
A recent social media post has ignited debate over the implications of court marriages, as a Nigerian woman recounted how her mother warned against her son marrying into a family marked by past infidelity and legal maneuvering.
The woman shared the story on X (formerly Twitter), detailing how her mother reacted after attending a family friend's wedding. Reflecting on the bride's background, her mother expressed strong reservations, saying, “If it were my son, I would never allow him to marry into that family.”
Curious about her mother’s reaction, the woman asked for more details. Her mother then explained that the bride’s mother had allegedly cheated on her husband but managed to secure the family home through court proceedings during their divorce. Despite the infidelity, she retained ownership of the house because the marriage had been officiated in court, which entitled her to significant marital assets. According to the woman’s mother, the bride grew up with her mother in the house, now shared with a new partner.
The post quickly gained traction on social media, sparking a wave of reactions and discussions on the influence of family history on marriage choices and the complexities surrounding court marriages in Nigeria. Many users chimed in, with some supporting the mother’s caution and others defending the legal protections that court marriages provide for both spouses.

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