![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 05:06 PM (13 years ago)  (f) .
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 13-04-2011 05:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Peter_Ade") Peter_Ade at 13-04-2011 05:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) the man na guy man
Is dat ur final ansa? nope!! he can use d life line  Lol! 50 50 l guess? maybe he should fone a frnd or ask d audience he has exhausted all his lifelines, what should he do Ble? come home & pick dicktionary & encyclopedia ni | Posted: at 13-04-2011 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "hosbert") hosbert at 13-04-2011 05:17 PM (13 years ago) (m) Given that the marriage was obtained by fruad,there is no basis for it to stand in the first place.Also,since they were legally married in court,the lady could sue and claim allimony as well as aggravated damages to make up for her depreciated beauty occassioned by incidence of her relationship with the bigamist.Although this may not in real terms restore her to her original state,but would as far as possible reduce the sense of lowered self-esteem that the marriage now constitute to her.Jailing the man may not do her any good in the long run as it is rather vengeful.  | Posted: at 13-04-2011 05:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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she should keep praying, if she decide to take a drastic step by divorcing the dude, she might end up in a worse situation. @least she is legally married and has the upright hand in the marriage. the devil u know in dis man can be better than the angel u assume in another. men can be foolishhhhhhhh | Posted: at 13-04-2011 06:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "philworld") philworld at 13-04-2011 06:47 PM (13 years ago) (f) Why did he not tell the lady about his first wife and kids before the marriage. That means there are more skeleton 2 uncover in his cupboard. | Posted: at 13-04-2011 06:47 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Ajento") Ajento at 13-04-2011 06:52 PM (13 years ago) (m) I would guess that the guy was on his way out of the first marriage before the new one. He goofed big time not to have discussed the issue with the new first. Well, if he is going through the divorce then the new wife should be patient. She must have been in a hurry and madly in love that she did not find it necessary to know the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. Otherwise finding out that somebody is married with 2 kids is not difficult. | Posted: at 13-04-2011 06:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 13-04-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) (m) This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?
She must Stay in the Marriage Afterall dis is one of the Repercussions of Getting Married to Som1 yu don't know much about, all in the haste of Settling down for fear or other careless reasons meaning Dey there dey ask me na Kennee, hp ur nt angry ma 1st time of seein u in dis mood in such a pathetic topic?  No ooo My dear l no dey Vex ooo... I no know the Girl na, but na my Standpoint be dat 
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 13-04-2011 07:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "betty55") betty55 at 13-04-2011 07:35 PM (13 years ago) (f) what the man did is bad.bt the lady also sound desperate even if they courted for few mounths when it comes to marriage women supose turn cid or fbi.b4 u go jam the unwanted.this city marriage sometimes na wahala dey follow.nothing stop her from knowing the family of the guy she is geting married too verry well b4 marriage.bt some women don,t just care as long as the man says l love u and l cannot do without u.make she remain there jare or leave him and be a single mother whatever she decide is her cross. | Posted: at 13-04-2011 07:35 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "choc_boyz") choc_boyz at 13-04-2011 10:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) POSTER ARE U THE VICTIM? | Posted: at 13-04-2011 10:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "choc_boyz") choc_boyz at 13-04-2011 10:50 PM (13 years ago) (m) POSTER..ARE U THE VICTIM | Posted: at 13-04-2011 10:50 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Ajento") Ajento at 13-04-2011 10:57 PM (13 years ago) (m) POSTER ARE U THE VICTIM?
Pepesy, where u dey, make u come answer this question ooh, I like am well well bcos its very direct. | Posted: at 13-04-2011 10:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Hmmm wat a perfect deception...well d deed has been done...so i'll advice she stays till she puts to bed...then she can decide on what 2 do...its up 2 her if she wants 2 be a 2nd wifey. | Posted: at 13-04-2011 11:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?
Where was the first wife when they were doing all three marriages - traditional, white and court? She never had a wiff of them? But I thought polygamy was allowed in Africa! | Posted: at 14-04-2011 01:04 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Annizzle") Annizzle at 14-04-2011 06:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) His a gold-digger | Posted: at 14-04-2011 06:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sekreta") sekreta at 14-04-2011 08:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) hi girls!!! so many women can be in this position! i wth my partner for 3years!we have a 6month babe boy! but his still not marred me! all this yers make me believe his luv me and want marred me but 2month ago want to nigeria and got marred another women! me and him we now liven in uk! then at this time him son in hospital ill his had a wedding! and me at this time had so hard time because us son ill. i txt him but his never txt me back... just last day before leaven nigeria call me and sed oh i.m been very busy! never told me true!! then his come back we make luv and after this i find pics in him camera pics wth him marrezd! i fell died! i feel his kill me!! if i just know from day one i.m be left him and never had a babe!! i just ask him whay!whay u lier to me and from yr selfishness u had a this beautiful babe! if u know u never gonna be for him whay u did this!! i sed to him is not about us now is about yr son!! whay u let me believe u luv me and we gonna get marred!!i beed for u for 3years!!look after u home and kid! i just born and u done this to us!! whay u broken everythink? his just give me only answer i luv u! i send to him if u do u never gonna go and marred outside! and lier to me u want be wth me and ask me for born for u a kid!! whay u did this? his sed this wedding dosn.t mean nothink to him this is just mistake!! i sed to him take somebody to god eyes and marred is mean a lot....his done tradition and withe wedding... and me left wth broken heart.... i sed to him u can kill somebody wth news like dis... i got verry ill after this news... i.m not strong anymore... his broke me and my life.... to much liers.... i feel like i died.... so for this women life history still not to bad like another women... but can get more bad... so if she just can better she run from him.... because man like him never gonna | Posted: at 14-04-2011 08:24 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sekreta") sekreta at 14-04-2011 08:35 AM (13 years ago) (f) changes! and man like dis never luv! man who want have more not one wife is just selfish idiots!! nan like dis wth out heart just luv himselfs.... so u don.t have to think a lot better leave! i luv my man so much! and his know from day one i cand die for him!! but still make fun.... i luv him from all my heart! and i never gonna lie abou dis!! i luv him!! his only what i had!! but better to leave and luv alone 4rever not stay and get every day pains...... this is can kill.... sometimes better for a kid just wth mom but not wth idiot dad who don.t respect him blod.... think r she want her kid grow up in family where is no normal family... dis man just gonna give bad exsamle for this kid... than we have a babe we can be selfish anymore!because we not alone anymore we have a kid!! so think who is better for yr babe not fro u!!.... | Posted: at 14-04-2011 08:35 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 14-04-2011 08:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) the man na guy man
Is dat ur final ansa? nope!! he can use d life line Lol! 50 50 l guess? maybe he should fone a frnd or ask d audience he has exhausted all his lifelines, what should he do Ble? He should walk away then | Posted: at 14-04-2011 08:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "eashimana") eashimana at 14-04-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago) (m) This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man http://[img]http://who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together[/img]. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?
THIS ONE NA BUSINESS MARRIAGE? EACH PARTY IS ENTITLED TO TERMINATE THE CONTRACT AS FAR AS BOTH BENEFITED FROM THE PROCEEDS. WETIN COME BE BIGAMY? ABI SHE NO DEY GET HER RETURNS?
I AM NOT BELIEVING ALL I SEE... eash! | Posted: at 14-04-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?
It's so pathetic that this has happened and to be very candid, both should be blame, no matter the love she might have had for the man before they marry, she ought to have done her home work properly before going ahead with the wedding, and for the man, he had just displayed his immaturity in the handling of things and thereby causing pain and confusion not only to the lady but to his entire family. The lady should ponder very well before taking any action, why? because there is a new life waiting to be brought into existence which should not be tempered with. | Posted: at 14-04-2011 09:16 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 14-04-2011 09:23 AM (13 years ago) (f) POSTER..ARE U THE VICTIM
Why do u ask? | Posted: at 14-04-2011 09:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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