Real Men Don't Cry Or Do They??? (Page 2)

Real men in my book is the person that falls and gets up. Otherwise, men do cry and entitled to cry whenever and however they feel like. Men are human beings and are bound to show emotions. Emotions can be shown different ways but it is upbringing and maturity that prevents some men and women from crying and shouting publicly. The notion that real men don't cry is complete rubbish..are the so called real men not human beings?
The notion that men that cry are weak is also rubbish. It is the macho thing men use to deceive women. I am a man and I don't cry easily. I have better ways of handling my emotions. I can't remember the last time I cried anyway because I am not the crying type but that doesn't mean that I am stronger than other men or women. It doesn't mean I belong into the group of real men. I don't want to be called a real man because I am not foolish. Carrying my problems inside me will kill me and stop me from moving on. It is not recommended. If I have to cry to shed some emotions believe me I will do it but the problem is I will scare almost everyone that is around me with my crying ugly face.
Time has come when we men should stop deceiving ourselves and women folks. Simply because you can thrust a dagger into another human being's heart easily doesn't mean that you are stronger than a woman that cries before doing that. Women are stronger than men. Women will cry because of emotions and when they wipe their tears they will do something that the so called real men with stoned face would not even dream of doing.

Posted: at 11-09-2011 03:53 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

real men are real men

Posted: at 11-09-2011 04:32 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Its okey to cry, anyone can do it, but it need not be visible for a man to be seen by others, especially by those whom will evaluate their credibility in their profession, and career advancement.In his own household,its alright for a caring wife to see her husband cry.But between a woman and a man, its not good when a man starts to cry, because, it seems like the problem/ issue faced is too big to be handled amicably.Conclusively its not good when a man is depressed.It can make him useless.Because a man is expected to be more smart than his woman and be able to take care of issues-even when its actually his woman who's solving things from behind.

Men are just expected to be more able to manage stress and pressure.

Posted: at 11-09-2011 07:21 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

My dear poster may be u don’t understand that phrase. U see every man do cry but it depends on the issue at hand that will make one to cry.
Secondly real men do shed only tears, not to cry like women.

Posted: at 11-09-2011 10:07 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

real men can cry afterall deyre human beings and ve emotions too but can cry only wen it is necessary sha

Posted: at 12-09-2011 08:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Either real or fake. They cry.

Posted: at 12-09-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hahahahaha

Posted: at 12-09-2011 02:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 13-09-2011 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

When man don dey sing 4 woman e no go tey b4 him start 2 dey cry 4 woman...bt real(original not photocopy),laugh wen cheatd on,smile when laughd at,takes correction heartily,controls his emotions.... nd remove  his tear gland b4 puberty bt loves GOD nd neva givs up his faith 4 wateva reasn.REAL MEN DONT CRY BUT WATER COME OUT OF THEIR EYE if them cut onions.

Posted: at 13-09-2011 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming