has for him.
he should be thanking his stars. a marriage witout mutual respect? count Mazi out.

lol.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 12:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 6-01-2011 01:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  6-01-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: mazi on  6-01-2011 12:53 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided

d parents of d guy honestly saved him 4rm a calamity he tot was going to be marriage.
if d girl refused to show respect to d parents of d would be husband, i wonder how much respect she has for him.
he should be thanking his stars. a marriage witout mutual respect? count Mazi out.

lol.

Nne no b true?
Posted: at 6-01-2011 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 6-01-2011 01:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  6-01-2011 01:08 PM
Quote from: onyin on  6-01-2011 12:55 PM
Quote from: mazi on  6-01-2011 12:53 PM
Quote from: 2YOUNG on 21-12-2010 10:54 AM
The Guy met this LADY in Canada after DATING  for a long  period of time they sent message home that they are coming home for MARRIAGE....They arrive the next week......But due to where this Girl grown up...when they arrive she greeted the in-laws with hand shaking no SIGN of NIGERIAN CULTURE ...they all feel Embarrassed so they try to correct her but she refused..... Shocked they cancel the wedding and the LADY said "I will never show any Respect" so my QUESTION is that

LADIES:- if you are in her position will you said because you grown up outside the country bc of that NO RESPECT for you in-laws Huh?
                                            OR

GUYS:- Will you said because your parents don't want her so you too you are no more interested

GENERAL:- Is that where you will end the relationship :'( Undecided

d parents of d guy honestly saved him 4rm a calamity he tot was going to be marriage.
if d girl refused to show respect to d parents of d would be husband, i wonder how much respect she has for him.
he should be thanking his stars. a marriage witout mutual respect? count Mazi out.

lol.

Nne no b true?
its true.and he's lucky,she showed her real self.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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