![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 4-06-2011 12:52 AM (12 years ago)  (f) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all.  now u see the reasons behind why all the ladies are upset. Yeah i see, But still, it doesn't call for that, if you show such in your relationship, it might lead to another thing, be grateful to God for blessing you, given you enough to take care of all that... I believe someday, that man will ask himself question, unless if he doesn't have conscience. yeah..but don't try such thing in your marriage ohhh///it will break your marriage ohh... Well, i can't be silly,,, I'm tilling the ground harder to make my inhabitants dwell in ease and on happy ground, not necessarily for them to till hard.. Money is meant to be spend and you'll be more happy spending it on the right people at the right time, thats why we all working hard for.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 12:52 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 4-06-2011 12:55 AM (12 years ago) (m) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all. now u see the reasons behind why all the ladies are upset. Yeah i see, But still, it doesn't call for that, if you show such in your relationship, it might lead to another thing, be grateful to God for blessing you, given you enough to take care of all that... I believe someday, that man will ask himself question, unless if he doesn't have conscience. yeah..but don't try such thing in your marriage ohhh///it will break your marriage ohh... Well, i can't be silly,,, I'm tilling the ground harder to make my inhabitants dwell in ease and on happy ground, not necessarily for them to till hard.. Money is meant to be spend and you'll be more happy spending it on the right people at the right time, thats why we all working hard for. yep..sum pple are so greedy to spend money on demselves...meanwhile Dk i'm here for you to spend the money on. Thats cool, as long as you will not tag me Mugu 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 4-06-2011 12:55 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 4-06-2011 12:58 AM (12 years ago) (f) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't phyuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't phyuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the phyuk out.....pretty easy! | Posted: at 4-06-2011 12:58 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 4-06-2011 01:01 AM (12 years ago) (m) reading...hmmm thowbee u make sense
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:01 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 4-06-2011 01:02 AM (12 years ago) (f) reading...hmmm thowbee u make sense
thanks baby....it sucks when women r being side-minded in a marriage...a healthy marriage doesn't look at such crap......... | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:02 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 4-06-2011 01:04 AM (12 years ago) (m) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year.. she will make sure CNN, BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:04 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 4-06-2011 01:05 AM (12 years ago) (f) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all. now u see the reasons behind why all the ladies are upset. Yeah i see, But still, it doesn't call for that, if you show such in your relationship, it might lead to another thing, be grateful to God for blessing you, given you enough to take care of all that... I believe someday, that man will ask himself question, unless if he doesn't have conscience. yeah..but don't try such thing in your marriage ohhh///it will break your marriage ohh... Well, i can't be silly,,, I'm tilling the ground harder to make my inhabitants dwell in ease and on happy ground, not necessarily for them to till hard.. Money is meant to be spend and you'll be more happy spending it on the right people at the right time, thats why we all working hard for. yep..sum pple are so greedy to spend money on demselves...meanwhile Dk i'm here for you to spend the money on. Thats cool, as long as you will not tag me Mugu lol....nah u too sweet for that and i got good eyes to know to see a berra man..u one of the gud men out there..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:05 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 4-06-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) (f) HUh?difference humans with difference thinking ...so what is the man working for?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 4-06-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) (m) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all. now u see the reasons behind why all the ladies are upset. Yeah i see, But still, it doesn't call for that, if you show such in your relationship, it might lead to another thing, be grateful to God for blessing you, given you enough to take care of all that... I believe someday, that man will ask himself question, unless if he doesn't have conscience. yeah..but don't try such thing in your marriage ohhh///it will break your marriage ohh... Well, i can't be silly,,, I'm tilling the ground harder to make my inhabitants dwell in ease and on happy ground, not necessarily for them to till hard.. Money is meant to be spend and you'll be more happy spending it on the right people at the right time, thats why we all working hard for. yep..sum pple are so greedy to spend money on demselves...meanwhile Dk i'm here for you to spend the money on. Thats cool, as long as you will not tag me Mugu lol....nah u too sweet for that and i got good eyes to know to see a berra man..u one of the gud men out there.. I know you got amazing eyes to see things. Thanks for considering my dirtyness as one good dirty thing out there. I appreciate that allot. For the spending is not a problem, the issue is where, how and what do you want, how to do it/spend it. 
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:08 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 4-06-2011 01:11 AM (12 years ago) (f) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all. now u see the reasons behind why all the ladies are upset. Yeah i see, But still, it doesn't call for that, if you show such in your relationship, it might lead to another thing, be grateful to God for blessing you, given you enough to take care of all that... I believe someday, that man will ask himself question, unless if he doesn't have conscience. yeah..but don't try such thing in your marriage ohhh///it will break your marriage ohh... Well, i can't be silly,,, I'm tilling the ground harder to make my inhabitants dwell in ease and on happy ground, not necessarily for them to till hard.. Money is meant to be spend and you'll be more happy spending it on the right people at the right time, thats why we all working hard for. yep..sum pple are so greedy to spend money on demselves...meanwhile Dk i'm here for you to spend the money on. Thats cool, as long as you will not tag me Mugu lol....nah u too sweet for that and i got good eyes to know to see a berra man..u one of the gud men out there.. I know you got amazing eyes to see things. Thanks for considering my dirtyness as one good dirty thing out there. I appreciate that allot. For the spending is not a problem, the issue is where, how and what do you want, how to do it/spend it. don't bother about that..when the time comes..you will know how,what and how to spend..but i hope u will not come here to post a post about me being to demanding of money?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:11 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 4-06-2011 01:19 AM (12 years ago) (m) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year..she will make sure CNN,BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !! u r absolutely right..any married woman that think her own earning belongs to her alone always open room for i countless problem in her marriage life..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:19 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 4-06-2011 01:22 AM (12 years ago) (f) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year..she will make sure CNN,BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !! u r absolutely right..any married woman that think her own earning belongs to her alone always open room for i countless problem in her marriage life.. ur wrong......she shld not even be married if she has got such a mentality up her head.............. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:22 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 4-06-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago) (m) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year..she will make sure CNN,BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !! u r absolutely right..any married woman that think her own earning belongs to her alone always open room for i countless problem in her marriage life.. ur wrong......she shld not even be married if she has got such a mentality up her head.............. good point !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 4-06-2011 01:30 AM (12 years ago) (f) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year..she will make sure CNN,BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !! u r absolutely right..any married woman that think her own earning belongs to her alone always open room for i countless problem in her marriage life.. ur wrong......she shld not even be married if she has got such a mentality up her head..............  | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:30 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 4-06-2011 01:56 AM (12 years ago) (m) @dirty......hws it goin??..........................whether a man saves money and allows his woman take care of bills don't fcuking mean jack...........aint they married??......it don't matter who earns more.....since its a case of she earning more...she shld handle things and make sure he is saving for the rainy day........thats jus it...............mehn.....the way ladies r being sensitive with the term 'my money', it sucks big time......wen ur married its for better for worse....if u aint sure u can't handle the worse part of the pledge, then don't fcuking get married....simple........................its called wats 'mine' is 'yours' and wats 'yours' is 'ours'....there is nothing like 'My own' in marriage whether or not it aint going well.......u guys always have to be in 'sync'...................take his shit or walk the fcuk out.....pretty easy!
I'm all cool babegurl.. How re u doing as of today ? hopefully great. Don't mind some ladies, the bottom line is, they just drag it with Men all the time about what i don't know. who is head or not, what doesn't necessary mean something, means alot to so many of them, If a woman pay a bill for one year..she will make sure CNN,BBC and the top news of the world hear about it... but she forgot so quick that the man has been doing this all the while she's there. I don't even see any big deal about the bills and so on... But everyone got their different views about things. Freedom of speech and view is allowed !! u r absolutely right..any married woman that think her own earning belongs to her alone always open room for i countless problem in her marriage life.. ur wrong......she shld not even be married if she has got such a mentality up her head.............. hmm u right though!!
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 01:56 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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[i'm not married yet sha just asking]Ladies let say for example you make more money than your husband so he says you have to pay all the bills, including his car insurence, he just keeps all of his in the bank. another example he doesn't have his own phone he uses your's (he didn't pay his cell phone bill so it got disconnected), you complain about borrowing your stuffs he says you're acting like y'all are not married. Any guidelines married people should follow?
Same question goes to the men...contributions...
This is too dried and hypothetical 2 represent any real life situation. When you get married u will know the real 'marriage life' otherwise everything is pure 'if'. | Posted: at 4-06-2011 02:17 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "hotchase") hotchase at 4-06-2011 07:33 AM (12 years ago) (m) let me ask my parents | Posted: at 4-06-2011 07:33 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sexweezy") sexweezy at 4-06-2011 08:02 AM (12 years ago) (m) too far she suppose to support her husband | Posted: at 4-06-2011 08:02 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 6-06-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago) (f) wats the biggie bout doin all the above thins u mentioned?? its normal in a healthy marriage... Biggie no dey inside....let ya own marrige be healthy wwhen ur hubby dey do savings unto say na u earn pass u hearrrr?  ?? Na person like dis thowbee sef do talk but no do.. dey dia dey do good wifey naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa one day ya eye go clear wen en go usee en savings go somewhere like UK go live dia with one babe wey en don marry outside.. i no talk say make u no use ya money do these tins.. use am ..use am well.. but do not be fooled.. No use ya head e yaaaaaaaaa............. Hissssssssssssssssssssssssss y r u being all defensive....................u don't have to be rude..............its only women who don't see their husbands as their other part2 that will take note of all the things that u have said................there is absolute no need to drop harsh words..........okay?! I see very good and quality head on your shoulder @ Thowbee . Keep it up ! I'm really disappointed from many people's comments about this issue of spending for the man and the family, your own kids, the man you call your husband, your better half that makes both of you same !! No one is going anywhere out of this planet with all the currency he/she made, is meant to be spend here.. right here on earth, and why do we all chase money?? is to take care of this needs when they arise !! I don't see why people complain when you're even making proper use of it at the right place. I pity any man, a woman is feeding out there !! No matter what that man do, you're worthless to the woman, she will never regard you as anything, not to talk of respect.. One of the vital element that makes woman to cheat on their Man. in the name he can't provide for her, even if she's working and earning much, most them think backward. Now i know that u too do not understand the post very well..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 6-06-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 6-06-2011 09:31 AM (12 years ago) (f) @DK..about your second to the last of your comments...in this case not that the man cannot provide for the family or himself he can but he is saving his money while he sxpects his woman to be spending her's for him...is not so..in marriage and relationship is about give and take...yeah a man who cannot support his family is not worth to be call a man/hubby or father.....why is he making the money he is saving in the first place?
Well in that case, it sounds stupid, Such Man is nothing but greedy and self centered !! Such thing is not suppose to be done, Why Banking the money and given the woman instruction to be spending hers ?? It doesn't make sense at all. Case closed..........
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 6-06-2011 09:31 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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