My bosses wife, is the head of Admin/Personnel, i report directly to her, i was due for promotion since last yr, when i asked for it she always tell me that until i do what am supposed to do, when i asked further she won't tell me but she kept on buying me gifts that made my wife to start suspecting i have an affair with her.
Not until yesterday, when we resumed officially on getting to the office she send for me, on getting there she stretched her both hands wide open for me, i stopped immediately at the door, she now asked me to sit down, i did. she said " Ur promotion is overdue but its in your hands any time u are ready. what am i supposed to do ma? i asked? are u a baby? can't u see that am in love with u? she responded with anger, Now get out of my office and get back to me when ever u are ready. i left the office immediately.
i dnt know what to do, am hiding it from my wife since the last gift she bought for me brought us a quarrel. SHOULD I TELL THE HUSBAND MY OVERALL BOSS? though he is in UK now.
Posted: at 11-01-2011 10:08 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Treasure2 at 11-01-2011 10:25 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Don't make that mistake of talking, not even to her husband or to anybody. Just keep you peace and look up to heaven bc your help will come from heaven.
If she ever ask you again, remind her that she is a married woman and the wife of ur boss. Live her to her conscience if she even have one.
Posted: at 11-01-2011 10:25 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Give her reasons why you won't compromise and if she still persisting you for sex, then, start searching for another job, plz dont tell her husband. bcos either he beliv u or not, yet you might loss you job. Best of luck
Posted: at 11-01-2011 10:30 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
SAmyrocko at 11-01-2011 10:36 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: aymondw on 11-01-2011 10:30 AM
Give her reasons why you won't compromise and if she still persisting you for sex, then, start searching for another job, plz dont tell her husband. bcos either he beliv u or not, yet you might loss you job. Best of luck
Seconded!
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 11-01-2011 10:36 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
blessedme at 11-01-2011 10:40 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 11-01-2011 10:25 AM
Don't make that mistake of talking, not even to her husband or to anybody. Just keep you peace and look up to heaven bc your help will come from heaven.
If she ever ask you again, remind her that she is a married woman and the wife of ur boss. Live her to her conscience if she even have one.
correct talk lady T
Posted: at 11-01-2011 10:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Peter_Ade at 11-01-2011 11:31 AM (14 years ago) (m)
@Poster, you too buy her gifts like Bible & some literatures about faithfulness & let her know wat God says about stolen water in secret and the consequences. meanwhile, be searching 4 beta Job. Best luck !!!!
Posted: at 11-01-2011 11:31 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 11-01-2011 11:36 AM (14 years ago) (f)
@poster................my people do say 'HE WHO WANTS TO DINE WITH THE DEVIL SHOULD USE A LONG SPOON'........you called for it, you accepted gifts, dont you know that such thing could pop up......now it is here.......ok what is done is done......but ON NO ACCOUNT SHOULD YOU DO AS SHE WISHES........she can shove the promotion down her ass for all you care......know this: YOUR DAYS IN DAT ESTABLISHMENT ARE NUMBERED.......you know what I mean, right?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 11-01-2011 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
too much mess married woman that cannot stick to her hubby alone na wao oooo
this kain thing dey vex me die
No vex bcos dis is very rampant now, it's only God can save our generation, Even, some would treaty you as if, it's there ryte. It's a really funny issue.
Posted: at 11-01-2011 11:42 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie