if you love him don,t rush into a fresh relationship just give him time he will surely come back ur child is his if truely he loves u and cannot be a barrier but u must find a way to appologise ur error it is wrong for u to have kept it away from day one but for the car u should have got married first b4 buying a car for a man is like investing on a building one is not sure of another may take over it but keep carm at least for some time he is already use to u he will come back.but be careful in handling the car issue it may help in recovery process and it can also aggravate the problem depending how u handle it
It may also depend on his family u know them, some family doesn,t accept that while it gives another an opportunity to know that you are not barren so cheer up sister | Posted: at 19-11-2011 02:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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officially the car belong to the lucky guy the lady have no rightful claim of it and she can stop payment any time she want cos the car is not hers let her not be in haste wait for some time may be the bf can still come back if on the contrary she can only lay claim to her money through the law court with proof of payment let her handle it first with caution not to committ another error double mistake has already been made having a child out of wedlock but did right for not getting rade of it ,she fail to tell her bf at the beginning now she must be careful for the 3rd time just be sending messages to his phone also perhaps someone close to him to talk to him on ur behalf try ur best before giving up | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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make sure u collect ur car back from him and he cn go to hell,if he love u he surpose to accept ur child. | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Aknankanan") Aknankanan at 19-11-2011 05:13 AM (13 years ago)  (m) jst joking,bt that sounded way 2 harsh.  | Posted: at 19-11-2011 05:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "nmaholder") nmaholder at 19-11-2011 05:27 AM (13 years ago) (m) for me i see no reason for that guy leaving d girl cuz maybe it could be from experience for which she didn't tell him that she have a kid cuz some guys don't luv people with kid but she luv him so much n decided not to tell him but to tell him on a later date but that guy i show he a mad man cuz can u imagine he was jobless for 3 yrs living with d girl n for me there is no problem for him leaving d girl cuz maybe he will never had a kid in life n he can boast of that kid n d situation of that car he will have to return it cuz if he don't return it he will surely die when driving that car n am very sorry about those women who are making crazy comments n they don't have a kid n has did abortions for many, many times ex: crazy (kEBELLA )who I don't think she has a boyfriend before i talk about marry but I advise that guy to go n beg that girl. | Posted: at 19-11-2011 05:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 19-11-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago) (m) Abeg NP pals what do you think this gurl should do!!! My name is sarah am 29yrs old babe from ORLU in imo state,I have been dating a guy 4 de passed 3yrs. He lost his job b4 I met him n I never mind we have been 2getter living off my salary. Our love was so strong that we were de talk n envy of many who never knew I was de one spending de money. l have a fixed job while he doesn't, last year we both agreed 2 pay 4 a car(2.2million) install-mentally o...f which He was officially de owner cos we were already planning marriage. But I have to keep paying 4 it till he gets a job. 3months ago he proposed n I told him that he needs to get a job first b4 marriage n that I also have a baby girl when I was in secondary school, who is living with my mum in my town. He got up n shouted at me n said why did I not tell him since. He walked away n since then he has been behaving funny n don't pick my calls most times. He even stopped coming to church n when ever I go to his house he always refuse opening de door even when de neighbor told me he is inside n sometimes de TV will be on. So I read de hand writing on de wall that he has walked out of de relationship. Its been 3months we broke up, 3months I have still been paying 4 the car of which I am no longer enjoying from!!! Pls what do I do? DO I COLLECT MY CAR BACK? Am CONFUSED  money can not buy love (X2).....ladies in d house take note..if u keep spending for lazyyyyy guy he would surely take you for granted..meanwhile i'm not surprise..coz d heart of human is unpredictable..hiding your own child for your 'supposed' future husband for a whopping three good years is absolutely madness!....though that's not an excuse for walking away..i believe he used your daughter issue as an excuse..he doesn't love in d fist place,rather using you to solve his financial needs.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 19-11-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "queenrukky") queenrukky at 19-11-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) (f) love is blind,doeosnt mean ur head is blocked 2.ah some gals sef...buy a car 4 sum1 u not yet married 2?wat hv u given 2 ur mum,dats takin care of ur daughter?  ?...na wa o | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 19-11-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)  kebella u too much  a man should b a man its not just about having some long thing in between the laps, he has to show it no b mouth | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) (f) jst joking,bt that sounded way 2 harsh. harshness is in my blood 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "ajanni") ajanni at 19-11-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) (m) thats too bad then | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) (f) for me i see no reason for that guy leaving d girl cuz maybe it could be from experience for which she didn't tell him that she have a kid cuz some guys don't luv people with kid but she luv him so much n decided not to tell him but to tell him on a later date but that guy i show he a mad man cuz can u imagine he was jobless for 3 yrs living with d girl n for me there is no problem for him leaving d girl cuz maybe he will never had a kid in life n he can boast of that kid n d situation of that car he will have to return it cuz if he don't return it he will surely die when driving that car n am very sorry about those women who are making crazy comments n they don't have a kid n has did abortions for many, many times ex: crazy (kEBELLA )who I don't think she has a boyfriend before i talk about marry but I advise that guy to go n beg that girl.
newbie hop ur not seeking for notice n' next time pls check spelling  fool ur just thinking .........wait til my my daughter pay ur groom price idiot 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) kebella u too much a man should b a man its not just about having some long thing in between the laps, he has to show it no b mouth imagine na long thing we go chop............smelly thing  
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 19-11-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) my family is my responsibility that means when i am done helping my family i will help anyother human being independent of his gender, if i think he needs help i will help him but if i see he wants to suck me dry i will learn fast that he doesnt need help and invest my money on useful things, but u see girls like dis girl when they see someone that is suffering and really need help they will never help u , ask her if she has bought a car for her parents u will see the answer is no, u dont even know if her parent are dieing of hunger and if her little girl has enough for herself, do what u want , my people say if u dont spend your money for a good course u will surely lavish it for nonsense  , i am not surprised | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:38 PM (13 years ago) (f) good radiant to bad rubbish!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:38 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 19-11-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) (f) no mind dat gbeke | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) lol swty how ur fam ...............hapi wkend 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:41 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 19-11-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) (f) she just dey flow moni lyk sey d said guy na Johnny Deeps
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 19-11-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) (f) we r fine thanks nice dat u r around have a lovely weekend too | Posted: at 19-11-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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