Julian is my friend and she hv a bf though i hv nt seen the guy we only talk on phone. the problem here is dat this guy is always caling her evry nw and then to know where she is what she is doing, am nt the one he calls but i really get upset with the way he calls and my frnd too but she dnt know hw to tell the bf, sm times she even lie of her were about, and the first thing he will ever say is where ar u, hw long hv u been there, is it nt time 4 u to go home. yest eveing she and her sis came to my office immediatly they got there d guy call, i can only here my frnd say, am in the house with Chioma dats me and mary dats her sis but Chioma is up stairs, am down stairs doing sm thing oh mary is busy all lies and when i look at her i know she dnt like the situation but maybe dnt knw hw to tell her guy the calling is too much he calls nw in the next 10mins he called again just like dat and now wat will i call this, the guy dnt thrust her or he dnt want to loos her
seriously if u are in her shoes hw do u aaproach it nt leeting ur bf feel bad. and i think its vice versa
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 8-01-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
She can tell him in a polite way tht she dusnt like such. If he cant understand why, make she do d same tin wit him for 1 week, he's gonna beg her to stop.
In a relationship u shud b able to talk abt everytin, so she shudn be afraid....
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 8-01-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) (f)
They call, we complain, they dont call we still complain..............
oh dont mind me............too much of everything is not good though..........probably he doesnt feel secure in the relationship.........but I cant find myself telling my man he is calling too much..........rather I smile each time he calls...........maybe becos he doesnt call like the guy in the story......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
hmmmmmm,it seems like,the dude is kinda scared of losing this gal for another dude or maybe he is trying to be a show concerns dude but he is doing it wrongly...well,tell your friend to open up with the dude...let her tell him that she is not to happy with the ways he always called her...so the dude can cut down his calling...if it was,he didn't call now,she will be complaining now that the dude is doing the calling..she is not comfortable with it.
they need communication...
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 8-01-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 8-01-2011 12:29 PM
They call, we complain, they dont call we still complain..............
oh dont mind me............too much of everything is not good though..........probably he doesnt feel secure in the relationship.........but I cant find myself telling my man he is calling too much..........rather I smile each time he calls...........maybe becos he doesnt call like the guy in the story......
suported
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
chiglamour4u at 8-01-2011 12:35 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 8-01-2011 12:27 PM
She can tell him in a polite way tht she dusnt like such. If he cant understand why, make she do d same tin wit him for 1 week, he's gonna beg her to stop.
In a relationship u shud b able to talk abt everytin, so she shudn be afraid....
i really dnt knw but seriously nt the calling but he will always call to know were she is if she is in my house and the guy call she tells d guy she is at my place he will ask her to give me phone to be sure she is in my house. that one na suspicious act na
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
but sha..if he dey do the call too much..e dey vex sha...aleast make he dey give the woman a little break..cheii...and asking questions upon questions..as if he be the girl papa or something.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 8-01-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 8-01-2011 12:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 8-01-2011 12:27 PM
She can tell him in a polite way tht she dusnt like such. If he cant understand why, make she do d same tin wit him for 1 week, he's gonna beg her to stop.
In a relationship u shud b able to talk abt everytin, so she shudn be afraid....
i really dnt knw but seriously nt the calling but he will always call to know were she is if she is in my house and the guy call she tells d guy she is at my place he will ask her to give me phone to be sure she is in my house. that one na suspicious act na
nooo dat one too much na.......but she can tell him like, baby i like ur fone call too much but i no like all dis ur questions....i don show u already u can trust me.......How long r they dating now?
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 8-01-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 8-01-2011 12:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 8-01-2011 12:27 PM
She can tell him in a polite way tht she dusnt like such. If he cant understand why, make she do d same tin wit him for 1 week, he's gonna beg her to stop.
In a relationship u shud b able to talk abt everytin, so she shudn be afraid....
i really dnt knw but seriously nt the calling but he will always call to know were she is if she is in my house and the guy call she tells d guy she is at my place he will ask her to give me phone to be sure she is in my house. that one na suspicious act na
Something is missing in their relationship.............a little TRUST...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
una 4 dey happy say person dey call una for fone...................una dey vex.if the guy no call 4 weeks na una go say him no dey do well
It's not about the calls it's about the 'questionnaire' attached to the constant phone calls
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
chiglamour4u at 8-01-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 8-01-2011 12:29 PM
hmmmmmm,it seems like,the dude is kinda scared of losing this gal for another dude or maybe he is trying to be a show concerns dude but he is doing it wrongly...well,tell your friend to open up with the dude...let her tell him that she is not to happy with the ways he always called her...so the dude can cut down his calling...if it was,he didn't call now,she will be complaining now that the dude is doing the calling..she is not comfortable with it.
they need communication...
if it communication they do communicate ok for example u went out to mk ur hair with ur sis and frind b4 u finish ur hair d guy don call u like 4 time asking if u ar through with ur hair the next one he called u told him u ar through but waiting 4 ur sis to finish and he ws like wat for dat u shld go home if u ar through with ur hair y shld u wait 4 ur sis
wat will u call that if this guy marry u watin go happens
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Julian is my friend and she hv a bf though i hv nt seen the guy we only talk on phone. the problem here is dat this guy is always caling her evry nw and then to know where she is what she is doing, am nt the one he calls but i really get upset with the way he calls and my frnd too but she dnt know hw to tell the bf, sm times she even lie of her were about, and the first thing he will ever say is where ar u, hw long hv u been there, is it nt time 4 u to go home. yest eveing she and her sis came to my office immediatly they got there d guy call, i can only here my frnd say, am in the house with Chioma dats me and mary dats her sis but Chioma is up stairs, am down stairs doing sm thing oh mary is busy all lies and when i look at her i know she dnt like the situation but maybe dnt knw hw to tell her guy the calling is too much he calls nw in the next 10mins he called again just like dat and now wat will i call this, the guy dnt thrust her or he dnt want to loos her
seriously if u are in her shoes hw do u aaproach it nt leeting ur bf feel bad. and i think its vice versa
Is there Financial Benefit for her in this Thing?
Cos She should tell him she Doesn't enjoy the Questioning
But, knowing Women and their Ways, if there's Financial Benefit, that's the Only way she will Persevere... Unless she's just Desperate 2 be in a Relationship
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
una 4 dey happy say person dey call una for fone...................una dey vex.if the guy no call 4 weeks na una go say him no dey do well
It's not about the calls it's about the 'questionnaire' attached to the constant phone calls
Yep!
What would you do?lol
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
chiglamour4u at 8-01-2011 12:45 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 8-01-2011 12:38 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 8-01-2011 12:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 8-01-2011 12:27 PM
She can tell him in a polite way tht she dusnt like such. If he cant understand why, make she do d same tin wit him for 1 week, he's gonna beg her to stop.
In a relationship u shud b able to talk abt everytin, so she shudn be afraid....
i really dnt knw but seriously nt the calling but he will always call to know were she is if she is in my house and the guy call she tells d guy she is at my place he will ask her to give me phone to be sure she is in my house. that one na suspicious act na
nooo dat one too much na.......but she can tell him like, baby i like ur fone call too much but i no like all dis ur questions....i don show u already u can trust me.......How long r they dating now?
i thnk 3 years nw
Posted: at 8-01-2011 12:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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