I fell in love with an igbo man here in London and was seeing this man for almost 5 years to find out he was only interested in me if I got pregnant for him or marry him so he can get his stay here. I so much trusted and believed in him and cannot seem to get over him. Many of days I am at work with tears in my eyes, in the streets, unable to sleep!
When others were warning me about his motives I kept saying everyone is not the same...now I felt it ok. I wasted all my love and attention and now I feel like am going insane!!!!
Why do people do this to others just for the sake of a piece of paper???
All I can think now are evil thoughts and am not a person to think such things.....please God help me!!!!!
Sorry for all this that happened, that's why relationship game is like a parcel in a secret box, whatsoever you untie is what you get, We only hope to get the best out of our selections.. with this kind of man you met, you will start seeing even the good ones as same... too bad, like they said, one finger picks an oil, the rest will be stained......... but still I have couple questions to ask you on this issue, but i think it will prolong this matter more.
Why should it take you all 5 good years to be dating this man? what is his age? does it mean all this 5 years he was unemployed that he's only needing money and money, you never care to discuss about his job status with him?? You mentioned about baby and married at late hours... why is it that way? and why didn't you care to listen to friends a bit and discuss with your bunny love in a way to discover his mission? My final question is, what did he do at last that make you come up with this informative news? Did you guys broke up or he succeeded in his Mission Impossible 5 ??
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 7-07-2011 07:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero |
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