If You Were In This Shoe, How Will u Handle d Situation?? (Page 4)

Date: 17-05-2011 2:29 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- MissyBarbie at 17-05-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago)
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- dirtykid at 17-05-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 17-05-2011 03:27 PM
odi kwa derugbe

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Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-05-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Pure love doesn’t cause pain.

Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-05-2011 03:17 PM
Dk she's eyeing u again

Maybe you're rite  Cheesy Cheesy but is not a crime to eye someone with one painted eye, if na two, I will know is intentional  Cheesy Cheesy
God bless u ooo, dont mind sophiakhanda naughty girl
Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 17-05-2011 03:19 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:29 PM
I am in a relationship of 7years old. While still in d r/s, my BF got another girl pregnant and sent her to UK to deliver d child without ma knowledge. I just got to know after d child mark his 4yrs old birthday.

My coleaque is in this mess and need ur advice

My wonderful pals lets hear ur opinion
Its a serious pity that your friend is in such a situation.For 7years no marriage commitment?I wonder the way the mind of your friend works.
If she wants to get out of this mess,she has to quit the relationship.Any other option means she is very comfortable in that messy situation.
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Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:29 PM
I am in a relationship of 7years old. While still in d r/s, my BF got another girl pregnant and sent her to UK to deliver d child without ma knowledge. I just got to know after d child mark his 4yrs old birthday.

My coleaque is in this mess and need ur advice

My wonderful pals lets hear ur opinion

The girl already know the answer and what to do.. the guy is never honest and will never be honest with her, the earlier she walk off the relationship the better for her than having a broken marriage.. been in relationship for 7yrs is not a guarantee that the guy must marry her. Imagine such a mess, 4yrs and she still didn't know anything about the baby born in UK.  Na waoo for some guys  Undecided Undecided
my brother u said it all...but why is it that some peeps cannot be honest in what ever they are dealing with...nawaoooo Undecided


Because most people live their life in lies and dishonest, Most people in our society dislike truth and find it difficult to admit to their mistakes, thats why things fall apart everywhere. People wants to eat there cake and have it back again. Sorry for those who fall victims and also sorry for those who dislike hearing the truth been said to them.
hmmmmm!! WAT A WORLD

Meanwhile who be this for ya profile pix..it doesnt look Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Doesn't look wat ?  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Forgot that u are not always stable with ur profile pix..so i comment ma reserve

Ok tell me which one is yr favo.. i will leave it permanent for you  Wink
the one with hair do without cloth on
Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- olumbareal at 17-05-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 17-05-2011 03:19 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:29 PM
I am in a relationship of 7years old. While still in d r/s, my BF got another girl pregnant and sent her to UK to deliver d child without ma knowledge. I just got to know after d child mark his 4yrs old birthday.

My coleaque is in this mess and need ur advice

My wonderful pals lets hear ur opinion
Its a serious pity that your friend is in such a situation.For 7years no marriage commitment?I wonder the way the mind of your friend works.
If she wants to get out of this mess,she has to quit the relationship.Any other option means she is very comfortable in that messy situation.
Bros its not easy ooo,
Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-05-2011 03:25 PM
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na wa oooo
dis pprofile pic sontin don serious o
na u sabi
Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 17-05-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 17-05-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Dk if na ur pic dey course dis thin just jejely remove am
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:41 PM (13 years ago)
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- MissyBarbie at 17-05-2011 03:47 PM (13 years ago)
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- kebella at 17-05-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Make I talk true, na now I eye just clear ooo

Np babes fine ooo......chiglamourous, u fine die. E be like make I dey em........

I C...Chi come see ya secret admirer
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I like u too..but d paint wey dey ur mouth go paint my whole apartment

lmao Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 17-05-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 17-05-2011 03:48 PM
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 17-05-2011 02:49 PM
Quote from: xter on 17-05-2011 02:39 PM
Make I talk true, na now I eye just clear ooo

Np babes fine ooo......chiglamourous, u fine die. E be like make I dey em........

I C...Chi come see ya secret admirer
 Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
I like u too..but d paint wey dey ur mouth go paint my whole apartment

lmao Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

What! amebo
Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 17-05-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh?
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- oohio2007 at 17-05-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: olumbareal on 17-05-2011 03:34 PM
Quote from: oohio2007 on 17-05-2011 03:19 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:29 PM
I am in a relationship of 7years old. While still in d r/s, my BF got another girl pregnant and sent her to UK to deliver d child without ma knowledge. I just got to know after d child mark his 4yrs old birthday.

My coleaque is in this mess and need ur advice

My wonderful pals lets hear ur opinion
Its a serious pity that your friend is in such a situation.For 7years no marriage commitment?I wonder the way the mind of your friend works.
If she wants to get out of this mess,she has to quit the relationship.Any other option means she is very comfortable in that messy situation.
Bros its not easy ooo,
No be lie you talk.But there is a chines proverb that says no matter how far you have gone on the wrong direction.As soon as you realise the fact,stop and turn towards the right direction immidiately.She has to quit no matter how difficult except she needs more heart problems.

Posted: at 17-05-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chatt2die at 17-05-2011 03:58 PM (13 years ago)
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u re in a r/ship for 7 yrs doing wat. pls respect urself and leave. 7 whole yrs doing wat
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- harold634 at 17-05-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 03:09 PM
Quote from: harold634 on 17-05-2011 02:57 PM
What kind of advice does she need when the whole scenario has been unveil to her. she should quit and keep herself busy with better things.
she is as confused as anything my bros

Seven years of realationship is not a joke.
At the basis of all relationship is the Grace and Friendship of God. relationship requires the Divine Manner: beneficence, bringing happiness and pleasure to one another; the disinterested attitude of gaining through another's relationship, overlooking the faults of another.
 
Initially, she is in shock. One avoids anything that might cause pain, putting off accepting the end of the relationship. Repressing grief - keeping face- results in physical ills: headaches, heart trauma, colitis, etc. etc. She should give herrself permission to grieve. Pain makes room to move on. she should said to herslf, "Why is it so scary? I've weathered other storms in life.

In this stage she is burying the dead love, acknowledging the pain and hurt inside. she never knew the heart could really pain before this happened. She shouldn't feel abandoned, rejected, worthless, alone, without a comforter, above all she should pray to God to grant her the serenity to accept the things she cannot change, The courage to change the things she can, And the wisdom to tell the difference. She should have this thought that even if she is deserted by everybody, God cares 4 her.
Posted: at 17-05-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 17-05-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chatt2die on 17-05-2011 03:58 PM
u re in a r/ship for 7 yrs doing wat. pls respect urself and leave. 7 whole yrs doing wat

mk she give u d victim address mk u go ask her  Grin Grin
Posted: at 17-05-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 17-05-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 03:33 PM
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Quote from: dirtykid on 17-05-2011 03:15 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 03:08 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 17-05-2011 02:59 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:50 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 17-05-2011 02:45 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 17-05-2011 02:29 PM
I am in a relationship of 7years old. While still in d r/s, my BF got another girl pregnant and sent her to UK to deliver d child without ma knowledge. I just got to know after d child mark his 4yrs old birthday.

My coleaque is in this mess and need ur advice

My wonderful pals lets hear ur opinion

The girl already know the answer and what to do.. the guy is never honest and will never be honest with her, the earlier she walk off the relationship the better for her than having a broken marriage.. been in relationship for 7yrs is not a guarantee that the guy must marry her. Imagine such a mess, 4yrs and she still didn't know anything about the baby born in UK.  Na waoo for some guys  Undecided Undecided
my brother u said it all...but why is it that some peeps cannot be honest in what ever they are dealing with...nawaoooo Undecided


Because most people live their life in lies and dishonest, Most people in our society dislike truth and find it difficult to admit to their mistakes, thats why things fall apart everywhere. People wants to eat there cake and have it back again. Sorry for those who fall victims and also sorry for those who dislike hearing the truth been said to them.
hmmmmm!! WAT A WORLD

Meanwhile who be this for ya profile pix..it doesnt look Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Doesn't look wat ?  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Forgot that u are not always stable with ur profile pix..so i comment ma reserve

Ok tell me which one is yr favo.. i will leave it permanent for you  Wink
the one with hair do without cloth on

Just go and point it, I will remember that always  Wink Wink

Posted: at 17-05-2011 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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