The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
Sorry for those ( Ladies) who don't understand what that word means to all Men !! Submissive, Submission, Submit, surrender all you got in the exchange of his Love......... is the first Key element a woman should apply to win the man's harden & strictly heart. If you this, You got him at the danger point. No matter how silly you will think a man is, Ladies take Note !! A man never forget a humble lady, even if the relationship didn't workout to the extent that both will be husband and wife... He will always remember you with that, and can testify to many in your absent !
I think both in courtship not just married people, Submission should be first priority !! The Key element that could drive the man to ask your hand in marriage.
If men would understand why we are Men !! they should Love their half ( wife ) just like they Love themselves..
Personally i think my part as a man on earth is to Obey & Love God, Love My wife and to protect my country ! Other things can join the line from there.
Yes if a girl is not submissive, is like a turn off, No man will ever take her serious, even if the man will pretend to be with her in the name of courtship, is just to sleep with her and let her off later.. definitely the man's eye is still outside searching, even when they're both together in such relationship.
Submit today, you will see Love Blossom like never before, even if your man is a truck pusher, relax, You've given him reason to know that you're there all the time & thats what Men always want to feel.. and this submission plays a big role to trust in any relationship, is like oil to the engine.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero |
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