pholake...nice morning to u and thanks for letting peace reign truenaija...u are more than this now....to tell u d gospel truth i dont like d way u are dragging this matterthis poster has apologize for watever....i believe u should have a forgiving spirit and let catch d fun we are all here for...IF JESUS CHRIST FORGAVE US ALL OUR SINS..who are we not to forgive...moreso, u are not even seeing d person u are fighting with...its like u are talking to d air.....pls let it be or u just avoid to open dis post inorder not to get upset.....plssssssssssssssss let d morning peace reign..."u dont sleep and wake up wif anger" Thank u for understanding Poster thank u for not responding to any of her post could u just do me a favor and be a man by not replying to any of her post if d wife continue talking...then d husband walks away..maybe to hang out wit frnds or something by d time he gets back...d house is in peace thank u all one love  i agree naughty poster- c wahaa wey yur post don cause for here  thanks love...where ve u been, hope u are great i av been keeping a low profile....ducking left right n centre, this house is hotter than tripoli
Ladylara, you are so funny. You mean its hotter than libya where a US jet fighter crashed? No one has crash landed here hun
lol | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-03-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago)  (m) pholake...nice morning to u and thanks for letting peace reign truenaija...u are more than this now....to tell u d gospel truth i dont like d way u are dragging this matterthis poster has apologize for watever....i believe u should have a forgiving spirit and let catch d fun we are all here for...IF JESUS CHRIST FORGAVE US ALL OUR SINS..who are we not to forgive...moreso, u are not even seeing d person u are fighting with...its like u are talking to d air.....pls let it be or u just avoid to open dis post inorder not to get upset.....plssssssssssssssss let d morning peace reign..."u dont sleep and wake up wif anger" Thank u for understanding Poster thank u for not responding to any of her post could u just do me a favor and be a man by not replying to any of her post if d wife continue talking...then d husband walks away..maybe to hang out wit frnds or something by d time he gets back...d house is in peace thank u all one love i agree naughty poster- c wahaa wey yur post don cause for here thanks love...where ve u been, hope u are great i av been keeping a low profile....ducking left right n centre, this house is hotter than tripoli Who be dat Person wey dey Try yu My Laydee? Don't they know yu're Married 2 me?? 
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Some of us really do deserve what we get. This guy still has negative views about women and continues to support people who post that negative view but he is not the problem, the problem is the people who disagree and are offended by his comments... and who supports him surprisingly the women he degrades. All the nonsense he is talking about he did not generalise, any person that can read and understand know that that is a lie. He clearly put all women in the same category... taking about adam and eve and why did god create women and all that nonsense but he is alright he can say what ever he want because he is entitled to this opinions right, and the people disagreeing, are they not entitled to their opinion. I'm not addressing him any more because as I said before I have learnt it is a waste of time, but baffled by the women that support him. All the degrading things he has posted its all ok because he says love, dear , honey and all of that all the while agreeing with the men who continue to insult women and the men who say the use women and will continue to use women... but its ok, you dont address those men and the comments they make, you dont address the issue but the people who get offended by it... very interesting
@ blessedme thats not an apology... and if we want to pretend that it is the poster did not mean it because many times after that he continues reposting degrading comments and agreeing with people who posted those comments. If you apologise/ sorry about some thing... you move on from that and do not repeat the same thing over and over all the while taking about peace.
the key to success in work, in marriage and well in life generally is knowing when to open yur mouth n wen to shut up. Yes the poster was wrong in his post. But his changing his approach towards the end of this is not becuz of the insult he has received by anyone here but becuz sum ppl expressed their displeasure whilst still maintaining their ladylike standards. In actual fact, anyone that choose to respond in a derogatory manner is just reinforcing the negative sterotypes of women. Having said that, at sum points in our life, either we (or sum1 close to us) have been hurt n thought (sed it out) that "men r b*****d. Yes on reflection, we know we r wrong n not all men r like that but in that heat of the moment we do anyway. Like Pholake sed earlierm, at the end of the day, she is happily married to her hubby who loves n cherish her. As ladies, we shud b ambassadors of peace we shud all learn to facilitate changes subtly in our men n family n trust me the sure way to ruin that is to develop a reputation as a trouble-maker. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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wow! Poster, I wish I can say that I am sorry for your loss but I am not and someday you wont be either. This is all part of yur life journey and it will hopefully prepare you for a better future. The world is full of fakes; either with people or inanimate object. The reason for this is cuz the world is full of dishonest people. If you asked everyone on np (male or female), at least 99% of them have either had a bad experience in relationship at sum point in their life or directly linked to ppl who av. The best thing is to identify a bad relationship as quickly as possible and walk away before it has a chance to cause bigger damage than neccessary.
However, if you do not handle things careful, yu may end up becoming very resentful and bitter- trust me that is not a gud look. In my opinion, a vast majority of those that cause havoc in relationships have been victims in the past n let their bitterness take control n so they hurt other ppl they come across. This create a snowball effect that leads to what we have noe. I wud advise giving every relationship yu go into a very fair chance of success n one day it will pay off. In the meantime, try and stay away from girls who are materialistic in nature. I have never asked a guy to pay my bills, buy me stuff etc and I know a lot of my frns who r like that. My point is that move away from yur current crowd n search for a diff type/ caliber of women.
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pholake...nice morning to u and thanks for letting peace reign truenaija...u are more than this now....to tell u d gospel truth i dont like d way u are dragging this matterthis poster has apologize for watever....i believe u should have a forgiving spirit and let catch d fun we are all here for...IF JESUS CHRIST FORGAVE US ALL OUR SINS..who are we not to forgive...moreso, u are not even seeing d person u are fighting with...its like u are talking to d air.....pls let it be or u just avoid to open dis post inorder not to get upset.....plssssssssssssssss let d morning peace reign..."u dont sleep and wake up wif anger" Thank u for understanding Poster thank u for not responding to any of her post could u just do me a favor and be a man by not replying to any of her post if d wife continue talking...then d husband walks away..maybe to hang out wit frnds or something by d time he gets back...d house is in peace thank u all one love i agree naughty poster- c wahaa wey yur post don cause for here thanks love...where ve u been, hope u are great i av been keeping a low profile....ducking left right n centre, this house is hotter than tripoli
lolyeah well this feels hotter or maybe i had bigger expectations | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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pholake...nice morning to u and thanks for letting peace reign truenaija...u are more than this now....to tell u d gospel truth i dont like d way u are dragging this matterthis poster has apologize for watever....i believe u should have a forgiving spirit and let catch d fun we are all here for...IF JESUS CHRIST FORGAVE US ALL OUR SINS..who are we not to forgive...moreso, u are not even seeing d person u are fighting with...its like u are talking to d air.....pls let it be or u just avoid to open dis post inorder not to get upset.....plssssssssssssssss let d morning peace reign..."u dont sleep and wake up wif anger" Thank u for understanding Poster thank u for not responding to any of her post could u just do me a favor and be a man by not replying to any of her post if d wife continue talking...then d husband walks away..maybe to hang out wit frnds or something by d time he gets back...d house is in peace thank u all one love i agree naughty poster- c wahaa wey yur post don cause for here thanks love...where ve u been, hope u are great i av been keeping a low profile....ducking left right n centre, this house is hotter than tripoli Who be dat Person wey dey Try yu My Laydee? Don't they know yu're Married 2 me?? who is they? we r not married oh. am thinking about it.....so many offers on the table. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-03-2011 05:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) Some of us really do deserve what we get. This guy still has negative views about women and continues to support people who post that negative view but he is not the problem, the problem is the people who disagree and are offended by his comments... and who supports him surprisingly the women he degrades. All the nonsense he is talking about he did not generalise, any person that can read and understand know that that is a lie. He clearly put all women in the same category... taking about adam and eve and why did god create women and all that nonsense but he is alright he can say what ever he want because he is entitled to this opinions right, and the people disagreeing, are they not entitled to their opinion. I'm not addressing him any more because as I said before I have learnt it is a waste of time, but baffled by the women that support him. All the degrading things he has posted its all ok because he says love, dear , honey and all of that all the while agreeing with the men who continue to insult women and the men who say the use women and will continue to use women... but its ok, you dont address those men and the comments they make, you dont address the issue but the people who get offended by it... very interesting
@ blessedme thats not an apology... and if we want to pretend that it is the poster did not mean it because many times after that he continues reposting degrading comments and agreeing with people who posted those comments. If you apologise/ sorry about some thing... you move on from that and do not repeat the same thing over and over all the while taking about peace.
the key to success in work, in marriage and well in life generally is knowing when to open yur mouth n wen to shut up. Yes the poster was wrong in his post. But his changing his approach towards the end of this is not becuz of the insult he has received by anyone here but becuz sum ppl expressed their displeasure whilst still maintaining their ladylike standards. In actual fact, anyone that choose to respond in a derogatory manner is just reinforcing the negative sterotypes of women. Having said that, at sum points in our life, either we (or sum1 close to us) have been hurt n thought (sed it out) that "men r b*****d. Yes on reflection, we know we r wrong n not all men r like that but in that heat of the moment we do anyway. Like Pholake sed earlierm, at the end of the day, she is happily married to her hubby who loves n cherish her. As ladies, we shud b ambassadors of peace we shud all learn to facilitate changes subtly in our men n family n trust me the sure way to ruin that is to develop a reputation as a trouble-maker. i hear you gurl,well said. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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how yu dey sbi- i don miss yu | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-03-2011 05:28 PM (13 years ago) (m) na me miss u pass abi you go libya ? | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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no! but i hear say flight for japan don reduce so yu wan jam me for there this easter? | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 22-03-2011 05:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) My lady (ladeelaracraft), God bless u for ur beautiful; contributions. Anyone who has a wrong notion about me I may either choose to ignore or prove him/her wrong with my attitudes (not try to impress him or prove him wrong by my words or thru negative attitudes). More so, the guy had swallowed his negative words by posting something positive, doesn't this tell us something? by and by.....what effect does his persistent negative notion have on us? Does that change who we are? Can we force him to change his negative notion about us? Of what importance is this to us? Do we change this negative notion of his by hurling more insults and abuses @ him? Do we tell the men we are not what they term us to be by exhibiting negative attitudes? | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 22-03-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) pholake...nice morning to u and thanks for letting peace reign truenaija...u are more than this now....to tell u d gospel truth i dont like d way u are dragging this matterthis poster has apologize for watever....i believe u should have a forgiving spirit and let catch d fun we are all here for...IF JESUS CHRIST FORGAVE US ALL OUR SINS..who are we not to forgive...moreso, u are not even seeing d person u are fighting with...its like u are talking to d air.....pls let it be or u just avoid to open dis post inorder not to get upset.....plssssssssssssssss let d morning peace reign..."u dont sleep and wake up wif anger" Thank u for understanding Poster thank u for not responding to any of her post could u just do me a favor and be a man by not replying to any of her post if d wife continue talking...then d husband walks away..maybe to hang out wit frnds or something by d time he gets back...d house is in peace thank u all one love i agree naughty poster- c wahaa wey yur post don cause for here thanks love...where ve u been, hope u are great i av been keeping a low profile....ducking left right n centre, this house is hotter than tripoli Who be dat Person wey dey Try yu My Laydee? Don't they know yu're Married 2 me?? who is they? we r not married oh. am thinking about it.....so many offers on the table. Chei!! See Competition for me... Na Wahala l dey so ooo 
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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no worries kenne yu can handle it | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 22-03-2011 05:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) Some of us really do deserve what we get. This guy still has negative views about women and continues to support people who post that negative view but he is not the problem, the problem is the people who disagree and are offended by his comments... and who supports him surprisingly the women he degrades. All the nonsense he is talking about he did not generalise, any person that can read and understand know that that is a lie. He clearly put all women in the same category... taking about adam and eve and why did god create women and all that nonsense but he is alright he can say what ever he want because he is entitled to this opinions right, and the people disagreeing, are they not entitled to their opinion. I'm not addressing him any more because as I said before I have learnt it is a waste of time, but baffled by the women that support him. All the degrading things he has posted its all ok because he says love, dear , honey and all of that all the while agreeing with the men who continue to insult women and the men who say the use women and will continue to use women... but its ok, you dont address those men and the comments they make, you dont address the issue but the people who get offended by it... very interesting
@ blessedme thats not an apology... and if we want to pretend that it is the poster did not mean it because many times after that he continues reposting degrading comments and agreeing with people who posted those comments. If you apologise/ sorry about some thing... you move on from that and do not repeat the same thing over and over all the while taking about peace.
Abby, I understand ur point very well...but if u read our comments (mine and blessedme) very well, there was no where we supported the poster......all we were trying to prove is that hurling back insults and abuses would only strengthen his negative notion about women (and do u care about this?). Just like ladeelaracraft said u don't fight fire by fire and not get burnt! How sweet would it have been if we all had just made him feel silly and sorry about his posts instead of throwing abuses and insults @ ourselves....like he explained, he had laid it to rest by posting something different last night but some people kept on with the insults so instead of replying directly, he decided to be reposting the other guys' comments which give credence to his own....do u know what this means? We are their mothers whether they like it or not and we should have just treated the poster like our child! | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 22-03-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago) (f) i dey vex too much now.................my blood don dey pump higher 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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My lady (ladeelaracraft), God bless u for ur beautiful; contributions.
Anyone who has a wrong notion about me I may either choose to ignore or prove him/her wrong with my attitudes (not try to impress him or prove him wrong by my words or thru negative attitudes). More so, the guy had swallowed his negative words by posting something positive, doesn't this tell us something?
by and by.....what effect does his persistent negative notion have on us? Does that change who we are? Can we force him to change his negative notion about us? Of what importance is this to us? Do we change this negative notion of his by hurling more insults and abuses @ him? Do we tell the men we are not what they term us to be by exhibiting negative attitudes?
 this thingz happens outside of np alot. A lot of times, sum women get into trouble with their inlaws cuz they want to prove a point. they mite start off with the right idea but after a certain point they develop a reputation cuz they wudnt let go. I love being rite trust me I do a lot but I have learnt to caution myself proactively cuz I have seen situations where the victim mistaken for the culprit. enuf about this sha...how r yu doing? | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ok na...just b careful sha, it causes hypertension | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Abby") Abby at 22-03-2011 05:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) "the key to success in work, in marriage and well in life generally is knowing when to open yur mouth n wen to shut up" if thats the key in your life, apply it well. is that key for women alone?... tell some of the men here to apply it. If you have a broblem with something shutting up about it wont change anything. If you disagree with something, you speak against it. " As ladies, we shud b ambassadors of peace we shud all learn to facilitate changes subtly in our men n family n trust me the sure way to ruin that is to develop a reputation as a trouble-maker. " ladies humans... everyone should apply common sense not just women. Two people need to agree to make peace, if it coming from one side alone nothing works. I'm giving my opinions, if you agree... good, if you disagree, good. If you think he is entitled to his opinions as everybody is, I am entitled to mine. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 22-03-2011 05:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) My lady (ladeelaracraft), God bless u for ur beautiful; contributions.
Anyone who has a wrong notion about me I may either choose to ignore or prove him/her wrong with my attitudes (not try to impress him or prove him wrong by my words or thru negative attitudes). More so, the guy had swallowed his negative words by posting something positive, doesn't this tell us something?
by and by.....what effect does his persistent negative notion have on us? Does that change who we are? Can we force him to change his negative notion about us? Of what importance is this to us? Do we change this negative notion of his by hurling more insults and abuses @ him? Do we tell the men we are not what they term us to be by exhibiting negative attitudes?
to many question at the same time  ,.don't just mind such set people,they don't worth your attention. the best answer for a fool is always silence..just try and ignore some abusive comments. | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 22-03-2011 05:59 PM (13 years ago) (f) "the key to success in work, in marriage and well in life generally is knowing when to open yur mouth n wen to shut up" if thats the key in your life, apply it well. is that key for women alone?... tell some of the men here to apply it. If you have a broblem with something shutting up about it wont change anything. If you disagree with something, you speak against it.
" As ladies, we shud b ambassadors of peace we shud all learn to facilitate changes subtly in our men n family n trust me the sure way to ruin that is to develop a reputation as a trouble-maker. " ladies humans... everyone should apply common sense not just women. Two people need to agree to make peace, if it coming from one side alone nothing works.
I'm giving my opinions, if you agree... good, if you disagree, good. If you think he is entitled to his opinions as everybody is, I am entitled to mine.
very well said | Posted: at 22-03-2011 05:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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