I am scared of having sex

Date: 17-01-2009 6:46 pm (16 years ago) | Author: enny yeti
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- at 17-01-2009 06:46 PM (16 years ago)
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i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.

Posted: at 17-01-2009 06:46 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- Beautydiva at 17-01-2009 06:58 PM (16 years ago)
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Despite being scared, do u really want 2 have 'it'.
Follow ur mind & do wot u feel is best 4 u.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 06:58 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eve991 at 17-01-2009 07:14 PM (16 years ago)
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It will be better if u make yr own decision..be wise
Posted: at 17-01-2009 07:14 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- baloo at 17-01-2009 07:16 PM (16 years ago)
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be careful and make d right choice
althou it is beta ya  wait  till ......
Posted: at 17-01-2009 07:16 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eagleseyez at 17-01-2009 08:49 PM (16 years ago)
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its a thing of da mind
my advice: save it, its
worth saving...dont make
him rush u into him, but
still try make him happy
Posted: at 17-01-2009 08:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 17-01-2009 08:55 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: enny_yeti on 17-01-2009 06:46 PM
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.

well, u just hav to face ur worst fears somtimes

anytime u feel lyke its tyme to do it, make sure he uses a condom
Posted: at 17-01-2009 08:55 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 17-01-2009 09:08 PM (16 years ago)
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Yu're Scared? Then Wait until yur Mind is Ready for it...

Personally, l'll Advice yu to wait till yu're 20
Posted: at 17-01-2009 09:08 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 17-01-2009 09:21 PM (16 years ago)
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There's a lot of ways U could get her to feel the desire in U to make things more personal between the both of U like U want, if U can just be (and act) a little more confident, U'll succeed in transfering that same urge into her by Ur mannerisms around her. With that, U won't have to say much. Don't ask a girl out. Grant her "her" desire to be Ur girl. It's all in Ur works guy. Hope U understand me.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 09:21 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 17-01-2009 09:30 PM (16 years ago)
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Did yu Read the thing at all?
Posted: at 17-01-2009 09:30 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beautydiva at 17-01-2009 10:25 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 17-01-2009 09:30 PM
Did yu Read the thing at all?

 Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 17-01-2009 10:25 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 17-01-2009 10:36 PM (16 years ago)
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No mind am, after he go say l don dey Look for he Trouble... See as he Serious for Picture anyhow...
Posted: at 17-01-2009 10:36 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vivian07 at 17-01-2009 10:42 PM (16 years ago)
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he did not read it.he only glanced at it.
my dear u re still too young for wat u re getting involved into.just wait a little longer,if the guy loves u he will wait for u. cos its worth waiting for.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 10:42 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- gen2esther at 17-01-2009 11:15 PM (16 years ago)
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Do not allow any guy to convince you to doing what u're not ready for, try and explain to him ur reasons of not wanting to have sex with him now, if he cares for u, he'll be reasonable.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 11:15 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- serene_child at 18-01-2009 12:58 AM (16 years ago)
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this issue of sex again?.....sex is over rated!
Posted: at 18-01-2009 12:58 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fjoeaug at 18-01-2009 01:04 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: enny_yeti on 17-01-2009 06:46 PM
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
gal,pals b4 me has said it all........if u r scard then ma dear DON'T.anyway u alone knows wats good 4 u so decide.............GOOD LUCK AS U MAKE D CHOICE Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool
Posted: at 18-01-2009 01:04 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- serene_child at 18-01-2009 01:23 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Beautydiva on 17-01-2009 06:58 PM
Despite being scared, do u really want 2 have 'it'.
Follow ur mind & do wot u feel is best 4 u.

ur not encouraging her are u?
Posted: at 18-01-2009 01:23 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akjasper at 18-01-2009 02:31 AM (16 years ago)
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Is either u have sex or remain a
virgin till u die ,,, so wt are u scared of???
Posted: at 18-01-2009 02:31 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 18-01-2009 04:03 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: enny_yeti on 17-01-2009 06:46 PM
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
dat means u r willing succumb to ur guys wishes...only dat u r scared.
if u hv made up ur mind....can't advice u on how not to be scared.
but if he really loves u...he will wait for u till u ready.
Posted: at 18-01-2009 04:03 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- digitalman at 18-01-2009 04:12 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 17-01-2009 09:21 PM
There's a lot of ways U could get her to feel the desire in U to make things more personal between the both of U like U want, if U can just be (and act) a little more confident, U'll succeed in transfering that same urge into her by Ur mannerisms around her. With that, U won't have to say much. Don't ask a girl out. Grant her "her" desire to be Ur girl. It's all in Ur works guy. Hope U understand me.
Huh? Huh? are u alright  Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 18-01-2009 04:12 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- digitalman at 18-01-2009 04:13 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 17-01-2009 09:30 PM
Did yu Read the thing at all?

 Grin i wonder oo
Posted: at 18-01-2009 04:13 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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