i love my wife but, i dont like sex should i let her have an affair?

i am in my late 32 and i have married to my wife for more than five years,it's been a happy marriage and we have two lovely teenage childre.how ever,i have never enjoyed sex so our love life has always been infrequent,it's not my wife fauit,she's always been athoughful lover,sex just isnt my thing we havent made love for a year now,my wife is frustrated about this,but i would happily never have sex again.i know is unfair,so i told her that i probably wouldnt object if she stared a discreet affair,if i dont have to hear any details,but my closest friend says i'm mad and that our marriage will be wrecked.is he right?please i need advice, what should i do.please, please and please again if you are not mature,please dont answer this question i dont need your opinion.thanks

Posted: at 15-07-2011 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Have u suddenly become impotent?

Posted: at 15-07-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

please dis is a serious case he didnt ask for insult

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

how would u like it when i say r u a barren woman or have u become barren just cos u dont have kids    does it sound nice

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

please i dont need your opinion keep it for youself,please remember i said if you are not mature or brain enough dont answer this question why are you here,

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

upon all m y dodging i am an akwabomite , lik dey say calabar girls like sex , it is partly true cos i like sex but i dont worship it , i tried my best to make sure the man i will marry has atleast sex, but after all the screening after marriage the story changed but what will u do when u r in u r in sex is not the most important thing in life , she just has to get her mind off it and she will b doing fine and adultery is a sin that will lead to hell and destroy ur beautiful home, but the best advice i dont know cos it is very difficult to stay without sex, let her get herself busy , pray to GOD to strenghten her nothing is impossible if we have the will,, if the married women here want to tell u the truth a lot are also passing through similar situation , its not new u r not alone

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

or what of those days that ou forefathers married 5 to 20 wives , do u think they satisfy the women segxwally but they still manage it

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

guy how far

Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

lol u shoulda consult a psychosegxwal they might have  some treatment cuz marriage without sex will definately be ragged so dnt sleep over it chiefly to maintain a happy home.gud luck lol

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Posted: at 15-07-2011 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming