I'm sexy whether you like it or not

Date: 22-09-2011 1:29 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Miss Petite Nigeria
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- at 22-09-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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 ;)Last month, a couple of friends and I were debating on how to best describe our individual outlooks.When it came to who could be considered sexy, I wasn’t picked. Huh? Why? According to them, I was pretty and homely. The girl a man see’s and thinks of a house and kids not a “bed”. As much as that was a compliment, I thought to myself” I want to be sexy” not just pretty. Men are attracted to sexy.  :-*They said” Emeh, you can never be sexy. You smile a lot; you have that shy appearance, look like a daddy’s girl and you don’t have that attitude. Grin



That lead me on my quest to understand the rationale behind the word” sexy.
I’ve tried to get a single definition of a sexy woman but it hasn’t been possible. I went to the extent of carrying out a survey” Rihanna or Beyonce who’s sexier? Shockingly, 98% of men said Rihanna is sexier than Beyonce.  Roll Eyes ::)According to them, Beyonce tries too hard to prove herself. She is everywhere, all up in your face....

 Initially, I was shocked, Beyonce’s bum could cause a minor earthquake, she dances like a robot, she whines her body like a snake...I kept giving reasons why Beyonce is sexier, but the general reason was, Rihanna has found a comfortable zone. She’s dark, intense and crazy. She doesn’t try to prove that she’s the sexiest woman in the world.

Unlike a woman who is generally considered beautiful, pretty or gorgeous, a sexy woman more often than not isn’t even beautiful.  :-\She isn’t out there in your face. She could be sexy because of the way she giggles or how intense her eyes are, or because she’s confident in her skin. It can’t not be fined tuned to a particular attitude or behavior. Some women think sexiness is all about pouting the lips, wearing skimpy outfits, splashing on layers or makeup, Embarrassed or worse still openly flirting with men. Sexiness is skin deep.

Yesterday,I was with this very intelligent and sexy man (lol)) when the issue cropped up. He made a very important point” Being sexy is not about being beautiful or an attitude or makeup. Shocked As a matter of fact, most men would consider a natural lady as sexy. To him, you don’t have to try too hard; it’s either there or not”. Well, he ended the conversation with” But, I think you’re very sexy” (don’t hate) and he meant it!  Grin Grin

Grin

Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- add12 at 22-09-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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thats true babe.
Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 22-09-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Being sexy is not about being beautiful or an attitude or makeup

Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-09-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Miss_precious on 22-09-2011 01:39 PM
Being sexy is not about being beautiful or an attitude or makeup


God u r sexy too  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 22-09-2011 01:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Ok........check me out too.........since you had to wait on dat man to tell you, am waiting on you to tell me too...where do i belong?

Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 22-09-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago)
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eheheheheeeeeeee !!! @ DP u are all round" womanlly"  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-09-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 123Sonia at 22-09-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 22-09-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 22-09-2011 01:59 PM
eheheheheeeeeeee !!! @ DP u are all round" womanlly"  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

hehehehehe.........na poster verdict i dey wait for you......no be your own.......lol

Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- emepretty at 22-09-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago)
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[email protected] are sexy in a Godly way Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oldboy7 at 22-09-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 22-09-2011 01:54 PM
Ok........check me out too.........since you had to wait on dat man to tell you, am waiting on you to tell me too...where do i belong?

I guess u belong to the very sexy group. Dont crucify me cos thats wht my eye tell me
Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- mediaexcell at 22-09-2011 02:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: emepretty on 22-09-2011 02:30 PM
[email protected] are sexy in a Godly way Grin Grin
  Grin Grin
Posted: at 22-09-2011 02:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 22-09-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm no comment for now..but i go with beyonce over rihanna any day cuz she's sexier.period!
Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 22-09-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 22-09-2011 01:40 PM
Quote from: Miss_precious on 22-09-2011 01:39 PM
Being sexy is not about being beautiful or an attitude or makeup


God u r sexy too  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
50 u wont change,anyways I WANT TO LOOK SEXY SOMEONE PLS HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Roll Eyes
Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 22-09-2011 02:09 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 22-09-2011 01:59 PM
eheheheheeeeeeee !!! @ DP u are all round" womanlly"  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

hehehehehe.........na poster verdict i dey wait for you......no be your own.......lol

so wetin come happen to my verdict ?  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mediaexcell at 22-09-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: emepretty on 22-09-2011 01:29 PM
;)Last month, a couple of friends and I were debating on how to best describe our individual outlooks.When it came to who could be considered sexy, I wasn’t picked. Huh? Why? According to them, I was pretty and homely. The girl a man see’s and thinks of a house and kids not a “bed”. As much as that was a compliment, I thought to myself” I want to be sexy” not just pretty. Men are attracted to sexy.  :-*They said” Emeh, you can never be sexy. You smile a lot; you have that shy appearance, look like a daddy’s girl and you don’t have that attitude. Grin

That lead me on my quest to understand the rationale behind the word” sexy.
I’ve tried to get a single definition of a sexy woman but it hasn’t been possible. I went to the extent of carrying out a survey” Rihanna or Beyonce who’s sexier? Shockingly, 98% of men said Rihanna is sexier than Beyonce.  Roll Eyes ::)According to them, Beyonce tries too hard to prove herself. She is everywhere, all up in your face....

 Initially, I was shocked, Beyonce’s bum could cause a minor earthquake, she dances like a robot, she whines her body like a snake...I kept giving reasons why Beyonce is sexier, but the general reason was, Rihanna has found a comfortable zone. She’s dark, intense and crazy. She doesn’t try to prove that she’s the sexiest woman in the world.

Unlike a woman who is generally considered beautiful, pretty or gorgeous, a sexy woman more often than not isn’t even beautiful.  :-\She isn’t out there in your face. She could be sexy because of the way she giggles or how intense her eyes are, or because she’s confident in her skin. It can’t not be fined tuned to a particular attitude or behavior. Some women think sexiness is all about pouting the lips, wearing skimpy outfits, splashing on layers or makeup, Embarrassed or worse still openly flirting with men. Sexiness is skin deep.

Yesterday,I was with this very intelligent and sexy man (lol)) when the issue cropped up. He made a very important point” Being sexy is not about being beautiful or an attitude or makeup. Shocked As a matter of fact, most men would consider a natural lady as sexy. To him, you don’t have to try too hard; it’s either there or not”. Well, he ended the conversation with” But, I think you’re very sexy” (don’t hate) and he meant it!  Grin Grin

Grin

dont know wat to coment.. but i think uve got a point, being beautiful/preety is different from being sexy, beautiful gurls/ladies normally looks more adorable/gorgeous than sexy that, i think, is one of the attributes...most times sexy is derive from the "packaging" . for yuh poster me think u re preety/beautiful,little bit sexy thats my verdict..

u can appeal if u aint ok with it.  Wink         
Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 22-09-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago)
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lolz

Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mediaexcell at 22-09-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago)
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onyiis u re beauri..... Lips Sealed
Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 22-09-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago)
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nd sexy lol
Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 22-09-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: emepretty on 22-09-2011 02:30 PM
[email protected] are sexy in a Godly way Grin Grin

Hehehehe.........see ooo...........Godly way......... Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 22-09-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oldboy7 on 22-09-2011 02:54 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 22-09-2011 01:54 PM
Ok........check me out too.........since you had to wait on dat man to tell you, am waiting on you to tell me too...where do i belong?

I guess u belong to the very sexy group. Dont crucify me cos thats wht my eye tell me

hahahaha.......remove that spec for ur eyes first..........it is very important.......

Posted: at 22-09-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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