blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:15 PM (14 years ago) (f) Thought on my mind right now -This man could be funny and i strongly believe he is upto something -It could be a planned marriage whom his 1st wife is aware of -Maybe to get d lady's money and channel all her wealth to his control room -Later divorce d newly wedded and go back to d first one
I just pity d lady....still thinking on wat to advice her cos i strongly believe that her so called hubby is a snake Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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dirtykid at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) (m) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  Honestly, dat would serves him right But that will be one of the last thing she could come up with or thought of at the moment, when she's preggy and they got joint business together, probably she's in deep love with this man, the situation is very confusing and devastating with the man's behavior,,, but still putting him to jail will jeopardize everything, What the lady should concentrate on now is the attention she's getting from him, if is positive and so on, if she's not satisfied, then she can go on and quit the marriage, to start on time to learn to be alone on her own. chaii this is not good, alot will be destroyed if anything went wrong along the line
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) (f) This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her. Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant. If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?
Unfair attitude from the man, why he couldn't tell the lady at first that he got family somewhere, whether wedded with the first woman or not, He should be open and fair to the newly wedded wife  . I think the lady shouldn't do anything nasty, as long as the man didn't deny the lady and the kids somewhere, She should stick to the man, is already too late, the man is simply polygamist type with style. DK, tnx 4 ur contributn buh its nt gonna be easy 4 her at all Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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truenaija2 at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) (f) nawa very difficult situation hmmmmm she has only one choice to get a seperate appartment for her and her baby , i no even fit call am marriage Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) (f) make en keep the two of them naaa.. the only thing be say.. the wife wey make am get the job go be en first lady
Buh Sophie, e no easy 4 d babe right o NA FOR BETTER FOR WORSE
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago) (f) Thought on my mind right now -This man could be funny and i strongly believe he is upto something -It could be a planned marriage whom his 1st wife is aware of -Maybe to get d lady's money and channel all her wealth to his control room -Later divorce d newly wedded and go back to d first one
I just pity d lady....still thinking on wat to advice her cos i strongly believe that her so called hubby is a snake
My dear u maybe right coz men of dese dys we dnt trust them... d babe is really in a hot soup Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:20 PM (14 years ago) (f) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  i trust u cos u dont take shit Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago) (f) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  i trust u cos u dont take shit NA MESS SHE DEY TAKE?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  i trust u cos u dont take shit Ppl who hurt other ppl deliberately, must pay for their actions! And to pay heavily!
Live and let live! Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) (f) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  Honestly, dat would serves him right But that will be one of the last thing she could come up with or thought of at the moment, when she's preggy and they got joint business together, probably she's in deep love with this man, the situation is very confusing and devastating with the man's behavior,,, but still putting him to jail will jeopardize everything, What the lady should concentrate on now is the attention she's getting from him, if is positive and so on, if she's not satisfied, then she can go on and quit the marriage, to start on time to learn to be alone on her own. chaii this is not good, alot will be destroyed if anything went wrong along the line  Ur right l really feel 4 her. Is only God will guide her in dis diff... situatn Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:24 PM (14 years ago) (f) nawa very difficult situation hmmmmm she has only one choice to get a seperate appartment for her and her baby , i no even fit call am marriage
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:26 PM (14 years ago) (f) make en keep the two of them naaa.. the only thing be say.. the wife wey make am get the job go be en first lady
Buh Sophie, e no easy 4 d babe right o NA FOR BETTER FOR WORSE My dear, dis kind better for worse hmn! she never bargain for dis o Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Thought on my mind right now -This man could be funny and i strongly believe he is upto something -It could be a planned marriage whom his 1st wife is aware of -Maybe to get d lady's money and channel all her wealth to his control room -Later divorce d newly wedded and go back to d first one
I just pity d lady....still thinking on wat to advice her cos i strongly believe that her so called hubby is a snake
green snake Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) (f) THEM DON MARRY ,DO WHITE WEDDING, TRAD MARRIAGE, EVEN COURT MARRIAGE KWA.. WETIN U WAN CALL AM AGAIN.. SHE IS MARRIED NAAA.. NA FOR BETA FOR WORSE.. E DON HAPPEN BE SAY E DON HAPPEN.. MAKE SHE MANAGE..WITH GOD ALL TINS DEY POSIBLE.. OR SO BECAUSE SHE LATER FIND OUT SAY THE MAN GET CHILDREN AND WIFE FOR VILLAGE OR ANADA CITY... MAKE I TELL U TO TELL HER TO DIVORCE??? NO NAAAAAAAAA MAKE SHE DEY D MARRIAGE, BUH MAKE SHE SHINE HER EYS, USE HER HEAD WELLA.. SHE DON MARRY BE SAY SHE DON MARRY..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago) (f) exactly Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:36 PM (14 years ago) (f) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  i trust u cos u dont take shit NA MESS SHE DEY TAKE? na u sabi dat one Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Pepesy at 13-04-2011 12:37 PM (14 years ago) (f) THEM DON MARRY ,DO WHITE WEDDING, TRAD MARRIAGE, EVEN COURT MARRIAGE KWA.. WETIN U WAN CALL AM AGAIN.. SHE IS MARRIED NAAA.. NA FOR BETA FOR WORSE.. E DON HAPPEN BE SAY E DON HAPPEN.. MAKE SHE MANAGE..WITH GOD ALL TINS DEY POSIBLE..
OR SO BECAUSE SHE LATER FIND OUT SAY THE MAN GET CHILDREN AND WIFE FOR VILLAGE OR ANADA CITY... MAKE I TELL U TO TELL HER TO DIVORCE??? NO NAAAAAAAAA MAKE SHE DEY D MARRIAGE, BUH MAKE SHE SHINE HER EYS, USE HER HEAD WELLA..
SHE DON MARRY BE SAY SHE DON MARRY..
Ok Sophie tnx 4 ur advice. buh 2 be sincere, no woman would pray 4 dis kind mess Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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THEM DON MARRY ,DO WHITE WEDDING, TRAD MARRIAGE, EVEN COURT MARRIAGE KWA.. WETIN U WAN CALL AM AGAIN.. SHE IS MARRIED NAAA.. NA FOR BETA FOR WORSE.. E DON HAPPEN BE SAY E DON HAPPEN.. MAKE SHE MANAGE..WITH GOD ALL TINS DEY POSIBLE..
OR SO BECAUSE SHE LATER FIND OUT SAY THE MAN GET CHILDREN AND WIFE FOR VILLAGE OR ANADA CITY... MAKE I TELL U TO TELL HER TO DIVORCE??? NO NAAAAAAAAA MAKE SHE DEY D MARRIAGE, BUH MAKE SHE SHINE HER EYS, USE HER HEAD WELLA..
SHE DON MARRY BE SAY SHE DON MARRY..
so ur sense still dey Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 13-04-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) (f) I would have put him in jail for bigamy, for sure!  that says it all
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) make en keep the two of them naaa.. the only thing be say.. the wife wey make am get the job go be en first lady
Buh Sophie, e no easy 4 d babe right o NA FOR BETTER FOR WORSE My dear, dis kind better for worse hmn! she never bargain for dis o MAKE SHE MANAGE NAAAA.. the truth is .. maybe she was too desperate to marry that she hadn't chance to see tru this guy, no him well, or ask peeps around to tell abt him
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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