Big mistake! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 19-03-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "igboo") igboo at 19-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago)  (m) na waoooooooo  | Posted: at 19-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 19-03-2011 12:35 PM (13 years ago) (m) At 22 she was an adult capable of making her own decision and the parents should have respected that. What was the point of her brother physically attacking her? The family made life a living hell 4 her but she took the wrong decision killing herself. RIP
True. She is an adult at 22 and she should have been allowed to decide who to marry.
This story illustrates some of the ways women are treated in our society. Women often
are treated like children and/or property, and sometimes not allowed to make decisions
that affect their lives. In this case this woman is not allowed to decide who to marry.
Single ladies are expected to live at home. Even when they can afford to take care of
themselves financially. In this example, she had to endure the beatings from her brother.
She had no where to go. The decision to marry her ex-lover was an attempt to get away
from home and end her misery. She really did not care that the man was already married.
She needed to get away.
Suicide was the only way left after her attempt to marry her ex-lover failed.
She had to end her sufferings. RIP Olaitan You are free at last.
dan fulaniWHAT KIND OF FREEDOM ARE U TALKING ABOUT? | Posted: at 19-03-2011 12:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 19-03-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) DUMB ASS GIRL. WELL RIP
WRONG brother, I totally disagree with you. Olaitan was not dumb, she was a
very brave soul. Suicide was a way to get out of what seemed to her was an
impossible situation. Home was not a safe place for Olaitan. Not with the constant
beating from her brother. She wanted to leave home and marrying a man he loved
was her way out. When that failed she felt she had no other choice. She had to end
her misery. What a brave soul.
dan fulaniIT'S BETTER 4 U TO STOP YOUR NARROW WAY OF THINKING THOUGH I'M NOT SUPRISE ABOUT YOUR PAROKIA COMMENTS BECAUSE U ARE A FULANI (CATTLE REARERS). | Posted: at 19-03-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 19-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) what a true love.....ladies, can we get such love in dis site?
in your dreams hahahahahahahaahahahaha.......this kind love tie wrapper oooooo the love wear cover shoe and carry handbag sef  | Posted: at 19-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 19-03-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) (f) Olaitan may ur gentle soul find rest where ever u are now i cannot say anything buh God knows the best RIP | Posted: at 19-03-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pavictor") pavictor at 19-03-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago) (m) its all about feelings that only her can understand i pray to God to forgive her sins for she was in love other parents should learn from this>>>>> :'( :'( :'( | Posted: at 19-03-2011 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "harold634") harold634 at 19-03-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) THIS IS A PATHETIC STORY THAT IS HARD TO BELIEVED BUT IT'S TRUE. THE EXTRA LENGHT SHE TOOK TO COMMIT SUICIDE WASN'T BECAUSE OF HER PARENTS CONSITENTLY DENYING HER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BOY FRIEND ALONE. I BELIEVE SHE HAS BEEN CONSTANTLY SUFFERING FROM PHYSICAL PAINS AND ABUSE FROM HER PARENTS AND HER BROTHER WHICH DESTROYS ALL HER EMOTIONS. HER PARENTS CONTRIBUTED TO HER SUICIDE BY NOT SHOWING HER LOVE AT ALL TIME, IT IS STILL NOT ENOUGH FOR 4 HER TO COMMIT SUICIDE. DO I SAY HER SOUL SHOULD REST IN PEACE OR NOT? ONLY GOD HAS THE FINAL SAY ABOUT THE LIVING AND THE DEAD. | Posted: at 19-03-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "2000y247") 2000y247 at 19-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) (m) coz is parent hate is bf she commit sucide waoh she will b welcome 2 hell | Posted: at 19-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-03-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) DUMB ASS GIRL. WELL RIP
WRONG brother, I totally disagree with you. Olaitan was not dumb, she was a
very brave soul. Suicide was a way to get out of what seemed to her was an
impossible situation. Home was not a safe place for Olaitan. Not with the constant
beating from her brother. She wanted to leave home and marrying a man he loved
was her way out. When that failed she felt she had no other choice. She had to end
her misery. What a brave soul.
dan fulaniIT'S BETTER 4 U TO STOP YOUR NARROW WAY OF THINKING THOUGH I'M NOT SUPRISE ABOUT YOUR PAROKIA COMMENTS BECAUSE U ARE A FULANI (CATTLE REARERS).
[/b][/color] uhhh!!! thatz harsh 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-03-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "superdiva") superdiva at 19-03-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) (f) D gul is beyond stupid, she killed herself because of a married man. May she rot in hell, stupid useless goat headed gul. D ashawo no hear say e wife dey pregnant, what kind of rubbish is that. phyuk relationship of seven years. Make i c one bitch wey go come dey throw herself on my husband because them date for years, na me go hang am myself. Look at stupidity of d highest other. Men dis post don vex me, i'm signing out. 22 yrs, heyyyyyyy God. So she think say she no go find better man or what ? | Posted: at 19-03-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "marcmer") marcmer at 19-03-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) too sad,what a pity,RIP dear | Posted: at 19-03-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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passing | Posted: at 19-03-2011 02:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-03-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) reading
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-03-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 19-03-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) This is one of the reasons parents should be friendly and close to their children. RIP sha eventhough she did something horribly annoying.... | Posted: at 19-03-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-03-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) (m) DUMB ASS GIRL. WELL RIP
WRONG brother, I totally disagree with you. Olaitan was not dumb, she was a
very brave soul. Suicide was a way to get out of what seemed to her was an
impossible situation. Home was not a safe place for Olaitan. Not with the constant
beating from her brother. She wanted to leave home and marrying a man he loved
was her way out. When that failed she felt she had no other choice. She had to end
her misery. What a brave soul.
dan fulaniIT'S BETTER 4 U TO STOP YOUR NARROW WAY OF THINKING THOUGH I'M NOT SUPRISE ABOUT YOUR PAROKIA COMMENTS BECAUSE U ARE A FULANI (CATTLE REARERS). but thats not fair -- he talked reasonably and responsibly too | Posted: at 19-03-2011 03:21 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-03-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) (m) Big mistake! yes , but on whose part ? | Posted: at 19-03-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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