This story is abt a friend. I call her Anty bcos, she is far older than me. It all started in 2001. Stella met Uche (not real name) and they both stated dating and later on he(Uche) proposed marriage to her. Then, she was in her final year at the delta state university studying bio-chemistry. She rounded up her NYSC 2003 and 2004, she got a job as a pharmacist in a private hospital with N40,000 as her monthly salary. Uche being a graduate too but had no job decided to go into business but the problem is how to get the capital to start off. For the love Stella had for him promise to be giving him N30,000 from her monthly salary since she still stayed with her parents untill Uche gets the amount he needs for the bizness. On the 28 of sept 2006, Stella went to Uche's house and finds out that his door was locked outside. she was surprised bcos Uche did tell her he will not be around that day. Jst then, his landlord came with a letter and handed it over to her. She woke up the following day in warri general hospital. The content of the letter in summary says " As you read this letter, am on my way to Europe. Am sorry i cant marry you. I av to forge ahead with life. Do find urself another man". She was discharged frm d hospital 2 days later. She gathered the broken pieces of her life and started life afresh. When we met early 2010, she was so depressed complaining bitterly that she is yet to be in a stable relationship and i gave her words of encouragement. Nov 1st 2010, i got a txt msg frm her that her wedding will be coming up on the 27th of Nov.2010 and i was very happy for her. She got married to a medical doctor in one of the oil coy and they had their honeymoon in London. To cut a long story short. The most shocking, according to her is that when they arrived London they went to one of those resting spot to have some drink and lo and behold, guess who the waiter was? The runaway boyfriend (Uche). And they both gaze at each other speechlessly.
From my own point of view i can see that he traveled with the money Stella had been giving him frm her monthly salary and God so punished him (Uche) that he ended up as a waiter.
Is it wrong for Stella to have assisted Uche? And what is ur advice for those who spend much on their guy who is yet to marry them in d name of love?
Posted: at 13-01-2011 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 13-01-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) (f)
It wasnt wrong for her to have helped him........
He ran becos he was not meant for her........for her efforts, God has so blessed her.......and for those who repay good with evil, God is watching and He shall pay back.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 13-01-2011 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
hotguy77 at 13-01-2011 03:53 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Pathetic but its a lesson for some pple that think love exist. As far as am concerned, there is nothing like love. Trust your partner when he/she is with you and nothing more
Posted: at 13-01-2011 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
kessybee at 13-01-2011 03:59 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Men.... the guy is so heartless. I think God has started paying him back with his own coin. He will die as a waiter. No wonder they say every disappointment is a blessing.
Posted: at 13-01-2011 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Is not wrong to assist is just that some takes it for granted. and again... both of them are not met to be together that is why thing turned out that way.
Posted: at 13-01-2011 04:34 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Pathetic but its a lesson for some pple that think love exist. As far as am concerned, there is nothing like love. Trust your partner when he/she is with you and nothing more
My brother i wonder if this thing they call love really exist.
Posted: at 13-01-2011 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
A guy gitted his girlfriend who has spend so much on a 5yrs relatnship n travel out only for them to meet again after 4yrs in the same abroad he ran to.
Posted: at 13-01-2011 04:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
1DAFUL !! WHAT A WORLD !! NO HIDDING PLACE 4 A GOLD DIGGER FISH, ONE DAY 4 D THIEF-----------------------IMAGINE FRM GRASS TO GLORY, LET HER MAKE HIM PAY OF EVERY DAMN THING SHE SPENT ON HIM, THIS WORLD IS A SMALL PLACE WE ALL NEED TO B CAREFUL
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 13-01-2011 04:55 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
1DAFUL !! WHAT A WORLD !! NO HIDDING PLACE 4 A GOLD DIGGER FISH, ONE DAY 4 D THIEF-----------------------IMAGINE FRM GRASS TO GLORY, LET HER MAKE HIM PAY OF EVERY DAMN THING SHE SPENT ON HIM, THIS WORLD IS A SMALL PLACE WE ALL NEED TO B CAREFUL
Of course... the world is indeed a small place
Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 13-01-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
DAMN! she's not wrong for helping him ! some ppl r only meant to help others and nothing more
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
He ran becos he was not meant for her........for her efforts, God has so blessed her.......and for those who repay good with evil, God is watching and He shall pay back.........
Exactly...nowaday d evil men do now live with them no longer after them. Dnt repay evil with gud no matter what!
Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Men.... the guy is so heartless. I think God has started paying him back with his own coin. He will die as a waiter. No wonder they say every disappointment is a blessing.
I think so 2, you av said it all.
Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 13-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago) (f)
yep!
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 13-01-2011 05:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
TRENDING GISTS 
........yu already no that 
...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
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