wow thats new, if you didn't upload a picture I would have though you made a mistake with your gender. I don't know why SOME men, and women unfortunately, like to act dumb, ignore things or just play with words. You can not be under total submission and have a 50/50 relationship. In the same way you can not argue that you are the same with/have the same statue with/ just as important as your husband but still be in under total submission. One has to be lesser than in some ways, give up power, control... to be under submission. If you submit to you husband you can not be equal to you husband. If he says do something thats exactly what you do because you are in submission, you don't negotiate or give options, thats taking control and if he agrees with your terms, he has submitted to you.
Some women understand what it means to submit and they play that role (live like mindless people), some women disagree(myself) and the others are very confused, like to act 'I'm so holy, I submit to my husband. I am a virtuous woman.' while they are not under submission atleast not total submission but they go around preaching submission.
I have disagreed with Trolling a few times and its not because I disagree with his interpretation of the bible, because he is correct the bible make it clear that men are should rule women and women should submit to men, its because I think the bible is a story book, I don't believe in it. I don't know in how many more ways the bible can say that women are tools. Even when you point it out its ' oh, thats not what the bible means'. The other argument is to bring up the few exceptions where women actually matter in the bible, well thats not new news, its well known that the bible is bi-polar, does that mean we should ignore the other things it says. Anyway moving long from the bible because its a touchy one and I'm not trying to get into that but it had to be said... Theres not really many cases of submission which may be why (i'm not saying it is or that the main reason) christian marriages have problems. Of course the men will get complete different interpretation of the bible, because it favours them, they will fully understand submission eg Trolling, while the woman who stay in a religion that does not favour will get a different meaning of submission, again not in all cases.
Ok so I'm not a christian, what my argument?... If christian women want to submit, submit... if you can not submit completely, because many women can not (its it tough job to be mindless) stop being hypocrites, as many christains or religion generally are by the way, and get out of it and stop judging women that dont submit.
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