If You Were In This Shoe, How Will u Handle d Situation?? (Page 6)

m crious........

she is as confused as anything my bros
Seven years of realationship is not a joke.
At the basis of all relationship is the Grace and Friendship of God. relationship requires the Divine Manner: beneficence, bringing happiness and pleasure to one another; the disinterested attitude of gaining through another's relationship, overlooking the faults of another.
 
Initially, she is in shock. One avoids anything that might cause pain, putting off accepting the end of the relationship. Repressing grief - keeping face- results in physical ills: headaches, heart trauma, colitis, etc. etc. She should give herrself permission to grieve. Pain makes room to move on. she should said to herslf, "Why is it so scary? I've weathered other storms in life.

In this stage she is burying the dead love, acknowledging the pain and hurt inside. she never knew the heart could really pain before this happened. She shouldn't feel abandoned, rejected, worthless, alone, without a comforter, above all she should pray to God to grant her the serenity to accept the things she cannot change, The courage to change the things she can, And the wisdom to tell the difference. She should have this thought that even if she is deserted by everybody, God cares 4 her.