Most ladies believe that there are miraculous strategies are needed to be utilized in order to capture the attention of that attractive and intriguing man sitting across ‘a so called café. What does it take to get a man's attention? Well, it really depends on the situation. Some men will enjoy an encounter with a flirtatious lady while others are looking for intellectual stimulation and a pleasant conversation. If you want to be irresistible before guys, you have to learn something about the art of flirting. Knowing a bit more about this psychology will help you to achieve the desired goal, as well.
The Art of Flirting
Flirting is an art and something that you need to master in order to get the attention of any man to become interested in you alone. The art of flirting is certainly not about appearance. It involves body language and knowing how to entice and get somebody interested. Flirting is not about putting a skimpy skirt in order to display your hot ravishing feet. It focuses on hints and gentle suggestions about what you have and what you can offer in order to melt him. Nevertheless, you should be able to make a clear distinction between the enticing and arrogance. Some flirts can turn into tasteless displays. Be an adorable lady and simile always. The key toward capturing a man's attention is to make him expect something more each time he sees you.
Take the Lead
We are living in a world of equality and I believe this presents new array of opportunities for especially single ladies. Instead of waiting for him to ask you out, you should go ahead and take the initiative. Many men are enchanted by women who know how to take the lead and are brave enough to do so. This radiates confidence. It is wrong to foolishly think that he has to be the one who would make the first move? Go across that night club and say ‘hello’. Chances are that he will be impressed by your boldness and independence. Standing out and doing something different from other women is a great way to get noticed.
Self-Confidence
Self-confidence will help you get noticed. You will never capture the attention of a man by sitting modestly and waiting for someone to discover you. Successful women know what they are worth. They are capable of assessing their strengths and shortcomings. Confident women feel good in their skin and it really shows. Learn to love yourself and guys will begin to notice you. Each woman has a number of beautiful characteristics that deserve to be praised. You are special and important. You will get nowhere by having a feeling of inferiority and intimidation by potential love partners.
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Well SIR>>>>>>>>>> The flirting: flirting.... Using body language to show interest in a guy is different from flirting with him esp if its the first time. Take the Lead: the only time I will ask him out is if we are deep into each other; that's when I will take him to the restaurant/wherever he likes. But in this world, no matter what you are going thru...never you make the first move on a guy, let him approach you first bcos that's what God created him for. The ladies should only response with their body language showing their interest. And never play hard to get, but we should always keep our values, a real man will respect it, but a player will make us devalued ourselves.
Self-confidence: You right but you didn't elaborate on the importance/benefit of a woman's confidence. To me, this is not for 9ja babes.
Posted: at 11-12-2011 03:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 12-12-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) (f)
i dont need any tips to get a mans attention....
My real sef..Natural beauty Natural hair...No weavon smooth face ..no pimples or eczima pointed nose like oyibo own..,sexy seductive eyes.. fine straight legs flat tommy...not beer belle correct boobie small nyash Small sexy cute red lips..without lip stick or gloss..Inteligence,smart,good sense of humour..obidience sumtyms fun to be with..and plenty plenty tins wey go make the man sharperly come meet me...not all these...this secrets no go work for me at all..not for my kinda 9ja babe wen i be..i no dey carry last at all
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-12-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 12-12-2011 10:09 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 11-12-2011 03:03 AM
Well SIR>>>>>>>>>> The flirting: flirting.... Using body language to show interest in a guy is different from flirting with him esp if its the first time. Take the Lead: the only time I will ask him out is if we are deep into each other; that's when I will take him to the restaurant/wherever he likes. But in this world, no matter what you are going thru...never you make the first move on a guy, let him approach you first bcos that's what God created him for. The ladies should only response with their body language showing their interest. And never play hard to get, but we should always keep our values, a real man will respect it, but a player will make us devalued ourselves.
Self-confidence: You right but you didn't elaborate on the importance/benefit of a woman's confidence. To me, this is not for 9ja babes.
tell am
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 12-12-2011 10:09 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
trolling at 12-12-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 11-12-2011 03:03 AM
Well SIR>>>>>>>>>> The flirting: flirting.... Using body language to show interest in a guy is different from flirting with him esp if its the first time. Take the Lead: the only time I will ask him out is if we are deep into each other; that's when I will take him to the restaurant/wherever he likes. But in this world, no matter what you are going thru...never you make the first move on a guy, let him approach you first bcos that's what God created him for. The ladies should only response with their body language showing their interest. And never play hard to get, but we should always keep our values, a real man will respect it, but a player will make us devalued ourselves.
Self-confidence: You right but you didn't elaborate on the importance/benefit of a woman's confidence. To me, this is not for 9ja babes. You talk small sense, but yu still didnt get my attention
Posted: at 12-12-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My real sef..Natural beauty Natural hair...No weavon smooth face ..no pimples or eczima pointed nose like oyibo own..,sexy seductive eyes.. fine straight legs flat tommy...not beer belle correct boobie small nyash Small sexy cute red lips..without lip stick or gloss..Inteligence,smart,good sense of humour..obidience sumtyms fun to be with..and plenty plenty tins wey go make the man sharperly come meet me...not all these...this secrets no go work for me at all..not for my kinda 9ja babe wen i be..i no dey carry last at all
good in bed ........ good cook
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 12-12-2011 02:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Well SIR>>>>>>>>>> The flirting: flirting.... Using body language to show interest in a guy is different from flirting with him esp if its the first time. Take the Lead: the only time I will ask him out is if we are deep into each other; that's when I will take him to the restaurant/wherever he likes. But in this world, no matter what you are going thru...never you make the first move on a guy, let him approach you first bcos that's what God created him for. The ladies should only response with their body language showing their interest. And never play hard to get, but we should always keep our values, a real man will respect it, but a player will make us devalued ourselves.
Self-confidence: You right but you didn't elaborate on the importance/benefit of a woman's confidence. To me, this is not for 9ja babes.
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 12-12-2011 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero