Things To Talk About B4 Getting Married (Page 2)

Date: 06-06-2011 10:41 am (12 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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- Innoscent at 6-06-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago)
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al d points are important n necesary. (bt 4 me) xsept 1, wich is Huh?

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- preciouslyme at 6-06-2011 10:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Good write up we have discussed all of these
Posted: at 6-06-2011 10:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 6-06-2011 10:18 PM (12 years ago)
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k

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- toibeli at 6-06-2011 10:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Sophie, Are you by any chance a marriage counselor?
Posted: at 6-06-2011 10:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 6-06-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Nice one,...
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- HOPEA23 at 6-06-2011 10:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chisparlis on  6-06-2011 10:49 PM
For example if i marry my eyes come dey eye HOPEA23 ikebe watin dem go call that one............. Grin Grin Grin Grin
cheating lol

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- feyee at 6-06-2011 11:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2011 11:53 AM
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Sex shouldn't be a topic that you can't discuss freely and frankly with your spouse. Be open, honest and always ready to communicate on this subject. "Watch for a respectful, sharing and flexible attitude about sex,"Make sure the two of you can talk about sex comfortably, because sex that's never talked about can easily become unsatisfying and unsuited to one or both of you."
well said
Posted: at 6-06-2011 11:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- okeylinko at 6-06-2011 11:38 PM (12 years ago)
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your yarns are good, but what about sex, many marriages i know are torn apart because of it. when there is a disparity in segxwal longing and strength, there is bound to be troubles.
Posted: at 6-06-2011 11:38 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Abolore05 at 7-06-2011 01:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Understanding your spouse also plays an important role in r/ship
marriage is not just something u do and say "i no
dey do again" its a life time commitment
if u look before u leap, u will never have a reason
to say 'Had i Known!'
kudos poster! thumbs up!!!
Posted: at 7-06-2011 01:07 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ibrutex at 7-06-2011 02:58 AM (12 years ago)
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Maybe or maybe not 

Sex. Vewy impor  t e n t   Grin

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- Larrykingomoj at 7-06-2011 03:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Women are always ready to jump into marriage once there is proposal without asking any question, girls are desperate for marriage and it ruins everything for them.
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- 2slimshady at 7-06-2011 04:34 AM (12 years ago)
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its really nice of u sharing this on np. Thanks
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- diplomatik at 7-06-2011 04:39 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-06-2011 11:16 AM
All of the above is very important to discuss before getting married, get to know who you want to settle down with, what and what the person want for his/her life. Some people doesn't want to have kids but they want to get married just to have symbol that they're married etc. So is very important to know all this before making a bold step towards the alter.

yes baby very important  Cool

Posted: at 7-06-2011 04:39 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Swtezvikky at 7-06-2011 07:25 AM (12 years ago)
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make sure he/she can satisfy u on bed to aviod infidelity in d future. 
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- skyleo at 7-06-2011 08:20 AM (12 years ago)
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It depends on individual.
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- ezecyyyy at 7-06-2011 08:44 AM (12 years ago)
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I don't really think that this topics are much important as u states them to be the most important things to discuss.......
Posted: at 7-06-2011 08:44 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- naturalqueen at 7-06-2011 08:51 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2011 11:53 AM
Sex
Sex shouldn't be a topic that you can't discuss freely and frankly with your spouse. Be open, honest and always ready to communicate on this subject. "Watch for a respectful, sharing and flexible attitude about sex,"Make sure the two of you can talk about sex comfortably, because sex that's never talked about can easily become unsatisfying and unsuited to one or both of you."
[This is a very sensitive one, but most people ignore it]
Posted: at 7-06-2011 08:51 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 7-06-2011 09:06 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Chikemags2 on  6-06-2011 09:41 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2011 11:53 AM
Sex
Sex shouldn't be a topic that you can't discuss freely and frankly with your spouse. Be open, honest and always ready to communicate on this subject. "Watch for a respectful, sharing and flexible attitude about sex,"Make sure the two of you can talk about sex comfortably, because sex that's never talked about can easily become unsatisfying and unsuited to one or both of you."
Yes!! this one is exactly the first cos its part of our everyday life and every other one can come later when this is done. Let me quickly finish my pizza and come back for more comments.

thanks..lol

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- sophiebaby at 7-06-2011 09:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ezecyyyy on  7-06-2011 08:44 AM
I don't really think that this topics are much important as u states them to be the most important things to discuss.......

maybe u can state the one u feel is important.. No one is perfect

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- sophiebaby at 7-06-2011 09:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on  7-06-2011 07:25 AM
make sure he/she can satisfy u on bed to aviod infidelity in d future. 

yeah

Posted: at 7-06-2011 09:07 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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