Settle an Argument: "Is He Neglecting His Wife on Weekends?"

Chukwuemeka, 40, and Obianjuwa, 35, have been married for 19 years and have no kids. They both only work part-time, so they see each other frequently during the work-week.  On the weekends, Obianjuwa likes to do things together as a couple, but Chukwuemeka likes to have more time to himself.

How much time should they spend together, and how much time should they spend independently? Who's right in this situation?



Emeka says: "We spend a lot of time together during the weeks, so sometimes I just like a little independence. I think it makes us closer as a couple when we do things apart, that way we actually have things to talk about when we are together.

Obianjuwa says: "Since we don't have any kids, Emeka is my only immediate family member, so who else am I going to spend my time with? When he wants to do things on his own, it hurts my feelings and makes me feel like he doesn't want to be with me anymore."

On whose side are you ON ?
Emeka
Obianjuwa

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Remove my name for there jor>>>>>>>>>>>

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 05:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

 

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 05:42 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

I go with d PDS Bus.

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 06:04 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

See u i put ya name u knw happy ,  
u better beg pple make emeka dey wella u for weekend  

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 06:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 14-09-2011 07:04 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

tumbom tumbom last calaba titi alaba puss,,, alaba alaba kai kai titi bus and bus..................... I will go with both of dem

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Posted: at 15-09-2011 12:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 15-09-2011 02:29 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

sometimes a man needs to be alone so he can think, women dont always understand this. All they kw is what they want and if dont give them,they think you are not 'this' or 'that' I pity those men who are in prison in the name of marriage.
 

Posted: at 15-09-2011 07:50 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Abioo my brother!

Posted: at 15-09-2011 08:26 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming