pholake at 4-02-2011 05:30 PM (14 years ago) (f) Hope U know wat i mean or are you one  if Yes better go and do sth abt it no o! I remember one girl we use to call last born during our sec. sch days, if u give her an ordinary hard look she'll start crying... abeg i need stron hand Are u urself a strong man? If u are a strong man, then u need a lady not a manly-woman nor an over-soft one @ that....If u are a strong man, then look for a lady to complete you and not a man like urself...all women have their strong and weak points...what u consider a strong quality in a woman, may be considered a disadvantage by another man! Hmmmm i'm educated by this your last comment! The bottom line still remains don't crucify the man for not being in the hosp. for his wife's delivery there might be some strong reasons for that, you and the new baby all is his responsibilities and property he is in charge of your well being Agreed, absolutely! Posted: at 4-02-2011 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyimau20 at 4-02-2011 05:51 PM (14 years ago) (f) U hv said it all dear. Not at this our present time would a responsible man be at home resting, while the wife was in labour. His presence matters a lot to the woman. It gives the woman more strenght, in order to endure the crucial pain... supported  Posted: at 4-02-2011 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyimau20 at 4-02-2011 05:52 PM (14 years ago) (f) U hv said it all dear. Not at this our present time would a responsible man be at home resting, while the wife was in labour. His presence matters a lot to the woman. It gives the woman more strenght, in order to endure the crucial pain... Exactly my point! Posted: at 4-02-2011 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Its not as if the hubby went to do sth illegal or was it reported that he went to club dancing wit other girl? they said he was sleeping in his own house and his mother was there with the wife........I don't see that as a capital crime that sumone will be threatning to DIVORCE him & all that .....unless u are an unecesary trouble maker in ur matrimonial home
yu cant make that statement in this Laydee's (i mean judges) court w/o evidence No, No court, this is a family matter or are you in drought of clients recently? i dont disciminate all clients goes. Posted: at 4-02-2011 05:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I refuse to Marry all these over soft babes who can't do nothing on their own excep wen u pet & pamper them like egg I don't want to marry egg! i like them strong physically, mentally.......etc
gud luck Hope you fit in my requirement sha I am an "egg" sorry Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I refuse to Marry all these over soft babes who can't do nothing on their own excep wen u pet & pamper them like egg I don't want to marry egg! i like them strong physically, mentally.......etc
why can't you pet her, she is your wife and ur egg or you better go and marry footballer, U no like me atall at all...that kind egg woman from that day you get her pregnant......u will know the true meaning of marrying an egg......she will never stop cry till the day she delivers.... and can never stop cursing you for ever getting her pregnant....forget o!! i don see things! ok- I can c yur pre-wedding questionaire.... are yu a cryier? do yu think yu will b one once yu r pregnant do yu have family history of homonal criers, i.e. mom/ aunt or nan wud yu b willing to sign up a pre-nup to relinquish all crying rights? yu r only allowed one every three months Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Abby at 4-02-2011 06:27 PM (14 years ago) (f) I will not only be at home sleeping but will be at the bar/club relaxing while she's giving birth before going home to sleep and checking on her afterwards. Wetin sef? Na all this too much oyibo movies don dey turn out men into wussies. How many of una papa dey delivery room when dem born una? Ehn?
I think a lot of men like to believe that the more macho or the less they show emotions the more of a man they become. you will be at a bar/club while your wife is giving birth to your child?... I hope you were joking, she might as well be married to a log of wood. Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:27 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Datu at 4-02-2011 06:45 PM (14 years ago) (f) No be Nigerian Man? Na So Dem Dey Behave. Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Well.....I don't see anything back in the husband going 4 a rest......moreover,its his too Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Well.....I don't see anything back in the husband going 4 a rest......moreover,its his too
say wat? Posted: at 5-02-2011 12:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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grace200 at 5-02-2011 12:50 AM (14 years ago) (f) it's not fair Posted: at 5-02-2011 12:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Beegboy at 5-02-2011 03:52 AM (14 years ago) (m) angry ova wat,is he d 1 deliverin u of d baby......... Posted: at 5-02-2011 03:52 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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this is very wrong so while she is going through such pains and between life and death so the husband should be taking a nap tomorrow he will have the guts to say the child is his own after the woman went through all the pains and stress all alone its very inconsiderate and selfish of that man, its not fair i can divorce him for that reason and make sure he never sees my child what rubbish  isnt dat too harsh?? Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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i can undastand he is tired but he shud undastand i need his support rite there... If he wud knw how it feels like, he wud stay!
Anyway my man was wit me in d labour room and he was rily helpful Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:34 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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shaoyang at 5-02-2011 09:49 AM (14 years ago) (m) I refuse to Marry all these over soft babes who can't do nothing on their own excep wen u pet & pamper them like egg I don't want to marry egg! i like them strong physically, mentally.......etc
So you are single.. NO WONDER YOUR INDIFFERENCE TO WOMEN IN LABOUR. Mr Alabi i am not supporting that a man should not be there while his wife is giving birth, my take is that maybe that NAP he was taking if there's a good reason for that shouldn't be crucified...... i m e i will love to be there o! wen my own wife will be delivering so wen we quarrel i go tell am sey if she no take time i go giv am belle make she go dey scream like goat again for hospital Posted: at 5-02-2011 09:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Treasure2 at 5-02-2011 10:07 AM (14 years ago) (f) WHY THAT FACE? Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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shaoyang at 5-02-2011 10:23 AM (14 years ago) (m) Lol not that they do but just use it as njakiri na u know 4 the face i don 4get na yestday face be that here is 2dayz face Posted: at 5-02-2011 10:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Manofp at 5-02-2011 11:01 AM (14 years ago) (m) @betty55...tnx alot jst tel them to learn,guess u gonna be a gud wife..............bcz u'r well unsdertnding. sum woman dnt understnd dat makin a prob wit thr hubby will cus thr kids to suffer...sum even say divorce wit sum1's child, dat means u wil remain dat way..cos dnt fink a gud man wil marry u wit another man's child. Posted: at 5-02-2011 11:01 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Treasure2 at 5-02-2011 11:24 AM (14 years ago) (f) @SHAOYANG, BIKO O UMU NNA GI BU NDI A, MAKA NA FOTO GI E NWERE KA ODI. Posted: at 5-02-2011 11:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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