I have to confess my sins ,this image keeps coming into my head and each day i get more paranoid. The thing is i believe my girlfriend is way out of my league, because she is extremely beautiful and will probably find a guy better than me. This thought pains me seriously i want to cry like a child because of it.So i want to impreganate her so she will be around me for the rest of her life. i don't want to lose her.
plus i am going away for some months and she has d chances chances to cheat and i wanna lower the bar of her cheating by getting her preganant soon. I tried getting her to marry me so we don't sin,but she said she only knew me for few months and she is not ready.
God has to understand i am desperate......
I need advice pals...
what to do
Posted: at 15-08-2011 09:19 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
if you got her pregnant make sure you there for dem...
listen....don't force what is not be to be...if she is really yours' no matter what she will come back to you...even though you got her pregnant and after delievring she can still leave you and she will still find a man that will marry her.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 15-08-2011 10:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
u no befor u met her i no u must hav come across so many prety ones. U dnt need 2 border, wat is for u is for u, if she feels 2 mary another alow her bc she may not be ur rel wife. Pray God wil giv u ur own, remeber d bultiful ones are not yet bornu no befor u met her i no u must hav come across so many prety ones. U dnt need 2 border, wat is for u is for u, if she feels 2 mary another alow her bc she may not be ur rel wife. Pray God wil giv u ur own, remeber d bultiful ones are not yet born
Posted: at 16-08-2011 12:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
I have to confess my sins ,this image keeps coming into my head and each day i get more paranoid. The thing is i believe my girlfriend is way out of my league, because she is extremely beautiful and will probably find a guy better than me. This thought pains me seriously i want to cry like a child because of it.So i want to impreganate her so she will be around me for the rest of her life. i don't want to lose her.
plus i am going away for some months and she has d chances chances to cheat and i wanna lower the bar of her cheating by getting her preganant soon. I tried getting her to marry me so we don't sin,but she said she only knew me for few months and she is not ready.
God has to understand i am desperate......
I need advice pals...
what to do
u mean ur AMEOBA GF? how can u be sleeping with an ameoba. that shows u r an animal
Posted: at 16-08-2011 02:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Empress_Ameera at 16-08-2011 02:17 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Well first and foremost you must work on your insecurities. Did she ever give you a reason to think she would cheat on you? Getting her pregnant is not the answer especially considering that you both barely know each other and you are not married. She declined to marry you because of such. Do you honestly think getting her pregnant would keep her? Possibly no, she is not ready for marriage thus I would imagine she is not ready to have a baby. If you leave and she cheats then darling she is not the one for you. The same way you got her you will surely get another. Just be prayerful and more importantly continue to be faithful. Allow your relationship to blossom naturally. Good luck I will keep you in my prayers.
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part.
Posted: at 16-08-2011 02:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
pisces80 at 16-08-2011 03:27 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Impreganting your galfriend doesn't gaurante her being with you forever, there is more to a forever relationship than just kids.. What if at the long run you find out that she is not what you wanted for yourself with all her beauty.. So easy up man..
Posted: at 16-08-2011 03:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
whitedove255 at 16-08-2011 10:55 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: fjoeaug on 16-08-2011 02:00 AM
Quote from: Emmanuel88 on 15-08-2011 09:19 PM
I have to confess my sins ,this image keeps coming into my head and each day i get more paranoid. The thing is i believe my girlfriend is way out of my league, because she is extremely beautiful and will probably find a guy better than me. This thought pains me seriously i want to cry like a child because of it.So i want to impreganate her so she will be around me for the rest of her life. i don't want to lose her.
plus i am going away for some months and she has d chances chances to cheat and i wanna lower the bar of her cheating by getting her preganant soon. I tried getting her to marry me so we don't sin,but she said she only knew me for few months and she is not ready.
God has to understand i am desperate......
I need advice pals...
what to do
u mean ur AMEOBA GF? how can u be sleeping with an ameoba. that shows u r an animal
lollz ...so your girl friend is very beautiful that you are feeling insecure ...but you said that all nigerian women are shaped like amoeba in your other post..... yeye guy
Posted: at 16-08-2011 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I have to confess my sins ,this image keeps coming into my head and each day i get more paranoid. The thing is i believe my girlfriend is way out of my league, because she is extremely beautiful and will probably find a guy better than me. This thought pains me seriously i want to cry like a child because of it.So i want to impreganate her so she will be around me for the rest of her life. i don't want to lose her.
plus i am going away for some months and she has d chances chances to cheat and i wanna lower the bar of her cheating by getting her preganant soon. I tried getting her to marry me so we don't sin,but she said she only knew me for few months and she is not ready.
God has to understand i am desperate......
I need advice pals...
what to do
u mean ur AMEOBA GF? how can u be sleeping with an ameoba. that shows u r an animal
thank u jare
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 16-08-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bibismall at 16-08-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) (f)
All that glitters is not gold! U'll be damned if u marry her looks and not for who she is or ur compatibilities! By the way, wat makes u fink wen ur married she cant cheat on u?
The price of life is not for starters but for finishers".
Posted: at 16-08-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
katung44 at 17-08-2011 04:55 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Hate to break it to you this way but, there's a saying that 'when hunters learn to shoot without missing, Birds learn to fly without landing'. I may have an idea of how much you love this girl but, what makes you think getting her pregnant will stop her from cheating on you if she really wants to? (God forbid that she does). If she loves you like you love her, that would be completely unnecessary. Besides, why play into her hands like that? That pregnancy Rouse is the oldest strategy in the book and seems to be losing its efficacy with every passing day. If she finds out that you were trying to tie her down with your baby, odds are she may end up hating you. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how you would feel if a girl tries to tie you down with a pregnancy. Loving something does not mean wanting to keep it with you at all cost. God loved human beings a lot but, not enough to force them into choosing salvation against their will. One of the greatest gifts of love is freedom.
Posted: at 17-08-2011 04:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming