What Won't Make Him Love You- Another Advice for Ladies

Put These on Your DO-NOT-Do List!

Women often believe they have to be perfect to find the man of their dreams. That's rubbish. I know because my Friend was one of the women who strived for perfection for years. It didn't get her the man of her dreams. It did make her miserable though. She wasn't being herself.

Here's a list of things you shouldn't be doing in an effort to make a man fall in love with you:



Cater to his every need. There's a great chance that if you do this - cater to every whim of a man, he's going to stick around. But it's not because you are the woman for him, it's because you'll do anything he wants. NEVER cook a man dinner every night. NEVER do his laundry if you are dating. NEVER clean his apartment for him and NEVER run over to his place simply because he's feeling frisky.



Change your appearance for him. If you wear pink lipstick and the man you are dating says he prefers red, don't convert. If you do you are showing him that you are easily manipulated. Men like a woman with her own mind. Don't change who you are just because there's something about you he doesn't automatically like.



Act like his mother. Don't treat any man you are dating like a child. This means no calling him all the time. Don't ask him where he's been if you haven't heard from him in a while and never tell him to button up his coat if it's cold outside. He already has a mother, he doesn't want you to be one too.



Assume he knows what you want. Men can't read minds. Their minds also don't operate the same way yours does. If you expect a man to know what you want from him, you'll always be disappointed.



If you want to get a man to sit up and take notice of only you, you need to understand how to become irresistible to him.

Posted: at 21-12-2008 11:11 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

a very long story in here

Posted: at 21-12-2008 01:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i dont think,those things you mentioned really count.if it will work it will.if it will not,then all this is stress.

Posted: at 22-12-2008 01:06 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

the certainly like a woman that can stand on her own and not be a burden but chores,she must do.thats why its naija

Posted: at 22-12-2008 01:14 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

NA FIGHT

Posted: at 22-12-2008 01:44 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

AAK

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Posted: at 22-12-2008 04:20 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Asleep At Keyboard

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Posted: at 22-12-2008 04:46 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

i mean dis is partly true in d sense dat it applies 2 sum individuals...and partly false in d sense dat some of the dont do's actually work on some men...u see..it aall depends on d man...

Posted: at 22-12-2008 06:40 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

To my friend

Posted: at 20-08-2015 03:44 PM (8 years ago) | Hero