There is this man, a low income earner, married and already has 5 kids. He felt he has more than enough kids and therefore asked his wife to go for family planning. He gave her money for it. She came back and reported that she has done the family planning. So the man fired in all direction with great confidence, not knowing the wife had not gone for the family planning. Before you know what is happening, she took in again. The man was angry and asked the woman to remove the pregnancy but she refused. Now she is in her last trimester and scan has revealed she is expecting triplets. That means if she gives birth they will have 8 kids. Now the man is so disappointed that he is saying that he no longer wants the 5 kids and the 3 on the way. But wait for it, the woman is not even done with 8 kids, she wants 12. According to her, she was shown a vision where she was told that she would have 12 kids and that her 10th and 12th kids would be great men.
1. Now, this woman showed so much irresponsibility for lying to her husband, but is family planning for women alone, I thought both partners are supposed to visit the hospital together.
2. Is the man not being irresponsible for thinking of abandoning the 5 already here and the 3 on the way?
3. If you happen to be any of the man's kids and you were told your dad abandoned you becos of this how would you react?
4. Arent couples supposed to discuss the number of kids they would have before they get married?
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Posted: at 20-07-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 20-07-2011 04:36 PM (13 years ago) (m)
@1daful, there are many twists in dis story that taking a stand from word go may appear premactured. However, the entire couple is at fault for not having settlesd the number of kids to have. The woman has a strong backing (10 &12th babies) buty she failed to disclose to her husband.
The man also is being afraid of what may not neccessarily be a problem cos many low income people have children who climb up societal ladder with no financial help but great love from their fathers. God in heaven knows that even the birds that do not plant have to eat so let this man take up his children and stay by their side!
Overally, dialogue is absent in this home!
Posted: at 20-07-2011 04:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 20-07-2011 04:46 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 20-07-2011 04:36 PM
@1daful, there are many twists in dis story that taking a stand from word go may appear premactured. However, the entire couple is at fault for not having settlesd the number of kids to have. The woman has a strong backing (10 &12th babies) buty she failed to disclose to her husband.
The man also is being afraid of what may not neccessarily be a problem cos many low income people have children who climb up societal ladder with no financial help but great love from their fathers. God in heaven knows that even the birds that do not plant have to eat so let this man take up his children and stay by their side!
Overally, dialogue is absent in this home!
I call it hallucination.........why didnt she disclose this to her hubby until they had this problem?........I see it as a ploy by the woman to meet her target......she cant be trusted
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Posted: at 20-07-2011 04:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 20-07-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Nice topic.
The woman can not be trusted. If u can do that behind ur husbands back, then i wonder wht next u can/will do. But pls the man shud stay with his family and try talk to his wife in a way she wud not try this nonsense again.
Posted: at 20-07-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Youngstoriez at 20-07-2011 07:47 PM (13 years ago) (m)
.....The man really fired from all direction!! ....But thats too bad! They are couples and suppose to discuss how many kids they really want!! its very funny....
Posted: at 20-07-2011 07:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 21-07-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-07-2011 07:31 PM
Nice topic.
The woman can not be trusted. If u can do that behind ur husbands back, then i wonder wht next u can/will do. But pls the man shud stay with his family and try talk to his wife in a way she wud not try this nonsense again.
but now that the woman wants to fulfil her 'vision' nko?.........
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Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
chiglamour4u at 21-07-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
1 dozen na investment sha atleast one or two of them go be minister dats d woman's dream but foolish enough nt to tell her husband they are couple and nothing wrong if she disclose to her husband hw many kid she will like to hv instead of playing pranks but make the man no take am affect his children is nt there fault he shld accept them and also his wife those 3 coming might just be a blessing
Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
the only way the man wil dodge the remaining 4 is to castrate himself............. ;Dbcos the woman is not willing to give up til her vision is accomplish
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
They man shuld nt abandon his family that would be too bad for him. Let him have faith in God and take care of his family and make sure after this preg... both go for family planning together so as to confirm it is done this time.
Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
adams933 at 21-07-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kebella on 21-07-2011 02:39 PM
the only way the man wil dodge the remaining 4 is to castrate himself............. ;Dbcos the woman is not willing to give up til her vision is accomplish
Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 21-07-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: kebella on 21-07-2011 02:39 PM
the only way the man wil dodge the remaining 4 is to castrate himself............. ;Dbcos the woman is not willing to give up til her vision is accomplish
hehehehe........which man wan do that kain thing?
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Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero