my parents inlaw hate me and refuse their son to marry me. what should i do. (Page 2)

Date: 07-03-2011 1:28 am (11 years ago) | Author: ygfxcb uyhgjj
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- SHAFIISHUAIBU at 7-03-2011 12:14 PM (11 years ago)
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hi
Posted: at 7-03-2011 12:14 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- makd at 7-03-2011 12:16 PM (11 years ago)
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My dear, life is a mystry. If you love the man so dearly and the parents said it won't happen, there is only one way out. The only way out is to seek the face of the Lord. There is nothing that is impossible as far as God is concern. Be prayerful and God will lead you through. Thanks.
Posted: at 7-03-2011 12:16 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- kayz45 at 7-03-2011 12:36 PM (11 years ago)
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U jst hv 2 let dm undastnd n if da refuse, let dn gv u atleast 20 reasns u shud no get maried. Taki it is wel
Posted: at 7-03-2011 12:36 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ichas at 7-03-2011 12:39 PM (11 years ago)
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IN GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE 4 THOSE DAT BELIEVE, GUY GO 2 GOD IN PRAYER FIRST AND POUR OUT UR HEART DESIRES, IF SHE MEET 4U, U WILL DEFINITELY WIN D HEART OF YOUR PARENTS. BE PATIENT COS PATIENT DOG EAT D FASTED BONE. GUD LUCK GUY.  
Posted: at 7-03-2011 12:39 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- jopat2008 at 7-03-2011 12:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: silviasilvestet on  7-03-2011 01:28 AM
in this 21st century ,what would make some parents to still decide who there children get married to. why on earth  are my parents inssisting i should not marry a  woman of my choice.  i love her till death. she wa there for me when no one was there and assisted me  both financially and encouraging in so many ways. finally as God would have it  i won the lottery and relocated to the states . but on mentioning her to my parents that im ready to marry this woman . they refuse and never give me any concrete reason why i shld not marry  her. b4 i left the state ,i quietely married her in a court without theier knowlegde which helped me in bringing her to the states without their knowlege the woman in question has given birth to my beautiful baby girl .
 i wish to call my parents and tell them about my wife and baby hoping they go and see her parents and perfom the traditional rights. my mom has being spear heading the issue and make sure that the entire family is against my decision for no good reason. this is a woman that accepted me when i had nothing and now  that i have something ,i even love her me.
pls do u think i did the wright thing. i hope i did.

Bros. you did what u suppose to do. You are the person to enjoy your marriage not your parent. Give them time to change their mind. You can use your relation to perform the marital rites. 
Posted: at 7-03-2011 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- belisconi4real at 7-03-2011 01:13 PM (11 years ago)
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what is d guy saying. Girl d parent are too hard on u. Go away. Becus human are wicked. They can hot u. So think and pray
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:13 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- hobaby at 7-03-2011 02:01 PM (11 years ago)
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my dear, my advice for u is to fine out why ur parent dislike the girl, and if it is not something important.pls make them to understand that is her that stood by u when u are nothing and u are not going to please them and displease ur girl but if it is something important omoo u better amend and hearken to ur parents bcos proverb said what a child could not see when standing an elder will see when sitting. God bless
Posted: at 7-03-2011 02:01 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- mallorca at 7-03-2011 02:05 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: lovethbaby on  7-03-2011 01:57 AM
babe not in this  new life,if your guy love you he will marry you because love dont ask why.
seconded

Posted: at 7-03-2011 02:05 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ekechibaby at 7-03-2011 03:10 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: silviasilvestet on  7-03-2011 01:28 AM
in this 21st century ,what would make some parents to still decide who there children get married to. why on earth  are my parents inssisting i should not marry a  woman of my choice.  i love her till death. she wa there for me when no one was there and assisted me  both financially and encouraging in so many ways. finally as God would have it  i won the lottery and relocated to the states . but on mentioning her to my parents that im ready to marry this woman . they refuse and never give me any concrete reason why i shld not marry  her. b4 i left the state ,i quietely married her in a court without theier knowlegde which helped me in bringing her to the states without their knowlege the woman in question has given birth to my beautiful baby girl .
 i wish to call my parents and tell them about my wife and baby hoping they go and see her parents and perfom the traditional rights. my mom has being spear heading the issue and make sure that the entire family is against my decision for no good reason. this is a woman that accepted me when i had nothing and now  that i have something ,i even love her me.
pls do u think i did the wright thing. i hope i did.
Bros what you did is not bad at all, this not that time when parents we tell their children who to marry and who not to marry.
Posted: at 7-03-2011 03:10 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mallorca at 7-03-2011 03:11 PM (11 years ago)
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readin comments

Posted: at 7-03-2011 03:11 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- macgreat at 7-03-2011 03:16 PM (11 years ago)
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same sex marriage?

Is poster male or female?

Is this copy paste ERROR

Posted: at 7-03-2011 03:16 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 7-03-2011 04:13 PM (11 years ago)
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Let me see.....if I were in these guy's shoes, I'd marry that girl and apologize to my parents later EXCEPT they give me a concrete reason for their refusal....but my question is: did they object to ur dating her from the onset?
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:13 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- silviasilvestet at 7-03-2011 04:19 PM (11 years ago)
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in this 21st century ,what would make some parents to still decide who there children get married to. why on earth  are my parents inssisting i should not marry a  woman of my choice.  i love her till death. she was there for me when no one was there and assisted me  both financially and encouraging in so many ways. finally as God would have it  i won the lottery and relocated to the states . but on mentioning her to my parents that im ready to marry this woman . they refuse and never give me any concrete reason why i shld not marry  her. b4 i left the state ,i quietely married her in a court without thier knowlegde which helped me in bringing her to the states without their knowlege the woman in question has given birth to my beautiful baby girl .they insist she is not from a wealthy family. can you imagine
 i wish to call my parents and tell them about my wife and baby hoping they go and see her parents and perfom the traditional rights. my mom has being spear heading the issue and make sure that the entire family is against my decision for no good reason. this is a woman that accepted me when i had nothing and now  that i have something ,i even love her me.
pls do u think i did the right thing. i hope i did.
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Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:19 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- silviasilvestet at 7-03-2011 04:20 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on  7-03-2011 04:13 PM
Let me see.....if I were in these guy's shoes, I'd marry that girl and apologize to my parents later EXCEPT they give me a concrete reason for their refusal....but my question is: did they object to ur dating her from the onset?



they said she not from a wealthy family.
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:20 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 7-03-2011 04:22 PM (11 years ago)
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Poster r u male or female??
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:22 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- silviasilvestet at 7-03-2011 04:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on  7-03-2011 04:13 PM
Let me see.....if I were in these guy's shoes, I'd marry that girl and apologize to my parents later EXCEPT they give me a concrete reason for their refusal....but my question is: did they object to ur dating her from the onset?


said she is frm a wealthy family and shld either be a DR or.........
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:23 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- salimx16 at 7-03-2011 04:24 PM (11 years ago)
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does he loves u?
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:24 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bestcafe at 7-03-2011 04:26 PM (11 years ago)
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oho
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:26 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- silviasilvestet at 7-03-2011 04:27 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on  7-03-2011 08:20 AM
OF A TRUTH U RESERVE EVERY RIGHT TO MARRY A WOMAN OF YOUR HEART. U COULD HAVE FIND OUT WHY YOUR PARENTS WERE AGAINST YOUR WIFE, WERE THEY AGAINST HER B4 U LEFT 4 USA OR AFTER U LEFT 4 USA TO MAKE FORTUNES? U COULD HAVE INFORMED THEM B4 THE COURT MARRIAGE EVEN IF THEY DISAGREE TO ATTEND BUT U KNOW VERY WELL  U HAVE NOTIFY THEM AND GIVE THEM YOUR REASONS AND FACT ABOUT YOUR WIFE. IT IS REALLY GOOD TO HAVE PARENTAL BLESSINGS OF MARRIAGE. AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME TRY TO GET THE ATTENTION OF YOUR CLOSE EDERLY MEMBERS OF THE FAMILY AND GET THEM INVOLVE TO RESOLVE YOUR DIFFERNCES WITH YOUR PARENTS. PLEASE USE THE BEST TONE EVER TO WIN THE HEART OF YOU PARENTS AND THEY WILL BE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE BUT TO REACH A COMPROMISE AND SET THE DATE 4 THE TRANDITIONAL WEDDING. AS 4 YOUR WIFE, TELL HER NO TO HOLD ANY GRIVIANCES AGAINST HER INLAWS BUT TO MATAIN CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. BEST OF LUCK.

d refused me to marry her b4 i left and said her parents are not wealthy and she either be a Dr or ......they are none either and are not reach, the lady in question is respectable, loving , gentle and from a good family. to crown it all she s a graduate. where did i go wrong
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:27 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Diamond4u at 7-03-2011 04:32 PM (11 years ago)
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CLOSE UR Bosom  FIRST
Posted: at 7-03-2011 04:32 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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