archibong222 at 10-11-2008 02:01 PM (15 years ago)
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i cant decide who i want to get married to, i have this wonderful lady, we have been going out for 6yrs, she is simply nice, has all the attribute u need in a woman but she is a sickler, found out about 2 yrs ago but i loved her so much i could not leave her,medical wise we are not compatable, then i met someone else 6 months ago, am her first love, loving ,caring and too nice.she too has the wifey attribute.she always treats me good like u treat ur first love i guess u know how that goes. now i have to decide who i get to marry, cause i set a goal for next year to be married and it has to be one of them, if i let down the first, she may kill her self.if i let down the second i may as well be dead. help me out
Posted: at 10-11-2008 02:01 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
digitalman at 10-11-2008 03:59 PM (15 years ago) (m)
guy u're in trouble, but its not ur fault anyway, u would've quit the first one when u noticed that she's a sickler, just try to explain everything about her situation to her with a clean heart, settle her with a thangible thing then move on to ur second love, after all its never be ur fault. but becareful
Posted: at 10-11-2008 03:59 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Why? he got himself into that mess with those gurls, therefore he should know how to get himself out of it. If u know how to Insert, you should also know how to withdraw, but if you you don't know how to do neither, then you should just keep ya thang in your pant and stick to one gurl, simple as that.
Posted: at 11-11-2008 01:39 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i cant decide who i want to get married to, i have this wonderful lady, we have been going out for 6yrs, she is simply nice, has all the attribute u need in a woman but she is a sickler, found out about 2 yrs ago but i loved her so much i could not leave her,medical wise we are not compatable, then i met someone else 6 months ago, am her first love, loving ,caring and too nice.she too has the wifey attribute.she always treats me good like u treat ur first love i guess u know how that goes. now i have to decide who i get to marry, cause i set a goal for next year to be married and it has to be one of them, if i let down the first, she may kill her self.if i let down the second i may as well be dead. help me out
But y must u think anyone in this world will even think about killing themselves over u.....i'm sure you're not worth it, so don't be think so highly of yourself......
it sounds to me like u really have a problem with her illness and i just don't understand y u fault the poor girl over a medical condition, that mentality among some africans really needs to stop ...cuz u make it sound like she can't still live a productive life..... clearly u have made up your mind which is y u went looking somewhere else, so simply man the f**k up and stop wasting both their time
live....love....laugh.....
Posted: at 11-11-2008 08:49 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
eagleseyez at 11-11-2008 10:03 AM (15 years ago) (m)
simply, set one of them up wth a guy u think she culd fall for, then use it as an excuse to take to ur heels, thereafter u can settle wth the other one....lol
Posted: at 11-11-2008 10:03 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mmemshima at 11-11-2008 11:56 AM (15 years ago) (f)
:'( :'(just search your heart and u'll discover that u know what u want deep down...and like our fellow naijapals said just pray and try talking to both parties,its not going to be easy for sure...best of luck
Posted: at 11-11-2008 11:56 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
You should leave them both alone.....you starting seeing the second girl while still with the first, you're a cheater...you should think long and hard about marriage....I can just see how your marriage is going to be.
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Posted: at 11-11-2008 12:20 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Why? he got himself into that mess with those gurls, therefore he should know how to get himself out of it. If u know how to Insert, you should also know how to withdraw, but if you you don't know how to do neither, then you should just keep ya thang in your pant and stick to one gurl, simple as that.
I think you're right sha
Posted: at 11-11-2008 12:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
SAmyrocko at 11-11-2008 05:33 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: archibong222 on 10-11-2008 02:01 PM
i cant decide who i want to get married to, i have this wonderful lady, we have been going out for 6yrs, she is simply nice, has all the attribute u need in a woman but she is a sickler, found out about 2 yrs ago but i loved her so much i could not leave her,medical wise we are not compatable, then i met someone else 6 months ago, am her first love, loving ,caring and too nice.she too has the wifey attribute.she always treats me good like u treat ur first love i guess u know how that goes. now i have to decide who i get to marry, cause i set a goal for next year to be married and it has to be one of them, if i let down the first, she may kill her self.if i let down the second i may as well be dead. help me out
THERE IS NO PERFECT PERSON UPON THE EARTH.. IF YOU HAVE SEEN THE ONE THAT YOU CAN ACCOMMODATE; YOU SHOULD GO ON WITH HER AND TAKE HER TO THE ALTER LEARN TO LOVE HER AND APPRECIATE HER.
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Posted: at 11-11-2008 05:33 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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