Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has taken to Instagram to share a detailed and emotional post addressing social media activist VeryDarkMan (VDM), following ongoing controversies involving herself, music executive Paulo Okoye, and lawyer Deji Adeyanju.
The tension escalated after Paulo criticized Adeyanju for linking Burna Boy to Speed Darlington’s rearrest, prompting backlash from VDM, who mocked Paulo and reignited past disputes involving Iyabo Ojo.
VDM had referred to Paulo as “Iyabo Ojo’s father” and accused him of meddling in matters unrelated to him.
In her detailed post, Iyabo expressed her observations about his behavior, attributing it to a difficult upbringing marked by a lack of love, care, and stability.
She suggested that these challenges contributed to what she described as his “toxic narcissistic behavior.”
Iyabo claimed that his parents failed to provide a supportive environment, leaving him with unresolved anger and emotional pain.
Rather than confronting those who may have caused his struggles, she noted, he channels his frustrations toward successful individuals, particularly women and men.
She urged him to confront the root causes of his anger and take steps toward healing.
Turning her attention to VDM’s mother, Iyabo raised questions about her role in his upbringing.
She criticized the lack of initiative and dependence on her ex-husband, asking if she was working before her husband left or if her actions may have contributed to the family’s struggles.
She speculated about possible issues such as infidelity or flawed character and questioned why efforts weren’t made to provide for VDM or address the situations that forced him to fend for himself as a child.
On her Instagram page on Friday, she wrote, “Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcissistic behavior, Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.
“Instead of directing your anger towards those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out on successful women and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause.
“Listening to your story, you had to fend for yourself at a very young age, which resorted to stealing potato and chicken to survive. you almost got lynched when you tried to steal a bicycle, so you said, well
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“That was traumatizing as a child, but why would your mother allow that happen?
Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why? Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning
Were you not working at all b4 he ran away?
“Were your character flawed? Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatos or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids you couldn’t raise
“Now, i wouldn’t have asked you bcos everyone has their stories, but your son needs to find healing!
Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets, you knew your mother is the president, general among failed mothers, still you projected it on us, why? O wrong now
“Anyways, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you’re today manipulative, rude, connie, deceitful, and a toxic narcissistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance. Your parents are to blame for it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla
your obsession with Iyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o, I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at night, continue.
VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace.”
Since you’ve mentioned our names once again, I need to ask your mother why? Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on ur ex-husband is concerning
Were you not working at all b4 he ran away?
“Were your character flawed? Did you cheat, Did he want DNA? Why didn’t you make a continuous attempt to find out whose farm ur son stole potatos or chickens from to feed, or were you also enjoying the benefits? Why would you have kids you couldn’t raise
“Now, i wouldn’t have asked you bcos everyone has their stories, but your son needs to find healing!
Vincent, your mother, who failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets, you knew your mother is the president, general among failed mothers, still you projected it on us, why? O wrong now
“Anyways, I get that your life experiences have shaped you into the BEAST you’re today manipulative, rude, connie, deceitful, and a toxic narcissistic. Constantly tarnishing reputations to gain relevance. Your parents are to blame for it o, not Paulo and Mama Festus and Priscilla
your obsession with Iyabo Ojo is telling me that my name lives rent-free in your head o, I don’t have 100m to remove it from your head, so please, If it helps you breathe well at night, continue.
VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace.”
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