i love my wife but, i dont like sex should i let her have an affair? (Page 5)

Quote from: poly23 on 15-07-2011 12:47 PM

i am in my late 32 and i have married to my wife for more than five years,it's been a happy marriage and we have two lovely teenage childre.how ever,i have never enjoyed sex so our love life has always been infrequent,it's not my wife fauit,she's always been athoughful lover,sex just isnt my thing we havent made love for a year now,my wife is frustrated about this,but i would happily never have sex again.i know is unfair,so i told her that i probably wouldnt object if she stared a discreet affair,if i dont have to hear any details,but my closest friend says i'm mad and that our marriage will be wrecked.is he right?please i need advice, what should i do.please, please and please again if you are not mature,please dont answer this question i dont need your opinion.thanks

Hmmmm, this is very interesting however this happens to quite a few, there are many things that you must rule out before you proceed.So I suggest you visit your doctor to ensure that there is not a underline medical condition that may be causing a lack of drive, if that is not the issue then maybe you should go and seek the assistance of a therapist to help you sort and possibly seek a solution as to why you are no interested. In addition, you may want to look at your diet, at times it may be the foods you are eating, it could be work stress and stress in the house...

Maybe try getting away and taking a nice vacation, just might change your mind, and then again you have did what God wanted you to do and thats be fruitful and multiple that was done with the two children you have so your duty has been done, thats the true purpose of sex. I believe that as a people we tend to forget this based upon that fact that it is quite pleasurable.  Sir,God forbid that you give your wife permission to fornicate her duty is done just relax and enjoy life together and finish raising your beautiful children together. I just pray that you still enjoy holding her at night and exchaning soft embraces and sweet kisses that is enough if true love still reigns.

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Posted: at 12-05-2012 11:05 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

my sister nah lie?

Posted: at 13-05-2012 09:37 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

lolz 

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Posted: at 18-06-2012 08:57 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

passing

Posted: at 18-06-2012 10:23 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My Brother, you are really asking for trouble here. You are the First Man I have heard him say does not like Sex. If you are asking your Wife to have sex with another man, you might as well divorce her because Adultery would be grounds for the end of the Marriage even by Bible standards (I am guessing you are a very strong christian here). Any Man's blood would boil at the thought of another man making love to his Wife. That would also be sin also by Bible Standards as well as you are making her to commit adultery anyway. If your Wife is active segxwally, do not 'dull' her by keeping her tied down to you. She would very likely have been contemplating sleeping outside the Matrimonial Bed but Her conscience would be stopping her because of you. Then what was need getting married in the first place? As a single man, your aversion to Sex would have helped you to avoid Fornication. Or were you just getting married for getting married sake?

Posted: at 19-06-2012 11:52 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 30-07-2012 09:53 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 14-08-2013 10:19 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Yawa need serious medication

Posted: at 5-07-2016 01:21 AM (7 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 5-07-2016 01:22 AM (7 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 5-07-2016 01:22 AM (7 years ago) | Hero